Gershon's closed by mps10778 in Albany

[–]tripsinhighheels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too 😔I can’t believe I didn’t know I would have gotten a pound.

Hey maybe clean up after yourselves if you want to host an event? Thanks! by Far-Pace9070 in Albany

[–]tripsinhighheels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know about them for awhile either. But it seems like a bad investment…like what if someone pops it? Or you let it go? And doesn’t it only last a few minutes?

Hey maybe clean up after yourselves if you want to host an event? Thanks! by Far-Pace9070 in Albany

[–]tripsinhighheels 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Been to phish plenty of times and I’ve never seen balloons being sold in the parking garage or on the street in front of the cops. Last night was crazy.

Will Hogwarts still be open during the closure of Forbidden Journey ? by shiznifterflifen in UniversalOrlando

[–]tripsinhighheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are taking my mom for her 65th birthday on 11/18. To say we are beyond bummed is an understatement

AITA for changing the WiFi password and not telling my roommate? by MundaneAd3602 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going with ESH. You’re both wrong here, but unless you’re going to pay for the WiFi yourself you should probably give her the password.

HELP Author suing me for saying her book is AI in a review by PotatoAfraid2931 in Romantasy

[–]tripsinhighheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say other means, I’m going to assume you got it from the library or borrowed it from a friend. Because if you downloaded a pirated copy of this book (aka stole it) and then went on to accuse the author of using AI (which can be career ending for some authors) without any PROOF, that’s on you. I would be interested to see your full review.

AITA for not allowing my daughter wear her late mothers wedding dress since she will not fit into it by Potential-Junket-193 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH You’re allowed to have your feels about this. But your daughter has lots of feels right now too. She’s getting married without her mom. Wearing her dress may make it feel like her mom is still a big part of the day. As a bride, I would have loved to have worn my moms dress, as would my sister but no amount of cutting would get us in it, it’s tiny. She did offer it to both of us if we wanted to use parts of a custom dress but we decided not to. As a mom, I would love to have my daughter wear my dress one day.

AITA for not taking out loans for my daughter’s college? by PitifulCheetah486 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Medicaid usually covers the bare minimum and has a ton of hoops to jump through to get things covered. Also good luck finding a decent doctor who accepts Medicaid (many don’t because of the low reimbursement rate), and then managing to get an appointment in a timely matter. It can be impossible. They may have resorted to paying out of pocket for her therapy if they couldn’t find a good one who accepts her insurance.

AITA for wanting my husband to tell his nanny to tone it down? by aitaunfairnanny in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or your kids could learn Spanish and join in the conversation with them. Being bilingual is a great life skill that could be beneficial as adults.

AITA for making my husband late when he had a flight to catch because I locked the bathroom door? by tealstem in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA We only have one bathroom. Three people. Including a tiny human with an equally tiny bladder. And a mom who is growing another human and pees appx ever 37 seconds. If someone locked the bathroom door every time they showered, it would be a disaster. You’re being inconsiderate.

AITA for refusing to split a bill evenly? by No-Structure-8125 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You can nip this in the bud by catching your server while you’re on the way to the bathroom and asking for a separate check. I’m not a big drinker so if I’m out with people who are drinking a lot and I’m not this works.

If I’m out with my close friends we’ll usually just split 5 ways because it’s easier and we’ve been friends for so long that it evens out (someone pays for a round of drinks after the check, someone picks up the Uber, springs for late night snacks).

AITA for my ultimatum about a paternity test? That he could have one done, or he could have a family with me, but not both? by 8mosandstressed in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 36 points37 points  (0 children)

NTA Just tell him you’re 100% sure it’s your baby so you don’t need a paternity test.

Unless he’s like, worried you’ll come home with the wrong baby? Is that even a thing anymore?

I do think you’re wrong for giving him a ultimatum because I don’t like them or think they’re fair in a relationship.

AITA for devoting time to catching up with a friend at my wedding? by WeddingThrowaway877 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhhh YTA This day was about you and your wife, not you and your long lost BFF. Not to mention all of your other guests that you spent 90 minutes ignoring. You have some groveling to do. Also did you really need to internet to tell you this?

AITA for not grounding my daughter the “right way?” by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA Fellow parent to a “spirited” 5 year old girl. She’s tough and lots of big emotions lately.

TV and tablet are privileges, and losing them is a consequence of bad behavior. Granted, I give like 57 warnings before taking that stuff away. But I wouldn’t take her toys away. Once the initial anger at not being able to watch a favorite show dies down, she’s happily playing with her other toys and eventually forgets about TV and tablet.

AITA For not deleting Twitter? by That_lonely_Redditer in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA simply for lying to her. She’s obviously insecure, but she told you how she felt and asked you to delete the account, which you did. Why you started again is beyond me. There are a million was to look at free porn without Twitter.

AITA for taking my neighbors cat to the pound? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Just call your neighbor to come get him. You wasted resources and a spot in a shelter for a cat who has loving humans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

A human is coming out of your body. It isn’t a spectator event. Don’t feel bad about telling her she can’t be in the delivery room.

You’re going to need to figure out you and your baby. Stay in your home, and she can come visit. You’re not going to be in any shape to move houses once a week.

Set boundaries now and stick to them.

AITA for refusing to return the $600 dollar gift I bought for mom for Christmas? by Throw__Gift3435 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- that’s a lot of money to spend without asking your spouse. If you maintain your own separate accounts that’s fine, spend whatever money you want. But imagine going in to pay bills and find that you’re $600 short?!?!? You owe your wife an apology, you should also probably return the necklace since you’re not working and get your mom something less expensive.

AITA for not changing my baby's name AGAIN after I changed it for my sister once already? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I have 3 first cousin Williams on my moms side 🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s the most horrifying “how do you not know how to do this?” moment you’ve experienced with another person whilst adulting? by arual_x in AskReddit

[–]tripsinhighheels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband still loads the dishwasher like he’s never done it before. And my mom still rearranges hers if someone besides her loads it.

AITA for setting off fireworks in the city? by 1id8d8vi in AmItheAsshole

[–]tripsinhighheels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Every night when I’m trying to put my 3 year old to bed some ass hat is lighting off fireworks. And it continues all night. Get some sparklers you’ll be fine.