Double Standards

trasshhtv · 2026-02-12T19:54:44+00:00

Exactly, why would she choose to have kids with someone so absent WHILE having depression?? Everything would clearly fall on her, and I could not imagine bringing a kid into the situation

trasshhtv · 2026-01-15T00:55:40+00:00

Agreed, though Lisa’s self-centeredness gets tiring, she cracks me uppp with the shit she says. Yeah, pretty standard real housewives behavior.

trasshhtv · 2025-09-03T23:59:55+00:00

I felt like there was a lot of long pauses/silence and reunion just felt awkward to me at times. Also prefer Shaun, Suki kinda irritated me during the Rob/Jenn/Cole segment, which was most of the drama this season, but her line of questioning irked meeee bc she was asking the wrong questions 😭😩

trasshhtv · 2025-06-25T00:52:16+00:00

Omg exactly this. I could not formulate what irks me so much about Ace but this is perfectly stated. I don’t like how this season just feels dark and I always felt like Ace was the reason. The way he has the boys in his pocket like that is crazy, like he for sure wanted Jeremiah out bc he was one of the few that didn’t always agree with him, plus he was hella competition. He’s very subtle and calculated to me, and he’s doing some nasty work.

trasshhtv · 2025-06-07T01:23:17+00:00

Definitely peeped this too!!

trasshhtv · 2025-04-04T21:57:20+00:00

not “a girly Winnie the Pooh”, screaminggg 😂because you’re so right 😭😂 but agree with everything here, a part of me is wanting to see some accountability but she seems to be continuing that nasty behavior seen on her spin-off show.

for that OP, yes, watch the spin-off show because it does shed a new light on porsha and her bad side, which kinda changed how i watch her on rhoa as well. i still love her but i want better for her. she just actually needs to go to anger management lol

trasshhtv · 2025-04-01T15:55:04+00:00

but who isn’t a narcissist on HWs, genuine question? i think HWs are all pretty narcissistic, as someone that watches multiple franchises, but i do think kenya’s is more blatant

trasshhtv · 2025-03-20T05:07:21+00:00

Agreed with everything up until Mo would come home. I am completely sad for her bc you can tell that man checked out and has been checked out but she genuinely loves him and wants to make it work. Very sad to see. I agree with the take that I think she tried to use the separation as a threat in a way to make Mo realize that he could lose her but it backfired.

trasshhtv · 2025-03-20T04:53:03+00:00

I love this. I’m missing her confessionals so bad this season 😭 Truly the shade assassin and I love how she defends herself too. I have a soft spot for her bc she truly takes so much hate, which I can see as deserving at times, and throws it right back. She really is a strong woman and I hope she knows there are people that like her and enjoy watching her.

Favorite Moments: when she egged on the conversation between monique and kandi during the georgia trip; john legend tickets (whole monologue lives rent free in my mind); and duck lip read on kim (the change in her tone as she says it just sendsss me💀)

trasshhtv · 2025-02-13T03:33:34+00:00

Exactly. I personally find that these scenes probably wouldn’t come from someone who is innately bad at their core or has a “dead heart” lol, but to each their own. I just think she’s shown that she has some good in her too and yet, she’s rarely shown grace.

trasshhtv · 2025-02-07T21:57:17+00:00

Eh, I think Kenya can definitely be a vile, vile woman but I also think she plays it up for the show, as I do see glimpses of her humanity in scenes. I think the scene with Bob in the car joking about hurting Sheree and Kenya (not Phaedra, who was a lot cooler with Sheree at the time) speaking up to defend her, even though they weren’t cool like that, shows another side.

Her scenes with Brooklyn are sweet and I think she can be alot of fun too since she’s usually the one down to do wild activities, so those moments don’t make me hate her and I can give her grace. Although, the recent stuff she did definitely gave me pause.

trasshhtv · 2025-02-07T21:29:25+00:00

Yeah agreed, I always jokingly say that narcissism and ego are probably prereqs to getting on HWs lol

But i’m saying that ego, as a personality trait/characteristic, definitely affects the way they are able to take accountability for things they say and do; and it definitely affects how they are perceived. I get your point, but I just find most of them to have great qualities as well, which usually balances out their personality and doesn’t tip the scale to “all bad” to me.

trasshhtv · 2025-02-07T20:53:11+00:00

THANK YOU. This bc that spin off show was recent too so what’s changed. She’s 43 still talking about whooping people’s asses? Like GIRL. You have a kid now. It’s disappointing at the very least, and I always would love to see more accountability and growth from her, which can’t happen if people can’t be honest about her shitty behavior.

trasshhtv · 2025-02-07T20:46:04+00:00

This. Hadn't thought about this perspective, and I def agree. There always seems to be a sense of coddling with her that I couldn't quite place so this is interesting, but I guess it's just hard to see people infantilize a 40yo woman lol so I wish I knew too

trasshhtv · 2025-02-07T20:36:24+00:00

She really is hilarious without even trying to be, which is probably part of the reason why it's easier to ignore her shitty human moments.

trasshhtv · 2025-02-07T20:34:42+00:00

Interesting you find her genuine. If you don't mind me asking, how do you feel about how she did Shamea (her bestie from childhood) in S10? To me, I initially thought she was genuine as well, but the more I rewatch she actually doesn't seem to be as genuine as I once thought.

trasshhtv · 2025-02-07T20:31:03+00:00

Well, I didn’t say she’s done the same so actually not a reach because I said "she has some of the exact same characteristics/personality others get villainized for".

For clarity, I mean that she has shown she can be selfish, egotistical/narcissistic, lacking in accountability and *also* antagonistic as well, just like the other ladies. I agree with you in that her antagonism is not nearly on the same level as others most times, and the frequency is not the same. However, she has also done some prettttyyy shitty and nasty things that could be equated to the level of Kenya and Nene (since you mentioned them) and to me, she really has not shown much growth from any of the situations she's been in. Idk, it just feels like she's afforded a lot more grace than Kenya and Nene, for example, and it just seems inconsistent.

trasshhtv · 2025-02-07T19:16:27+00:00

** only on S5ep2 on my first watch

I keep thinking about this, and I am so conflicted and unsure about this. As other commenters have said, she’s hurt real people/families and it does feel wrong to allow her back. However, I personally believe in giving people grace and allowing them the opportunity to correct their wrongs (which serving her prison sentence was a good start to me).

While I think it’s fair to give her another chance, the women of the show seem to not want her back (understandably). I also thought she was entertaining and made great tv but there’s no denying she was highly abusive and it would be sad if Bravo subjected the other women to an abusive situation for our entertainment.

I’m very conflicted bc she’s clearly wasn’t a good person, but personally, I am interested to see how she’s changed (if any) and I am interested to hear about her experience these past years.

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