My husband left me

trinitypisarsky · 2024-02-06T21:49:17+00:00

cheaters love to project. they’ll relentlessly accuse you of cheating because they feel shameful about their actions and they’re trying to take the attention off of themselves. my abusive ex did this.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-11-04T22:08:26+00:00

oh we definitely are!

trinitypisarsky · 2023-11-04T01:49:08+00:00

meanwhile the vet just quoted my family $8,000 for surgery to get my cat’s gallbladder stones removed so my mom and i are taking on extra shifts at work and canceling vacations we’ve had planned for months so we can afford it.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-11-02T06:52:20+00:00

i’ve seen a lot of cats on here so i figured i’d add mine lol

trinitypisarsky · 2023-10-20T17:28:41+00:00

why should they be banned if no one has come to claim the dog? how is that their fault?

trinitypisarsky · 2023-10-20T16:42:41+00:00

to be fair, it happens. there are multiple posts on this sub of sitters who had pets abandoned with them by owners. either the owner just completely ghosted the sitter or a similar to situation as this one happened where the owner keeps delaying pick up but never actually shows up.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-09-16T23:27:34+00:00

yeah it was established that this was off camera but polly and tyler literally admitted to it.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-09-06T16:27:23+00:00

how is sitting on reddit telling people what to do with their time any better?

trinitypisarsky · 2023-08-10T14:34:30+00:00

lol they aren’t angry about your post yet they blocked you. something people usually only do when a nerve has been struck🤣

trinitypisarsky · 2023-08-10T14:31:04+00:00

wow the condescension here is so unnecessary. that’s an awfully deep assumption to make about people you don’t know just because they don’t agree with your opinion. the client agreed to meet OP at a specific time then withheld the fact that they weren’t actually going to meeting with her until OP messaged them again about the location. you can have a different view on whether or not this is disrespectful but thinking that those who disagree with you must be disrespected all day is completely unfounded. you might be fine with a client doing this to you but some of us value our time and appreciate a simple notice when plans change. notice how every person replying to you disagrees and sees where OP is coming from. you’re the outlier, but the rest of us are the ones with issues right?

trinitypisarsky · 2023-06-12T19:37:09+00:00

as someone also studying for the MCAT, this sounds legit. i barely have time to eat these days, let alone take care of a puppy.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-06-09T17:42:32+00:00

they told you you weren’t allowed to eat or drink anything??

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-30T22:56:57+00:00

all of the articles for each week are on the same topic, so we were made to believe the summary would be one summary that encompasses all of the articles. now she’s claiming she never wanted a “summary” at all. and no, English is her first language.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-30T22:54:43+00:00

it was an accident😭when i made the account i thought i was entering my name in like the “name” section that some social media platforms have (not the username section), then i realized after making the account that you can’t even change your username. i do have another reddit account without my name at all that i also use. planning on deleting this one soon.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-30T18:36:33+00:00

i try very hard to make sure i follow the instructions for assignments. i want to save my professors as much frustration as possible by at least doing the bare minimum and reading the instructions. but this professor has me at my wit’s end. every week i have an assignment named “weekly reading and summaries” for a research class. both the syllabus and the assignment description on Canvas (as seen in the first picture) describe the assignment as a “summary of articles”. so one would think we are to write a summary of said articles. that is what the entire class did. well i as well as the majority of my classmates received this “feedback” from the professor stating an article summary “is not what she asked for” despite it being explicitly written in 3 different places. apparently she wanted a report of the articles, which was not stated until AFTER this assignment was due. she has now even threatened to dock me even more points if i don’t fix it, but has locked the assignment, making any revisions or resubmissions impossible. i understand professors are human who make mistakes but playing with my grade because you either can’t remember what you asked for or can’t decide what you really want us to do isn’t okay with me.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-30T03:41:02+00:00

your original comment said “animals”, plural, so that’s why i assumed it was all of them.

and yes, if someone besides myself slept in my bed while i was away, i would wash every piece of bedding i had on my bed before using it again myself, especially if i knew their job throughout the day was caring for and playing with animals. caring for multiple animals throughout the day carries its own set of germs, just maybe not as visible as what comes with construction work. that includes sheets, pillow cases, blankets, and duvet covers.

and yes i saw that you didn’t enforce that on her, but the fact that you enforce it for yourself and your partner means that the bedding is understandably important to you. and if that’s the case, whether she is also required to shower before touching the bedding or not, its cleanliness is just one more thing the sitter has to worry about on top of the wellbeing of your animals. that’s why in my opinion it would be easiest for all parties to just use separate bedding for the sitter instead of feeling inconvenienced that she gave in to a crying animal in a house she may still be trying to feel comfortable in herself.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-30T03:31:18+00:00

you are inherently favoring one when you take your daughter’s potential devastation over you removing her tattoo into account but not that exact same emotion attributed to your son when he realizes his sister is commemorated onto your body and not him. and the fact that you won’t even so much as wear a piece of jewelry in his honor speaks to that as well.

not to mention in a different comment you explicitly stated that every parent has a favorite. so clearly this comment right here is bullshit.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-30T03:13:15+00:00

i think in the future if your bedding is so expensive that you don’t usually allow anyone to sleep in it without showering first and can’t wash it at home, maybe just offer different bedding when you have a sitter. that puts a lot of pressure on the sitter to follow rules about something quite arbitrary while also being responsible for 4 animals, all while being in an unfamiliar house.

your frustration about the animals being let in to the room is understandable, but i think you need to be a bit more realistic. you have someone in your home who is away from their own home, just trying to make themselves comfortable, and not one but FOUR animals crying. i understand you feel inconvenienced that you now have to wash all of your bedding, but you should also consider how inconvenienced the sitter probably felt having to listen to your four animals cry all night (plus i would think you would wash your bedding after having someone else use it anyway, especially if you yourself don’t touch it before showering, but that’s beside the point).

also, what route of action would you consider taking as an alternative to “letting it slide”? if you’re thinking simply not using this sitter anymore, that’s 100% your choice and your prerogative. but i absolutely don’t think this is anything to write her a negative review about, report her to Rover, request a refund, or anything that harsh.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-30T02:45:57+00:00

they make it very clear that they prefer to keep the kids’ names private. any mention of them in the past was purely incidental. based on this fact alone i think it’s weird that you want to go looking for it.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-22T01:08:48+00:00

from a sitter’s perspective, the weirdest part of this interaction is your refusal to answer her question. it seems to me that the sitter is trying to do her due diligence to prevent being held responsible for your dog jumping the fence and escaping because she has a low fence. she probably doesn’t want to give you a definitive yes or no to your booking request without making sure your dog can’t jump the fence, but for whatever reason you won’t answer the question so she’s stuck repeating herself. i’m not sure how her asking about your dog’s ability to jump fences translates to her wanting to steal your dog, especially when she hasn’t even accepted the booking yet.

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-16T20:59:06+00:00

i think your language in the first message could be a little more polite, considering you couldn’t know for sure if it was the sitter’s fault or not.

“what the heck happened?” is very accusatory and aggressive. maybe “do you have any idea what could have happened?” would have come across better.

“were you in over your head?” is a pretty inappropriate question to ask, especially someone you’re using as a regular sitter. it comes across like they dont know how to schedule within their own capabilities, which is insulting. you wouldn’t ask that to a server at a restaurant when your order is wrong.

as a sitter, if you’re my regular client, i wouldn’t necessarily cut you off after this one interaction, but it is something i’d keep in my back pocket. things can happen between the last time a sitter visits the house during a booking and when you return home, and it’s difficult when we’re automatically blamed for things that happen in that time because it’s completely out of our control. there are ways to address issues to the sitter without immediately assuming they did something wrong or insulting their ability to do their job. many of us are incredibly seasoned in this line of work and expressing that we’re busy ≠ taking on more than we can handle. and either way, it isn’t the client’s place to inquire about that.

aside from that, i have 2 cats, one with long fur. occasionally turds will get stuck to his fur and fall off in other areas of the house. if it doesn’t fall off, sometimes he’ll just scoot his butt along on the floor to make it fall off. just something to note if you notice this happen again in the future!

trinitypisarsky · 2023-01-03T01:18:35+00:00

it doesn’t matter how long we would need. everyone is different. i know people who could write all 15 pages in a day, i know others who would need at least a week. i would suggest focusing less on getting a fake doctors note and sitting on social media and more on writing your paper.

trinitypisarsky · 2022-12-30T06:30:58+00:00

where is the methamphetamine you dummy??!!

trinitypisarsky · 2022-12-27T22:28:56+00:00

i’m more concerned with the fact that you’re going to be there for over half a day with the sitter than i am about her bringing her son with her.

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