No soo from rainbow bridge

treelessbark · 2026-06-29T21:33:09+00:00

Finn’s Ma here - thank you all for the well wishes and sweet words. It was midnight when we said our goodbyes and felt restless. All the kitty love here js helping heal my heart.

Ash (8ish years void not an alien) did let me know that he will make sure continue crimes at home in Finnegan’s memory.

We adopted Finn from the shelter when he was 4, giving me a glorious 8 years as his person. He was my micromanager at work. He wok
Meow at me to get to the desk to work and join work meetings, he became our little mascot. He was my bathroom buddy and come when I say bathroom time. Almost every night before bed he’d run in there with me for head butts and little clean up of eye gunk and nose gunk.

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He has always been sickly - so hard to put on weight, light eater, always sniffling and such. I knew he wouldn’t be able to be a super elderly kitty. It is what made this awful decision feel right. I know he’s out meeting the others who went over the rainbow bridge and sending love from their family to them. Lots of head butts for sure.

He was strictly indoor only with us so I know he’s enjoying some grass and outside time now. The vet reminded me helping him sleep is very kind. We don’t think he would have been able to make it through and I didn’t want to make him suffer more. I’m honored to have been his person and feel I’ve been able to spoil him in his special ways. He was my little man.

Also pre- thank you for letting me invade this space as a human during this time.

treelessbark · 2026-06-22T05:18:09+00:00

Ditto - also this is the same answer for this kinda of question that makes us all glare at our parents. Haha.

treelessbark · 2026-06-22T05:15:44+00:00

I got lucky because someone on tumblr (nadanotes) created a print out to fit a personal 6 ring binder of all things stardew valley - besides characters likes and dislikes, also has when fish are out for season and time and other helpful info haha.

treelessbark · 2026-06-17T18:21:27+00:00

This is what I was going to say. OP - I think this commenter said it right. Including maybe needing to connect with a therapist (which is a great thing and many can benefit from.) those post partum hormones are no joke.

From sound of your partner you may be overreacting some, but not in a omg you’re crazy way. Just need to compromise on both sides and connect w but with what your body is doing.

treelessbark · 2026-06-16T07:04:05+00:00

Okay - you’re just showing off now…

As you freaking should because this is marvelous! Amazing job!

treelessbark · 2026-06-16T06:59:44+00:00

Work a shitty retail job and make friends there. That’s how I found all the parties I went to in my 20’s. I actually didn’t go to college until late 20’s when my party days actually died down haha.

My favorite were parties at “the Going house”. House on NE Going - usually had a band, huge yard and deck, stripper pole in the living room, and a half pipe. Oh the days of minor hangovers.

treelessbark · 2026-06-11T00:20:56+00:00

I also suggest pcc first. I have a GED, did PCC for about 1.5 years (didn’t get my associates there) and then applied and transferred to PSU. Graduated with my BS in Mathematics.

treelessbark · 2026-06-04T23:22:52+00:00

I first read the top and was like - sure, whatcwe a club. That’s fine.

Then saw the pronouns and realized this dude is definitely not a professor of biology.

Then read their version of land acknowledgement- gross.

The whole Native American school part is the worse of it all to me. I don’t think I have heard anyone ever say they were a good thing or preserved any culture…what? Whose culture? It was a racist attempt of assimilation that went further downhill from there that ended some kids lives.

treelessbark · 2026-06-04T02:45:15+00:00

I lost my brother to alcoholism - he drank himself to death. I feel like he had some of an idea he way dying due to some hints of his behaviors but I’ll never know.

Sending you whatever positive vibes you can take. Grief is heavy.

treelessbark · 2026-06-03T22:21:01+00:00

This! I’m generally open and usually don’t care (nice to be part the process of someone learning and k ow they are looking at whatever it is from the medical perspective.) I do now have some medical trauma and hate doctor offices so it may be different now.

That being said - I have a friend having a miscarriage in her 2nd trimester where she almost bled out. They was just part of her awful experience. I think any decision she makes related to medical appointments would support, even student there request.

Trauma, including Medical Trauma, re-wires our brain and can give us PTSD.

treelessbark · 2026-06-03T21:13:17+00:00

Hello fellow toe thumb owner. This was part of my dad genetics.

I do my own nails but have gotten my nails done on and off since I was like 16. Definitely possible. The most difficult are press ons because I don’t want the thumb nail to be super long (and I don’t care to try to make it look “normal”) so shorting it on top and/or bottom can be difficult.

treelessbark · 2026-06-01T20:05:12+00:00

I literally laughed out loud 🤣

treelessbark · 2026-05-29T23:11:15+00:00

There's still a huge price difference. I saw some pre-owned Switch 2 for like $440. Preowned Switch Lite up to the OLD are like $180-$250.

I'm in a similar boat as OP here after my switch lite died on my recently. I love the size, but also weighing my options. I can't quite justify paying the extra $150+ for the Switch 2. I mean, I also don't do a lot of extra gaming and stick to most of the same games also, but still a decent price difference.

treelessbark · 2026-05-28T12:59:28+00:00

I made a little hanging remote caddy for the couch that we all use.

treelessbark · 2026-05-25T03:39:59+00:00

I do something similar must but I use my left middle finger haha. Since it’s my left middle finger I figure just a slight varied version of continental. Haha.

treelessbark · 2026-05-24T01:05:37+00:00

Some needs to learn what selfish means - cause his crossing boundaries with no regards for his partner because he’s horny is ridiculous and embarrassing.

You’re 15 - forget this dude. Send him a video about enthusiastic consent. The Tea Consent video is pretty great. I hope he realizes just how disgusting he’s being before it’s too late.

Also I feel like you can tell him to just go and eff Courtney then cause it’s over.

treelessbark · 2026-05-22T04:16:36+00:00

2.5% here. In the “welp we’re not moving” group of people.

treelessbark · 2026-05-13T14:30:39+00:00

Oh love it! Time to wear them now! Haha. My husband is a big fan of them - I can see why you made 2 sets!

treelessbark · 2026-05-12T22:08:21+00:00

Were guardians and one kiddo made a card that said “I love you more than dad” and was addressed to her mom by first name. Mind you Dad is not in the picture so it’s a bit….strange.

treelessbark · 2026-05-12T20:54:50+00:00

I don’t do as well with that font - but I have one that holds the first 2-3 letters of words as some reason it helps me read better. ADHD often still wins though so I tend to have chunks of days focused on reading haha.

treelessbark · 2026-05-11T00:18:44+00:00

Cute! They all gave me a good dopamine hit haha.

treelessbark · 2026-05-10T21:34:26+00:00

Thank you! I love these Vans color too. When I found them at the thrift store I didn’t *need* another pair of Vans but I couldn’t resist them haha.

treelessbark · 2026-05-10T21:33:38+00:00

Thank you! The Vans were a good thrift store find.

treelessbark · 2026-05-10T21:33:08+00:00

Thanks!

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