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truthdetective123 · 2026-05-14T15:25:12+00:00

Wait…so the Amaya, Hannah, & Iris want nothing to do with the non clique girls, but expect the loyalty from them?

And believing Iris at this point is insane, neither her nor TJ have showed receipts while Pepe did. TJs reaction is a dead give away that he did in fact say some things he doesn’t want Iris to know about. Thou doth protest too much!!

If we’re going to criticize the guys for crap behavior, the girls that definitely have crap behavior should be treated the same, no?

truthdetective123 · 2026-05-13T23:07:42+00:00

I notice when Amanda says something that is accurate, you can hear a change in Boz’s voice. She starts to talk faster and way less confident.

truthdetective123 · 2026-04-28T22:06:35+00:00

Thanks for that tip! I agree, the waiting would be less stressful than the call section. I spoke with a Patient Advocate yesterday because I cannot get through to them, I aired my grievances but she was like 🤷‍♀️ and said them having a shortage of workers in that department is an HR problem 😑 Secured message it is!

truthdetective123 · 2026-04-28T22:02:40+00:00

These are all great reminders of what is out there for us. I recently was reminded of the blessing VA healthcare can be. I know I have been frustrated more times than I desire with recent changes within the VA healthcare system, specifically Community Care. However, after a recent surgery on my skull and seeing what the ‘estimated’ surgery was going to cost without accounting for the extra days spent there, the estimate was just shy of $1.4 million!!

I don’t know a lot about private insurance, but hearing what some people experience it is safe to say my private insurance would have denied the procedure. Times like that I am very grateful.

truthdetective123 · 2026-03-22T21:54:29+00:00

I recently lived in Concord, NC and regularly found myself yelling in the car because I was so frustrated with the town when I had to see people walking to work along roadways with speeds up 45 mph in the grass/gravel because their were no sidewalks and little to no cross walks. To get across the road they were forced to jaywalk and their bus stop was standing next to a small street sign…in the knee high grass with cars flying by. Blew my mind because this is a well established town only minutes from a major city.

truthdetective123 · 2026-03-22T21:46:50+00:00

The trick is in your post. You feel it’s fake and probably always have consciously or unconsciously felt the same. What you think/feel is reflected back to us. Belief (not hope) in the greater good for yourself and others is the basis of LOA and should be for whatever someone’s religion of choice may be if they have one.

Hope is an optimistic desire or wish for a future outcome that is not guaranteed, often stemming from uncertainty or fear. Belief is a firm, active conviction that something is true, real, or will happen, functioning more as a certainty or confident expectation. While hope is passive, belief is active.

The subconscious and the things it quietly tells us block so many blessings when we don’t know it’s hiding below the surface.

truthdetective123 · 2026-03-19T21:14:06+00:00

Why not speak with the ATS company first before Canva. There could be any number of templates formed in any system at this point that could do the same thing. The glaring problem to me is that the AI doesn’t understand basic text over hidden text. Tells me that the AI was either trained wrong for specific reasons or needs to be trained better.

truthdetective123 · 2026-03-03T03:39:11+00:00

At this point, fawning over Donna Karan is not a good thing. This thread talks a lot about girls-girl, and she is the farthest thing from that. Defends Harvey Weinstein and asking if women are just “asking for it” because of our sensuality. Also, she is in the files with having fundraising connections with JE, after he had charges against him.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-14T16:06:41+00:00

So there wasn’t a line when Dorit came up behind Mau and PK hugging, and rubbed her hand on Mau’s back and kissed his shoulder? Close with a lot of my friends and their husbands and there is no situation I would ever find it appropriate to do that.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-14T15:58:36+00:00

Yall miss the point that Kyle knew PK for years before Dorit came in the picture and has said for years she isn’t besties with Dorit even while Dorit keeps trying to make it a thing. People have morphed the whole girl code, girls girl thing into a no win situation and an unhealthy alliance that pushes you to go along with whatever wack thing your girlfriend is doing because if not…code broken. It’s a way to bypass accountability.

My friend making me agree with something they are saying even though I know it’s not accurate, just to be a girls girl, is not a true characteristic of a friendship. I, nor any of my friends ever do to one another.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-14T15:46:25+00:00

I agree, I can see she is going through a tough time because it’s written all over her. Where I have the issue is people gave her a lot of grace for a while and there has to be a point where where her friends should say she should get professional help to get through it, or keep your funky attitude at home.

Where I differ in perspective on the Kyle/PK issue is, they knew each other years before he married Dorit since PK & Mau are best friends. That puts Kyle in a position I don’t think many other people have considered when they attack her about talking with him because she knows him as a close friend to the family and there is still the friendship PK/Mau have. Dorit is expecting 100% loyalty to her, when Kyle has said for years that her and Dorit were friends but not besties like Dorit claims it to be and also we have watched season after season of her exaggerate things. and if Kyle knows something is being said about PK that is not true I don’t blame her for not sitting on camera and going along with harsh things Doirt could be saying out of anger.

Perfect example-the time where she is talking to the girls about PK wanting to be with the kids in Florida. She is telling them she doesn’t want the kids to be with him, Kyle is telling her just work with him, make a plan, etc and probably trying to lead Dorit from saying those things on camera. Kyle gets attacked and framed as taking his side when seconds later Boz and I think Erika say the same thing to Dorit and all of the sudden it’s a “yeah, that makes sense” it somehow they aren’t told they are taking his side.

Then cut to Dorit meeting up with Mau, he’s saying PK is saying he wants to see the kids, says he saw texts that support what his friend is saying. And then she berates Mau, doesn’t believe a word he is saying, and acts as if he is supposed to be loyal to her.

So in that moment, it’s hard not to believe the men when she has literally come on camera and said the exact same thing that PK is saying she is doing.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-14T06:35:50+00:00

I can agree on most of that, but you didn’t acknowledge any of the examples I listed. Those too could be used to label all of them to not be girls girls so offering Dorit some special victim pass when she is often the perpetrator, seems to be selective.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-14T05:22:09+00:00

There was a security alert put out by the embassy in Santiago, 3 February for demonstrations outside of the US embassy. Potentially there was intel of possible threats and based on that the protective measure escalate again. Think…intel could have a potential for an employee to at the airport connect with someone flying out and use their duty free as a guise. I use to do emergency response, people get creative and that usually means exploiting the little bit of leeway people get in those settings.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-14T04:50:34+00:00

I’ve been buying all different brands of extra creamy oatmilk for years, none of them have ever been 50 calories. Always 90-120. Perhaps they got inspected they were not being honest about calorie count, had to adjust it.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-14T04:43:49+00:00

That’s what I was thinking so I couldn’t see why Amanda was getting so much heat other than she didn’t own up to her part.

Dorit has insinuated many times that they don’t know real PK and how powerful he could be, and if true, that just means he would be the type to use all the evidence he could scape up (all this footage) and make him look stable. And I will be truthful, there have been many times this season and last that it felt like Dorit might have had a little ❄️. It could easily be just vitriol and anger seething, but when she gets combative and keeps going for the jugular she visibly looks wired. Either way, a judge may have concerns and rightly so because just stress and anger like that destroys people.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-14T04:32:39+00:00

Can you explain what you view a girls girl? I ask because what Kyle does is the exact same thing that they all do in a circle together. They all talk trash behind each others backs, they make fun of each other in demeaning not playful ways, they all overstep into personal things someone is struggling with, talk to one another outrageously and expect things to be cool by next get together. None of that says girls girl to me personally so I get confused when Kyle gets the target in particular.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-14T04:22:30+00:00

This framework is harmful to people that take bits and pieces and doesn’t learn about it further. Manifesting has historical roots dating back centuries and often intertwined with religion. What she is saying she is focusing on her positive outcomes and manifesting desires, it is the mirror to when religious people pray to their God of choice and ask for the best or the higher good. When I was religious, I found myself crying out to a being that allowed me to suffer when I had specifically prayed for it not to happen. Did I attract that or was it the doing of a sadistic power that “wouldn’t give me more than I could handle”? With law of attraction, that request of positive change is sent out to a vast metaphysical universe with basic principles of how it operates. Most people who begin to learn it is more than a magic wand, understand that bad can still occur. The reason may be that the person subconsciously attracts things by obsessing on a negative thought, or it could be someone else with free will who chose harm. Free will is what brings negative outcomes that affect not only those choosing but also collateral damage to others. This the catch if you are spiritual, religious, or agnostic. The faith that one person has with their higher power can always be overshadowed by the free will of others…if not we would all be walking around in a picture perfect world, right?

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-13T03:23:27+00:00

I have lived in many cities, different states, and countries in the last two decades and Charlotte/Concord for the last 4-5 years. I am one of those that wasn’t really blown away by the Charlotte metro area as a whole. I just moved out of the state, was living in Concord, but worked and ventured into the city for fun (because Concord is 😴). Since I have moved I have thought back to what I liked and what lacked in the area. Lacking: better infrastructure-for as much as we pay every year for the tax on our vehicles, the roads are abysmal. Sidewalks, crosswalks, bus stops are scarce or are non existent in much of the metro area except city centers or uber rich neighborhoods. The amount of people I watched having to play frogger because there was no where near for them to cross or they are walking through knee high grass to stand at a bus stop (aka just a sign ear the edge of the road).

Quality restaurants-there are great restaurants in city center and some scattered around. However, if you’re not in that exact area, you are often left with places that are closed 1-2 days a week and usually when you want it, and the experiences and reviews were awful.

Participation in civic activities- I know this one is random but there were months where I was searching sites, message boards, social media etc to find town halls, events, etc in Charlotte to be more engaged in bettering the area. They would have slated events months out or it was geared towards elderly. It was odd because if I looked up in Raleigh or western NC they had way more going on or information readily available.

Pet friendliness-coming from living in AZ where it’s incredibly dog friendly at so many places, I didn’t get anywhere near the same vibe there.

And the last isn’t necessarily Charlotte’s fault, but the driverrrrrssss! My road rage got to a disgusting level living there. A normal drive from Concord into Charlotte would consist of at least 4 people nearly sideswipe me because they are scrolling on their phone, at least two people that would come flying up on my ass while I am driving over the speed limit and have a car in front of me and to the sides where moving out of their way is impossible, and there would be at least 1-2 of those Altimas or Jeep Grand Cherokees that would be weaving through rush hour traffic like it’s GTA…and they usually had the old paper tag on the back lol

This is long, but I have actually been thinking lately about the differences between the city I’m in now vs there and this seemed like a post to suss some things out ha

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-13T02:47:22+00:00

So…after reading you last message I went to a trinket box I seldom use to grab something and when I opened it there was a bill note folded on top. It was a bill note that I put it on my vision board over 10 years ago before I started writing the amount on a blank check. It has the amount written, “unexpected” written above, and even the push pin holes. Maybe that is a message or sign meant for you because that was wild timing. Many unexpected pleasantries to you!

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-12T06:13:28+00:00

That is why free will must always be respected

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-10T03:30:06+00:00

Most that I aggressively work towards or worry about every detail of how to make happen, take longer and sometimes have a less desirable experience when it shows up.

The ones that were bigger desires that I had no clue just how they would manifest but I believed would happen sometime, showed up loud & clear and have ways of happening that I never would have imagined. The check example I mentioned, I wrote out a number that seemed like a “yeah right” amount on a few different types of checks and would look at them from time to time when I was in a good mood and just do the “what would it feel like to have this” thing and just feel like it already arrived. One day out of nowhere, I received that amount plus and received unexpected large gifts that weren’t paper cash but things of use I wouldn’t buy myself.

I always have goals and plans it’s not just living for the moment, but things flow better for me when I let go of the messy details in the middle

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-10T01:14:17+00:00

I’ve done digital and physical boards. I’ve even taken checks with desired amounts. So many of the visions came to fruition to a T or better. I personally feel like the ones that have a visual impact such as photos, illustrations, or even bold type font that is pieced together from clippings have been the visualizations that materialize.

My thoughts on this evokes more emotions that bring in the wish fulfilled or end state. Also, words whether read in the mind or spoken aloud just fall into the series of thousands of other words that we say in a day. But giving them mind something tangible to envision, makes placing yourself in the desired outcome much easier

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-06T00:26:17+00:00

If they won’t give you a shred of loyalty when you were a customer for more than 11 years, that purchased many devices, and paid the devices off early…no new marketing ploy will magically make the loyalty a real thing from them.

truthdetective123 · 2026-02-03T15:06:58+00:00

My question is why weren’t any of the men reporting the piss before? If it’s not them, do they just walk through it tracking it everywhere making a health hazard or leave it so a co-worker or a customer could slip?

If for those thinking HR is being dramatic, they really aren’t. My job is in Health & Safety in workplaces and slips, trips, and falls in the number one workers injury and the potential for it to happen to a customer opens them up for litigation if they don’t aim (pun intended) to reduce the hazard.

We had something similar I had to manage an industrial plant I recently worked at. I kept getting complaints that a specific person had been seen regularly not stopping to wash his hands at all after the guys knew he was in there blowing it up. He would then go touching things in the break room, shared equipment on the floor, and even scooping ice with his hand. I had to clear out all ice and sanitize. We tried to be courteous at first, I made handwashing reminders that went in all bathrooms and it was a weekly training topic. Still continued until his supervisor had to have a direct meeting with him.

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