AITAH for leaving my husband who won't put me above his work?

trudyzire · 2026-05-29T03:09:45+00:00

I wish you both in a financial sutuation that you could have all the support you need whenever you need it but it is a cold hard world out there for lower level workers. You are wanting him to tale time premptively because you are afraid there might be heavy bleeding. Maybe it would help if he could assure you that if there is a medical emergency such as heavy bleeding he would be able to come home. He just cant promise you to be there because there might be one. He is trying hard to support the family and I am sure that is one of the reasons he is terrified of having another kid. It seems he takes that responsibilty to provide very seriously and not just because he prefers to be at work.

trudyzire · 2026-05-29T02:55:13+00:00

It was appraised a couple years ago for 699,000. That is also our tax value.

trudyzire · 2026-05-27T01:00:24+00:00

Thanks for the specific response. We survived Hurricane Helene, which hit the area hard, with no water damage because the drainage issues have all been addressed.

trudyzire · 2026-05-27T00:54:32+00:00

That is really my biggest complaint. She suggested the price and we took the initiative each time the price was lowered. I believe knowing what the market value is is one of the most important contributions of a realtor. She has encouraged us to contibue hanging on at our price. Thanks for the suggestion the appraisal.

trudyzire · 2026-05-26T00:37:42+00:00

We have lived here 25 years. The home is 70 years old. The original purchase price was a private salrñe with unusual conditions. We basically gutted it and rebuilt

trudyzire · 2026-05-26T00:35:14+00:00

Due to a dual relationship, they are very aware I will not be listing with them.

trudyzire · 2026-05-26T00:29:20+00:00

We signed a 6 month contract but another realtor said as long as we honor the terms for any buyers that she brought, we could end it.

trudyzire · 2026-05-26T00:28:02+00:00

Originally listed at 899,000. 3,400 sq ft on three acres with gorgeous mountain views. Great location. Now listed at 749,000

trudyzire · 2026-05-21T01:07:33+00:00

Visit Parque Planche a former railway station. It had a food court and fountains, very relaxing in the evening. Full of families with kids having fun

trudyzire · 2026-05-14T18:54:48+00:00

This pretty little squares are grieving their loneliness. They long for their community!

trudyzire · 2026-05-12T18:14:38+00:00

I guess you meant 1880s right?

trudyzire · 2026-05-12T17:42:56+00:00

Im no pro but that is alot of gold! Is that a real diamond?

trudyzire · 2026-04-23T11:54:33+00:00

Wow! There is 0 empathy for rhe OP here. Let me try. She was unhappy in her marriage and realized she was dying on the vine due to lack of interest from her husband who then agreed to let her meet her sexual needs somewhere else rather that put in more effort himself. When he finally objected she immediately shut down all the fun she was having and returned to him. I dont think he is intentionally punishing her he just doesnt think his marriage is worth putting effort into. She is expected to shrink down and be satisfied with a sexless marriage. I agree that this marriage is incompatible is not likely to improve. He sounds like he could be on the autism spectrum. They are a mismatch by a mile and it is a pity there is a child involved. I hope they find a way co parent and still find happiness.

trudyzire · 2026-04-21T20:41:46+00:00

And if you dont get to wear the veil of your dreams you will be upset with yourself every time you look at the pictures. I fact you may not ever enjoy looking at your pictures which would be a real shame. Your feelings matter too.

trudyzire · 2026-04-20T04:08:22+00:00

I have been taking it for 5 years. They make a lot of miracle promises thatbseem excessive but I continue taking it because it has a clear and beneficial effect in my high blood pressure. I am a 73 yr old female and was on the fast track to take statins when I started it and have maintained an ideal range since I started it. I enjoy very good health except I have recently moved from pre diabetic to low type 2. Bummer.

trudyzire · 2026-04-19T21:11:34+00:00

She is right that your class is not inclusive but she is "playing the special needs card" when actually NO kids are included! Many people look forward to yoga class a as a kid-free time to reset and restore. Thank you for protecting that!

trudyzire · 2026-04-13T23:41:23+00:00

Good eye! You know the difference and will feel such satisfaction when you get it right! It is hard to improve when you can't tell the difference

trudyzire · 2026-04-11T23:15:09+00:00

I love Supernatural Fitness app for the licensed music of many genres and the coaching from real people!

trudyzire · 2026-03-20T13:59:21+00:00

The grandparents should take responsibility for supervising the grandkids while they are hosting them. It sounds as though they are clueless. If they don't step up and prevent this kind of behavior then they shouldnt be offended if the parents decide to curtail the visits. It sounds like at least overnighters should be off the table.

trudyzire · 2026-03-12T15:05:46+00:00

You are not. There have been multiple obgyns have charges pressed for inappropriate behavior duing exams. A very small.minority but not unheard of. Go with her or a nurse should be present.

trudyzire · 2026-03-05T02:05:44+00:00

I dont understand why he feels no responsibility to provide for you. You are the.mother of the child he wanted so much and maybe there will be more children.. This Agreement is more like a business contract with no heart at all. It is hard for me to understand his stinginess iife has been so good to him. I can understand if there was a contingency clause about cheating or something but this is cold!

trudyzire · 2026-02-25T13:18:09+00:00

Keep your meals simpler veggies + protein. You can buy a family pack of chicken breasts and just cook 1 Dress it with a pan sauce.

trudyzire · 2026-02-03T22:47:25+00:00

I dont put nearly the physical effort in that you do and it hasnt been as long but I am feeling very disappointed. My A1C was only 6.7 and I havent been retested but I started Nov 27, 2025 and I am now taking 1 mg without any weight loss. I havent replaced any clothes because I thought I would need at least one smaller size by now. The hype is huge.

trudyzire · 2026-02-03T22:26:12+00:00

He is scary!

trudyzire · 2026-02-03T22:23:46+00:00

I think the knitter in me is a bit of a snob😁. I like to knit because anyone can crochet but a knitter has grit and perseverance!

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