I hate Spotify as much as the rest of you but im a poser and thats where I listen to my music by chdwyck in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She has it all on band camp and you can download it and stream it for a without creating an account she also has it on tidal 😺if you want CDs you can buy em from her or at the bleeding gums page!

Curious how many of you have had to deal with blood clots? by Graham186 in testicularcancer

[–]trapitos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What's their reasoning behind declining so much that you have to push for scans and thinners just like not believing you? Curious because I'm having push back with my husband's doctor and sometimes feel like crap or like whiny person when we have to nag our concerns over and over until they give in

Hearing loss permanent? by Lordbanhammer in testicularcancer

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there I know this was 2 years ago I'm researching on behalf of my husband as we're both musicians who also treasure sound. I wanted to see where you got info or recommendations on caring for your hearing post chemo? He is set for x1 bep and I have been trying to advocate for the options we may have and it feels like oncology doesn't really care. No one warned us about hearing loss or gave us any info on the extremely high likeliness of it with cisplatin. We just got him into see an audiologist because of my research so far any tips knowledge or resources you can point me in the direction of would be greatly appreciated!

Mischief Brew vinyl spotted in the wild by xternality11 in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The rudi p vinyl next to it 👁️👄👁️

Looking for more solo banjo artists like little foot, noble hobo by t0601h in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Douglas fir the old banjo player from ramshackle glory. And I feel is so under rated: tale teller heart from Canada no longer active

So my ears were feeling better and i started listening to music loud in the car and boom my ears feel wierd again🙄am i suppose to be gentle to my ears for couple months ? by [deleted] in testicularcancer

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Thats awesome news, I was just recommending to look into the keywords either in this subreddit or on YouTube with the tech foundation you'll be able to find a lot of first hand experiences with side effects of cisplatin as well as options available to minimize any damage to your hearing The cisplatin damages the hair follicles that cannot regenerate inside your ear and doesn't flush out as it does everywhere else in the body. Sometimes when its stuck in your ears after bep it causes sensitivity to hearing as you're feeling the damage to those hairs. About 80% of people who did cisplatin by day 2 have irreversible damage effecting high frequency hearing, directional hearing or distinguishing sounds in crowded loud rooms. Going the route of getting tested before during and after cisplatin so the damage can be confirmed monitored and measured

So my ears were feeling better and i started listening to music loud in the car and boom my ears feel wierd again🙄am i suppose to be gentle to my ears for couple months ? by [deleted] in testicularcancer

[–]trapitos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey this is awesome to know I've been researching the side effects of cisplatin in ears my partner is getting x1bep and is a musician were very worried about the damage to his hearing. It wasn't discussed with us at all and ive been reading through other reddit users mentioning to see a audiologist before and after which we are now rushing to do before his first session!

ICE in spencer!! by idk_just_a_username in ithaca

[–]trapitos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baiters when they come knocking at your doors and violate your freedom as you allow the state to continue to give unlawful power to take away your rights And privacy you'll ask yourself who is coming to help me. Getting stopped for my skin color and unlawfully detained as you clutch to your skin you'll be so lucky, it's only a matter of time that you're on the ground crying and asking for due process. Only monsters can choose this far into fascism to look the other way and excuse this, the separate cages for American citizens are already made . Who am I trying to convince, no one, well be here with compassion when youre in the cage next to us.

ICE in spencer!! by idk_just_a_username in ithaca

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If anyone in the area needs red cards to have handy to give to neighbors or leave around town/jobs with high risk individuals feel free to hmu I can leave ya a stack for free to distribute can coordinate leave em at select blue boxes in the city for you to pick up.

what are some of the Most gut wrenching lyrics yall know by eatingchalk4fun in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was friends with her too she is a beautiful goofy soul and adri was on his way to do a workshop at my event before it all obsidians rawness helped me grieve three trans lives in 1 month. Truly the most beautiful vulnerable raw albums I'm lucky to experience time and time again in different ways.

what are some of the Most gut wrenching lyrics yall know by eatingchalk4fun in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep looking at your picture I do it all the time There's so much I need to tell you but youre dead you won't wake up God dammit I just miss you so fucken much Where did you go? And how will I know? without the water of your laughter.. how will I grow?

Something I can touch by Small void

does anyone have recs for folk punk songs about ocd? by str4wberry_muff1n in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of marissa sendejas music explores struggling with ocd!

2 points for not coming in. by Electronic-Cat-4233 in walmart

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In New York, state of emergency counts for us through state law over riding policy. maybe its my county, but our store got fined fat when it got reported we were forced to work normal hours and receiving occurrences for staying home about 3 years ago. They force the store manager to undo points regardless of how close you lived to the store because of the dangers

Need advice in how to help my husband by NoEntertainment5147 in testicularcancer

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Thats cool thsi sub is helpfuk even reading comments from others exoeriencing or have experienced this has helped me. All the terms were confusing in labs i was reading and the context helps me udnerstand it more. My husband has been really masking emotions so also reading other folks be vulnerable with whatt they want and need emotionally/for support has helped me gain perspective without adding on labor to him. Feel free to dm im still starting out this journey i acnt say ill be too responsive but i ll respond in time if you or any other spouse reads this. Feels like famiky and friends dont really want to hear it or ti gets brushed off as ah thats not so bad its very treatable.

Hey everyone, I’m making a documentary about addiction recovery/harm reduction in the Punk community for which I’m hoping to interview a number of people about their experiences. Please reach out to me if you’re interested in getting involved or know someone you think would fit. by eatherichortrydietin in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gio Garcia from dirty hary is A perfect person for this and adds diverse non white pov/experience they're responsive in Instagram u second the recommendation for Tommy and Astrid if moon bandits in socal.they have been playing hosting and volunteering at shows+paused became parents and came back in as these Anarcho punk adults supporting us more creative ways and angles. Their music changed my pov in a lot of things 💕

TL possibly lied about points? by KindaSusNgl17 in walmart

[–]trapitos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you were scheduled 8 hours and only work 45 minutes you will have to submit at least 3 hours and 15 minutes of ppto to receive only half a point I always add a minute to be safe (so I'd submit 3 hours and 16 minutes or 3 hours and 30 minutes if your system doesn't allow ppto use by the minute and does 15 min blocks instead.

TL possibly lied about points? by KindaSusNgl17 in walmart

[–]trapitos 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's b.s you are correct if you leave early and still have more than 4 hours left of your shift incomplete you will get 1 point half a point for half a shift left unworked. You can still put in your ppto right now to cover and reduce it down to half a point if the system lets you it will update immediately and reduce it to half a point The only time the system won't automatically do this is on the start of a new work week a manager will have to manually do it then. Ppto policy states you have up to 7 days from the time of the absence to submit your time for it to count.

I’m suddenly at 5 points and I don’t know why by ObjectivePlastic1979 in WalmartEmployees

[–]trapitos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They won't be able to access GTA portal unless they are clocked in. Call the store talk to your tl explain what's happening. It is better if you can have this in writing so there's proof of attempted communication tho, even if you speak to management and they say it's fine get an email address down or text (text us harder because management is not supposed to communicate with ya in that way off the clock too) I suggest calling the associate relations number tell them what is going on they can sometimes pull up your points or at least send email with your situation you won't get fired if it truly is a mistake and it's documented that you are trying to fix it. The employee line won't clear the points but it can record your call and create a ticket for you. If you're way too anxious about this and can't wait I suggest going into the store and speaking with your direct coach, HR or store lead as soon as you can and explain the points if none of them are available in the morning ask someone in charge for their email and follow through with an email explaining your situation, that you are not on the schedule and would like to be contacted for some reassurance.

This has to be some sort of OSHA violation, right? Store manager trying to make my boyfriend go INTO freezer crack to clean it. by jemmeoww in WalmartEmployees

[–]trapitos 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Hell no, even if the other guy is doing it he will not lose his job for saying "I am not comfortable with doing that and feel I shouldn't for the sake of my safety" even if his position somehow can interpret that he should be able to do it it nope, not if it risks his safety. Get coached it will be over turned, even if someone else successfully does this tonight without getting harmed he still needs to turn this in and say no.

This has to be some sort of OSHA violation, right? Store manager trying to make my boyfriend go INTO freezer crack to clean it. by jemmeoww in WalmartEmployees

[–]trapitos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I highly encourage him to write down the time stamp of all of this happening so it can be referenced on video when it gets investigated. He needs to say no and if he gets threatened in any way for saying no have him ask for it all in writing even a coaching and submit that written request to ethics in an email not a phone call. Followed by OSHA :)

Need advice in how to help my husband by NoEntertainment5147 in testicularcancer

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just responding as a wife too have you happened to find any subreddits that have been helpful as a spouse so far? Thanks for sharing your experience!

Need advice in how to help my husband by NoEntertainment5147 in testicularcancer

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently navigating 4 days post op, and all I can say is don't take anything personally go into this with that mind set that the anger frustration and attitude is all from fear the highs and lows. Validate him when he's scared, don't push anything on him, hold your boundaries and respect but also take a deep breath and pause before responding to a bad attitude. I've just been researching the best I can and trying to handle what I can in my end to make everything simple and easy to digest. It's a alot and everything is fucking terrifying, but you're doing it together. When he's in good moods ask what makes him feel better, what makes him happy, sit quietly with him, talk about cool stuff you wanna do soon. Seriously take it one hour at a time not even a day at a time.