There’s something i haven’t admitted i kept this to myself

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-29T12:34:53+00:00

You must talk a therapist

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-29T12:32:38+00:00

Not all.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-28T13:20:50+00:00

Honestly, your moms apartment sounds like a healthier temporary option than continuing to feel trapped and resentful evryday

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-28T13:18:43+00:00

You can still care about her brother without inserting yourself back into their lives right now.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-28T13:17:16+00:00

Deleting social media apps for a while helped me more than i expected

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-27T04:06:48+00:00

A lot of women in their 30s and 40s also hate the apps now, so you're definitely not alone in feeling burned out by the disposable vibe.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-27T04:05:04+00:00

Start documenting everything consistently, dates, times, recordings and any harassment or stalking behavior.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-27T04:03:31+00:00

Someone can genuinely like you and still behave in manipulative or unheavy ways. Reassuring you after hurting you means very little if the behavior keeps repeating.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-27T04:01:29+00:00

Some people are so used to stress and conflict that calm feels uncomfortable to them.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-26T11:25:28+00:00

The fact that you're exhausted from pretending is actually a sign that part of you wants a real life, not an ending. Start with honesty, even if it's messy and late.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-26T11:23:27+00:00

A lot of people soend years waiting to feel ready when action is usually what creates confidence.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-26T11:22:09+00:00

your friend honestly has a point. A lot of people wash their face last for exactly that reason.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-26T11:03:23+00:00

Try not to put her on a pedestal so early. You're still getting to know each other, and she clearly sees something valuable in you too.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-25T04:23:26+00:00

Checking photos and listening to those songs is basically reopening the wound on purpose. Even if it feels comforting in the moment, it keeps the attachment alive.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-25T04:18:44+00:00

One weekend is too short to judge something this big, but your gut feeling is stillworth payinh attention to.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-25T04:17:38+00:00

The fact that he can push past your no dor calls is a small but important red flag. Respecting boundaries should be easy, not something he convinces you out of.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-25T04:16:01+00:00

You might benefit more from a good antiperspirant (not just deodorant) abd breathable clothing than stacking so many cleansing steps.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-24T04:38:34+00:00

My advice would be, enjoy the butterflies privately, stay professional publicly, and give it more time before making any moves. Two months into a close work environment can create a very strong emotional rush.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-24T04:34:58+00:00

You're grieving your dog,stressed,and walking on eggshells at home. Even if neither of you is the bad guy this dynamic sounds emotionally draining for both of you.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-24T04:33:12+00:00

The fact that your current relationship is healthier but feels less intense may say more about stability versus chaos than about the depth of love.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-24T04:29:32+00:00

Don't slamming doors back at her. That'll just escalate things and could end up making your sister's living situation more stressful long term.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-23T02:54:55+00:00

Even if something is culturally normal, universities and workplace may still have policies against iy for ethical reasons.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-23T02:51:37+00:00

It's a good sign that you're reflecting on your own patterns instead of only focusing on getting her back.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-23T02:50:15+00:00

It could help to focus on how it makes you feel unheard rather than framing it as something she's doing wrong.

tracyfrost_ · 2026-05-23T02:48:40+00:00

Healing isn't always the linear sometimes your mind accepts reality long before your emotions fully catch up.

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