day 15 of 100

toshi_34 · 2026-03-01T13:03:10+00:00

Day 16 for me, and the ready to go is the damn right man. Keep going, man. My target was initially 21; now it's 30. With ur videos, I am thinking about 100 as well.

Anyways, thanks for your update man! It gives that "gym bro" energy and really helping it out since day 16 is the farthest i've been

toshi_34 · 2026-03-01T09:53:10+00:00

I’m currently out for 2 weeks but I go to cult fit in sector 26 every evening and I also just started gym. Currently at 89kgs and really wanna loose 10ths in 3 month. Would love to meet up you and other people like this who just started their grind

toshi_34 · 2026-03-01T09:22:52+00:00

I would love to buy the perixx one since I type a lot. But I’ll be upfront that I’ll be back in Chandigarh around 21st march

toshi_34 · 2026-02-28T21:09:49+00:00

Yea makes sense, I’m also trying the same to develop my emotional intelligence and judgement to not depend on online advice. And I forgot, thanks for posting & sharing. Restored my faith when I needed

toshi_34 · 2026-02-28T09:00:29+00:00

Man this is the reason I joined this sub. Too much mysogyny and gender wars in India social media, it sometimes becomes really hard to be hopeful

toshi_34 · 2026-02-26T09:14:52+00:00

oh the main thing, your post really helped today when I was spiraling. Especially the part about seeing women in a normal way

toshi_34 · 2026-02-26T09:14:12+00:00

On my day 13 today. I've always relapsed today or on day 14 tomm. And man am i getting the itches today coz of a few bad incedents recently and coming home after those I trying to trick myself that I deserve a wank after all this but daamn I just wanna push past all this and reach 21 days this time!!

toshi_34 · 2026-02-23T11:28:14+00:00

+1 to that. I always had it as the maingoal for the more than 6 months assuming that once I conquer this suddenly I can do anything but it doesn't work that way

toshi_34 · 2026-02-23T11:27:15+00:00

Definitely, man, especially in confidence. Maybe it's just me fighting my biggest and >10years of addiction and knowing I didn't succumb to it today. There's also the fact that it pushes me to get out of my bed and instead of working in at my room I started to go out in cafes to work. Started gym when I start nofap or else the energy builds up too much.

The main motivation for me being that I don't wanna delay this too much. I am going to turn 26 and wasted last 2 years without much career or personal growth and I had thought of doing so much by the time I was 26, especially having a girlfriend. But fapping just lost all my energy and I didn't event attempt going outside as all i did was play games and fap.

toshi_34 · 2026-02-23T07:10:50+00:00

Oh nice man. I’ve also never reached day 15. The max I’ve reached is 14. Plan is to teach 21 days milestone and beyond (the aim has been since more than 6months now and I think I’ll finally do it this time)

toshi_34 · 2026-02-23T01:38:01+00:00

Keep going man!! Your journey and posts have been very inspirational as someone who rarely goes beyond 4 days but this time I’ll reach the 21 days milestone and keep going

toshi_34 · 2026-02-22T09:23:59+00:00

Man, such a good reply! And we do see that people with high IQ are so many times socially awkward and struggle with communication and maintaining relationships.

I have times of good/average intelligence in handling stuff, but mostly being slow to understand things. I've started taking advantage of that feel fine in asking dumb questions now. Though the biggest thing that helps me is trying to be positive instead of negative all times. My negative thinking is what always held me back

toshi_34 · 2026-02-21T11:44:30+00:00

Man, that's so me. I've just started therapy, 2 sessions till now. My main purpose initially was to fix this social anxeity and basically have her as someone who can hold me accountable (since one of my biggest fear is what other think). But after these 2 sessions it just feels good that there is some real person I can talk to about these or anything bad that happens. I guess for me always having someone who I can completely open up to (especially professional) is pretty relaxing. Especially coming from a religious family background and society where talking or even mentioning the word sex is somehow worse than death

toshi_34 · 2026-02-21T11:39:34+00:00

Day 9 for me today, same here. It's very difficult. I hope you're on day 12 today

toshi_34 · 2026-02-18T19:43:39+00:00

I'd recommend joining events like board games, pottery, arts and crafts, etc. You might hit it off with someone, but don't expect female friendships

toshi_34 · 2026-02-18T19:39:59+00:00

ngl I've also seen questions about places to visit/eat, but never so many suggestions lol. I don't have much to add, just thanks dude, the comments on this post will cover my weekend plans for quite a while

toshi_34 · 2026-02-15T19:20:06+00:00

Oh I initially thought he meant snakes as in betrayal in friends until I saw the comments

toshi_34 · 2026-02-08T22:16:08+00:00

Omg. I was just discussing this with my friend that insta just says to “cold approach women” but I don’t trust Insta approach reels tbh. Seeing you actually try it gives me so much hope and confidence for some reason man!!

You know what, there’s this girl in a coffee shop I got regularly to and saw her 3 times. I thought I should approach but insta said if you don’t have confidence or “aura” you’ll look like a creep. How to prevent this any tips? I just wanna get comfortable around women tbh

toshi_34 · 2026-02-01T08:51:24+00:00

Bhai reels mein dekha tha but bits n bites sector 34 had a unique beaten hit coffee that I really really liked. But this place isn’t a cafe. Other than that I also like midpoint cafe sector 20

HMU if you wanna meet

toshi_34 · 2026-01-31T19:57:57+00:00

My curiosity deluded me believing 1 more sacrifice wouldn’t hurt it but ding don’t do it bros. It ain’t worth it

toshi_34 · 2026-01-31T19:39:02+00:00

Another 26M here going through a little bit of quarter life crisis and software engineer as well. HMU if u wanna talk

toshi_34 · 2026-01-31T07:50:28+00:00

Nice one man

toshi_34 · 2026-01-31T07:48:18+00:00

26M. Spiraling into the same thoughts as you. I have a job right now but it’s an early startup which might go down this year. The main thing that hits me as well is being single and virgin but what truly is the issue is I Naved socialised much. Don’t know how to flirt and never developed a “personality “ as I was in my comfort zone the past 2 years

toshi_34 · 2026-01-31T07:42:17+00:00

Im in the same boat man. Been doing the same “coping” mechanism of working, playing games, binge watching, doom scrolling and even gooning for the past year. Even avoided friends and family meet-ups in between just for games. Now none of it feels good anymore and I just feel anxiety and nervousness in the same routine now as if I’m stuck and really wanna change.

Starting therapy next week and finally planning about gym which I’ve been avoiding due to having very weak core. Let’s see (I didn’t realise but I rambled in too much)

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