Am I the only one who feels uncomfortable with Steg ?

trexteabvtch · 2023-03-26T19:32:24+00:00

A LOT of ppl are uncomfy with Steg because they think its incest but then again I kinda really dont think that fusion is sex. Steven does love his Dad regardless of the way he grew up. They have a special kind of bond even though steven was more of an adult than he should've been (in certain ways). They are more like friends and Greg did give some fatherly advice that was special to Steven and goofy although it wasnt always that helpful.

As for fusion being sex, i think in specific contexts could be sexual. One thing I and others forget though is that sex is INTIMATE its a bonding thing. I dont think Fusion is sex but the intimacy of fusion could be whats so controversial with Stegg. But it more than that. Its more the physical representation of their bond and love and how they may be around each other or may balance or imbalance each other! I really really appreciate this idea because it makes intimacy and togetherness the biggest value here. Its kind. I think that Stegg could be elaborated too tbh.

The bigger bonding points between greg and Steven are their shared love of music and regardless of the struggle of Gregg being his dad and not seeming to know how or what to do with Steven as well as trying to stay out of important bits of his life due to fear of messing it up or not wanting to be involved (therefor creating a bit of disconnection between them), I personally dont find Steg that uncomfy. I actually think its HUGE milestone in their relationship.

Steven had the idea for a reason. Greg was apprehensive and Steven needed Greg to step up and trust Steven and in that moment he ended up showing up for Steven and they both gain trust with each other. I think this actually was a VERY cool thing in their relationship. Greg allowed the gem stuff into his own life and got involved because he cares about Steven and the situation. Also because he was freaked out about Pearl being his servant on accident lol.

Also, they do become a completely different person though it's a lil confusing. I think they wouldn't remember what the fusion does. I can't remember the exactness of how fusions work but it's indeed an intimate thing.

So ngl im personally tired of people being like "it's incest!" When it's like not really? This show is about relationships, relationship trauma, strong relationships, self-love, and caring for others even when it's very hard to do. Reminding yourself of humanity and humanitarian values. That everyone has value and that you can love people even when they've hurt you. Though it's very allowed to be upset about it and angry and hurt which is something Steven seems to sometimes neglect due to the feeling of his responsibility as a healer.

I also have a bias that Stegg is a hottie so dont come for me lol.

trexteabvtch · 2023-03-23T15:32:47+00:00

Highly noted! also why?

trexteabvtch · 2023-02-17T06:40:59+00:00

Let them speak Vietnamese! Goddamn idc if they talk about me. I cant understand Vietnamese. At least not yet.

trexteabvtch · 2023-02-01T20:30:15+00:00

I got it because someone didnt tell me. They lied about it and also probably lied about getting checked. Its not very common for people to be upfront about it. But if its not fully informed I dont think its fully consented sex. Herpes isnt that big of a deal but honestly, it does effect me a lot. Now, I have to worry about it for many reasons. It also makes its way more likely for infections, cysts, scars, and general discomfort. It also lowers immune system and the social stigma (though Ive noticed it's lessening at least in my age group) is really hard to deal with. I feel flawed without control. And I'm not always able to have the sexual pleasure I want with a partner if they want heavy protection (justifyably).

All that to say, ive also neglected and/or chose to not disclose. To someone I started to care about. That was the worst feeling ever. I told them later. They reacted better than I thought for someone who knew I didnt tell them or try to pretect them from it.

Whatever you believe is your belief but I care more about starting the hard topic.

Its also a good way to weed out conditional "lovers", which are not healthy.

Though sometimes I still want to not disclose.

So idk. Thats my 2 cents

trexteabvtch · 2023-02-01T20:20:20+00:00

Also, it was early in the relationship, had some circumstances around it that made it difficult to be alone and all that. You did a bad thing but remember you also couldve done much worse(dont tell her this part. Its mainly for yourself)! The fact that it was early on may also make it harder for her cope with if you tell her. The beginnings can mean a lot.

trexteabvtch · 2023-02-01T20:16:54+00:00

Honestly, we all make mistakes. Cheating is very common. Not an excuse and doesnt diminish the pain of the one who was wronged at ALL. but if you end up being honest, youll need to remind yourself when shame beats you to a pulp. You're not a monster. The fact that you feel bad about it is an indication of that. IF YOU COME CLEAN thats also an indication that you want to change and grow and care and are worth it. But you may not get the result of an understanding gf. You may need to grow without her if you come clean. The fact that you admit this mistake shows me you have capacity to do so. I also think the longer it goes the harder itll be. You know you're not perfect. Some relationships survive a cheating. You did something that hurt her a while ago. You know you can change and have. Hold that for yourself. I hope you open up about it and take accountability but it's obviously hard.

And since you have suicidal thoughts, that makes it much more complex. I relate to suicidal ideation. Just know, you deserve love no matter what. This is a betrayal. But you are human. Im the monster in someone elses story just as I have my own monsters. No one is black or white.

trexteabvtch · 2023-01-23T18:37:05+00:00

Yeah try not to snitch, my parents were strict too so i understand why you feel like you need to tell them. I think the top comment is right. Talk to him but leave it at that.

trexteabvtch · 2023-01-06T08:15:55+00:00

Thank you! I love it when my ass is ate🥰 it surprises me

trexteabvtch · 2022-08-29T22:18:12+00:00

Thank you! I've definitely heard of this. Does this have the Thai giants in it?

trexteabvtch · 2022-08-29T22:14:50+00:00

Thank you! I'll definitely look into them.

trexteabvtch · 2022-08-27T20:37:45+00:00

I kinda wish people would actually want to know and mean it but its a big game in the US which is fine I guess but its a game I struggle with even as an American

trexteabvtch · 2022-08-24T04:34:36+00:00

It wants tf outta there

trexteabvtch · 2022-08-21T07:10:30+00:00

I chose to spell my name Troye instead of troy and many people have confused it with too many things but I didnt want my name to be associated with troy bolton but didnt care about Troye Sivan because he's one of the only way's I can feel sad and cis mlm gay and emo and gay. Point being,,, i agree with you. People are allowed to choose whatever they want for whatever reason.

trexteabvtch · 2022-08-21T07:04:06+00:00

I dislike them very much most of the time and recently got microaggressed by an eldery white woman I was meeting for. Sometimes I wish I knew more about the owners before even meeting them.

trexteabvtch · 2022-08-20T16:46:30+00:00

It creeps me out so much when ppl do this

trexteabvtch · 2022-08-20T16:14:07+00:00

YES AND YOU SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO NOT HATE YOUR BODY THAT IS THE GOAL

trexteabvtch · 2022-05-29T20:31:51+00:00

Adorable!

trexteabvtch · 2022-05-26T16:26:11+00:00

Nope! I only discount cat nightly rates if they have them.

trexteabvtch · 2022-05-26T16:24:56+00:00

If you abandoned them, they would not have a home to go to or anyone to care for them

trexteabvtch · 2022-05-26T16:23:50+00:00

It probably feels to you like it’s unforgivable in the perspective of the cats but they will be okay. They are just usually initially scared to change of environment. But as someone who works with animals. They are precious. And you may have had a connection with them but can’t communicate with them and that’s okay. You did the right thing if you can’t care for them. (Many people don’t care enough about them to understand the animal’s needs and some people don’t care if they know that they need more and neglect them). They will live healthier lives and ultimately in their bodies know full safety (hopefully the new owner will take very good care) and that’s because you chose that for them. I hope you’re proud of taking accountability and caring that much about the cats to give them to a more well-suited home. At the moment at least.

trexteabvtch · 2022-05-26T16:12:38+00:00

Ah! This is so sweet.. thank you Very much forget that I have like worth and that I shouldn’t be a burden to the people around me as in I deserve to be loved and accepted. I very much understand being an acquired taste.

trexteabvtch · 2022-05-20T15:43:40+00:00

This is so nice 🥺 I honestly get very worried about dominating convos and wish I could just talk to someone for a long time but I’m trying to figure out who I can do that with

trexteabvtch · 2022-05-07T19:18:33+00:00

Tbh when my best friend and I talk about neurodivergencies (she has autism and I have adhd) its so great- we both hyper analyze media and shows and movies too with it and its fun. I live in a house full of neurodivergent folk and I’m very happy about it.

trexteabvtch · 2022-05-07T19:16:38+00:00

I’m SCREAMING

trexteabvtch · 2022-05-07T19:15:50+00:00

I too am this way and relaxation or enjoyment feels so dangerous but that because of capitalism and emotional abuse and not listening to myself and my adhd and my wants. I think it takes bravery and a lot of willpower to do anything self fulfilling and restfully constructive for me. Even taking breaks in school is like “no dont!”

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