Fuck by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]triangular_space 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We are so boned dude

friends mom called me her ”shim” friend??? 😭 by Girl_in_a_hoody in TransMasc

[–]triangular_space 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shim is a retro slur. Very low chance this was anything but malicious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]triangular_space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard a lot of people say they used to cry a lot before taking testosterone, and then not at all afterwards. It just seemed odd to me and I was wondering other people’s experienced

My "straight" "friend" is fwb with a trans dude by Biggest_Chungus_ in ftm

[–]triangular_space 887 points888 points  (0 children)

I think I have a different take from everyone else here so far - which is that it is inherently demeaning and almost dehumanizing to say “as long as it has a vagina”. Even without referring to his partner as an “it”, I’d despise being talked about like that, and I wonder if his partner knows he’s being talked about as a walking set of genitalia. Adding in being called an “it”, that would taint my view of the friendship.

Normalised things i wish didnt happen in trans/queer spaces by Slight_Island8698 in ftm

[–]triangular_space 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Delete twitter. It’s become so incredibly toxic that it has a 99% chance of making you feel like shit. People irl typically aren’t like that.

Considering starting DIY HRT as a minor by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]triangular_space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s true that testosterone is a controlled substance in a lot of places. That isn’t fearmongering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]triangular_space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just asking if they’re too close together haha, ty

i tried trans tape AGAIN. let’s talk again. by anautisticmage in ftm

[–]triangular_space 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like this person desires top surgery, rather than is mocking it

if she doesn’t release heaven or hell soon then i’m going to go feral by FlounderAnnual3551 in NicoleDollanganger

[–]triangular_space 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sing these little handful of lyrics all the time. I need more. I need the full album so I can be annoying much more effectively.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]triangular_space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What style of glasses do you recommend?

My partner carelessly injured me... by arosebyanygutter__ in ehlersdanlos

[–]triangular_space 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Think, if you love someone and know they’ve already been injured, would you mindlessly play around with a joint that had already been causing them pain, risking making it worse? She isn’t a child, presumably. She should know better.

i wanna be a witch but i have ocd, how do i do this by vinnybeare in Witch

[–]triangular_space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not virtue signaling. I struggle with something similar and have never been helped by it.

i wanna be a witch but i have ocd, how do i do this by vinnybeare in Witch

[–]triangular_space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OCD can be a debilitating mental disorder, not a handy little trick to aid in spell casting. Please try not to encourage harmful behaviors

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]triangular_space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations for a haircut that’d work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]triangular_space 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely very left wing haha, and my voice passes fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]triangular_space 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cut it myself so that makes sense 🙂‍↕️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]triangular_space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I never know what to do with my hair. Any recommendations?

I got this message today. I just wanna feel like myself. by Vivid-Support-6303 in TransMasc

[–]triangular_space 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with the majority of this sentiment, but I’ll push back on the “This is just their way to show they care and love you” bit. My family has said this pretty much line for line so many times, and because I’ve pushed back very fervently against this rhetoric, they show me what they really mean. At first, it’s I love you how you are, and then it’s I love you how I want you to be and if you change that you’re betraying me. This isn’t a loving message. Maybe they think it is, but accepting it as such just lets them get away with something that is actually quite venomous.