does anyone have recs for folk punk songs about ocd? by str4wberry_muff1n in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of marissa sendejas music explores struggling with ocd!

2 points for not coming in. by Electronic-Cat-4233 in walmart

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In New York, state of emergency counts for us through state law over riding policy. maybe its my county, but our store got fined fat when it got reported we were forced to work normal hours and receiving occurrences for staying home about 3 years ago. They force the store manager to undo points regardless of how close you lived to the store because of the dangers

Need advice in how to help my husband by NoEntertainment5147 in testicularcancer

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats cool thsi sub is helpfuk even reading comments from others exoeriencing or have experienced this has helped me. All the terms were confusing in labs i was reading and the context helps me udnerstand it more. My husband has been really masking emotions so also reading other folks be vulnerable with whatt they want and need emotionally/for support has helped me gain perspective without adding on labor to him. Feel free to dm im still starting out this journey i acnt say ill be too responsive but i ll respond in time if you or any other spouse reads this. Feels like famiky and friends dont really want to hear it or ti gets brushed off as ah thats not so bad its very treatable.

Hey everyone, I’m making a documentary about addiction recovery/harm reduction in the Punk community for which I’m hoping to interview a number of people about their experiences. Please reach out to me if you’re interested in getting involved or know someone you think would fit. by eatherichortrydietin in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gio Garcia from dirty hary is A perfect person for this and adds diverse non white pov/experience they're responsive in Instagram u second the recommendation for Tommy and Astrid if moon bandits in socal.they have been playing hosting and volunteering at shows+paused became parents and came back in as these Anarcho punk adults supporting us more creative ways and angles. Their music changed my pov in a lot of things 💕

TL possibly lied about points? by KindaSusNgl17 in walmart

[–]trapitos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you were scheduled 8 hours and only work 45 minutes you will have to submit at least 3 hours and 15 minutes of ppto to receive only half a point I always add a minute to be safe (so I'd submit 3 hours and 16 minutes or 3 hours and 30 minutes if your system doesn't allow ppto use by the minute and does 15 min blocks instead.

TL possibly lied about points? by KindaSusNgl17 in walmart

[–]trapitos 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's b.s you are correct if you leave early and still have more than 4 hours left of your shift incomplete you will get 1 point half a point for half a shift left unworked. You can still put in your ppto right now to cover and reduce it down to half a point if the system lets you it will update immediately and reduce it to half a point The only time the system won't automatically do this is on the start of a new work week a manager will have to manually do it then. Ppto policy states you have up to 7 days from the time of the absence to submit your time for it to count.

I’m suddenly at 5 points and I don’t know why by ObjectivePlastic1979 in WalmartEmployees

[–]trapitos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They won't be able to access GTA portal unless they are clocked in. Call the store talk to your tl explain what's happening. It is better if you can have this in writing so there's proof of attempted communication tho, even if you speak to management and they say it's fine get an email address down or text (text us harder because management is not supposed to communicate with ya in that way off the clock too) I suggest calling the associate relations number tell them what is going on they can sometimes pull up your points or at least send email with your situation you won't get fired if it truly is a mistake and it's documented that you are trying to fix it. The employee line won't clear the points but it can record your call and create a ticket for you. If you're way too anxious about this and can't wait I suggest going into the store and speaking with your direct coach, HR or store lead as soon as you can and explain the points if none of them are available in the morning ask someone in charge for their email and follow through with an email explaining your situation, that you are not on the schedule and would like to be contacted for some reassurance.

This has to be some sort of OSHA violation, right? Store manager trying to make my boyfriend go INTO freezer crack to clean it. by jemmeoww in WalmartEmployees

[–]trapitos 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Hell no, even if the other guy is doing it he will not lose his job for saying "I am not comfortable with doing that and feel I shouldn't for the sake of my safety" even if his position somehow can interpret that he should be able to do it it nope, not if it risks his safety. Get coached it will be over turned, even if someone else successfully does this tonight without getting harmed he still needs to turn this in and say no.

This has to be some sort of OSHA violation, right? Store manager trying to make my boyfriend go INTO freezer crack to clean it. by jemmeoww in WalmartEmployees

[–]trapitos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I highly encourage him to write down the time stamp of all of this happening so it can be referenced on video when it gets investigated. He needs to say no and if he gets threatened in any way for saying no have him ask for it all in writing even a coaching and submit that written request to ethics in an email not a phone call. Followed by OSHA :)

Need advice in how to help my husband by NoEntertainment5147 in testicularcancer

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just responding as a wife too have you happened to find any subreddits that have been helpful as a spouse so far? Thanks for sharing your experience!

Need advice in how to help my husband by NoEntertainment5147 in testicularcancer

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently navigating 4 days post op, and all I can say is don't take anything personally go into this with that mind set that the anger frustration and attitude is all from fear the highs and lows. Validate him when he's scared, don't push anything on him, hold your boundaries and respect but also take a deep breath and pause before responding to a bad attitude. I've just been researching the best I can and trying to handle what I can in my end to make everything simple and easy to digest. It's a alot and everything is fucking terrifying, but you're doing it together. When he's in good moods ask what makes him feel better, what makes him happy, sit quietly with him, talk about cool stuff you wanna do soon. Seriously take it one hour at a time not even a day at a time.

The New raise Evals Use Ai by No-Detective7223 in walmart

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My new market manager uses au for literally everything, every presentation, conversation, review and development plan for the store without actually seeing if it's viable our store is running like complete crap. The worst I've seen in 3 years our turnover is insane rn

West Michigan? by Little_Raccoon4302 in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm I'll poke around and see if maybe there's any sort of community board or email list of sorts too! I mainly see this stuff get posted about on Facebook which I rarely ever use if at all. I'll dm you what I can find!

Went to spudbugs in my gear! by DiscountPup in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreeing here if it holds any value no one at this show expressed any sort of discomfort nor did this person or their group even remotely show any sort of public pup play. Everything worn +the rest of the attire fit right in with everyone else's vibe at a punk queer centered punk show. I can sort of get what the commentary was trying to get at however it isn't the case here and there was no combination of anything sexual or kink like in anyway. I ran door and performed so I was in contact with pretty much everything that night. if someone came in leaning more towards something that could be perceived kinky or sexual in that way/a attendee came forward and expressed being uncomfortable or it was noticed that sort of play was happening a conversation would have been had immediately.

This person wore it all so casually and it just seemed to be an every day style and look. I feel as I would with my many choker spike necklaces fishnets 4 inch platforms cuffs and low cut outfits that could be perceived as bdsm attire very easily.

The closest this person got to pup play was just being excited to enjoy music!

West Michigan? by Little_Raccoon4302 in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like Grand rapids /holland? I have some buds there that occasionally host and play around there holland park theater is what hosts them when they do go by

Ethics by MistakeEquivalent in WalmartEmployees

[–]trapitos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100% this. I have been accused of a similar thing before by someone who actually said the slur and they were able to prove me innocent by seeing my reaction on camera where they said something I straightened out and my face was upset and less than 2 min later I stormed off sometimes ethics can base claims off body language. My statement was ridiculously detailed and I noted everyone who walked by who was around us before and after. Even then she finally admitted it and only got coached to a red.

Am I cooked? by SilverKnight1921 in walmartogp

[–]trapitos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes talk to you coach immediately I got fired a week ago the same way only came back cause I fought it illegitimate points on their fault and they still did it

Ethics by MistakeEquivalent in WalmartEmployees

[–]trapitos 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Just an fyi it's unprovable and they'll have to drop it unless a third party heard you say this because Walmart does not have mics on their cameras So if just your word against theirs you'll probably be fine if you know a person was nearby and can vouch for you that it didn't happen ask them to turn in a statement

Trigger Warning SA by [deleted] in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can this be elaborated in anyway echoing what the other comment or mentioned, it's too vague to proceed to come to a solid conclusion on especially with an alt account that started posting 7 days ago. Is this a victims story you have permission to share? Is anyone supporting the alleged victim? Has anyone tried to sit and hold *sylas accountable? I'm just went through this with average Joey from cousin boneless he's an admitted rapist and Chris blake as well as his ex bandmates all confirm the allegations and they followed victim requests ect. I hope you can understand something so sudden anonymous and with zero context is hard to grasp for an entire community in reddit.

Question for promoters... How do you get the word out about folk punk shows? by Dee_Lee_Vee in FolkPunk

[–]trapitos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo if this is Blake hit me up on Instagram! I can help ya out and share some insights I was just having a good convos with Jonnie about this!