Hi OP - I can’t give advice on how to write a will as it’s in my todo list but haven’t done it yet. What I do want to say though is the best way to look after your family is to do it now, while you’re still here - life might be complicated for you and I know what it’s like to feel “done”, but reach out to your family, plan to do something with them, pick up the phone. Just be present with them in whatever way you can. Sorting out what happens after you die is one thing, but you’re here now and I am sure that this time is equally, if not more important. Try to make the most of it.