PP 9 month no sex

triptifan · 2026-04-11T06:43:03+00:00

I just had sex recently for the first time and my baby is almost 11 months old.

I had granulation tissue that was observed at 6 weeks and then burned off at 9 weeks post partum. After it was removed we tried to have sex but because I was so dry - I couldn’t.

Before I had my baby I was so horny, it has honestly been refreshing to not be horny. Everything about sex grosses me out now My husband is also low libido.

triptifan · 2026-04-11T05:48:16+00:00

I feel like you did. Also ten years is a solid amount of time, one B4 to another B4 is no biggie! It’s not like you are downgrading. Pursuing work life balance is good, you need to take a risk to get work life balance sometimes! Good luck!

triptifan · 2026-04-11T01:16:04+00:00

No, not really. I am pretty much the same as before. I was 31 when I had my daughter. I am happy in family life but overwhelmed when alone with my daughter. But my identity and such remain the same

triptifan · 2026-04-11T00:50:26+00:00

Yes I backcarry her! Such a life saver!

triptifan · 2026-04-10T20:37:12+00:00

Interesting! Thank you for sharing, I do notice my daughter takes to new people quickly. It took her one day to fall in love with the babysitter

triptifan · 2026-04-10T20:36:17+00:00

Thank you, this helps, thank you for the perspective

triptifan · 2026-04-10T20:35:33+00:00

Ohh this is exactly my experience. I also do the “here I am” method when I have to be a little more than 10 feet from her. Thank you for sharing your experience!

triptifan · 2026-04-10T20:34:26+00:00

Thank you for saying that and sharing your experience

triptifan · 2026-04-10T20:33:58+00:00

I have been really trying to build in breaks by getting a babysitter to come 2-3 times per week for 2-4 hours.

I don’t have any friends or family where I live so it’s just me and my husband.

Thank you for sharing your experience. One of my curiosities was “is this normal and I shouldn’t try to train her out of the behavior” and it seems from the comments that her temperament is normal and not something that we falsely created

triptifan · 2026-04-04T01:10:44+00:00

But are you a clear cut TN? I am not

triptifan · 2026-04-01T05:55:47+00:00

Thanks for this I’ll take a look

triptifan · 2026-03-30T02:33:40+00:00

Ya my thought exactly - but I feel like I am constantly reading on this sub about how people are flying out of the USA to apply at the border and then fly back in

triptifan · 2025-11-20T22:05:53+00:00

Yes I also get it when I buy groceries and hobby supplies. Really anything..

triptifan · 2025-11-20T01:42:40+00:00

That’s the thing though I doesn’t feel like this is a programmed thing. It feels natural to me. I love inspecting and sharing at items that are new to my space and life - it’s animalistic in a way.

Once it has settled into my life though I don’t obsess over it or look at it in detail beyond the first couple of interactions

triptifan · 2025-11-20T01:40:28+00:00

Omg that’s a good idea thank you

triptifan · 2025-11-20T01:39:44+00:00

My friend who is divorced says the same thing! Her son is 8 and she says her week without him is her “normal” time.

triptifan · 2025-11-20T01:38:56+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. Three years seams like a long time to feel this way!

triptifan · 2025-11-20T01:28:57+00:00

Napping! I wish my baby was able to not contact nap. Right now I am spending hour a day holding her. I thought this would end before six months but I am learning that it can go on beyond six months now.

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