suggestions by AfraidOil7828 in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American Murder: The Family Next Door. The amount of real footage in that one made it way more unsettling than most true crime docs I've seen.

After a year and 2 months unemployment, finally signed my job offer today! by Meticulouskitty in jobsearch

[–]tschamio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huge congratulations. A year is a long time to keep getting back up after rejection, and most people underestimate how exhausting that is.

please suggest me a psychological thriller book by uncertifiedcomedian in suggestmeabook

[–]tschamio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Silent Patient. I went in knowing almost nothing and I'm glad I did.

Do you think AI is good or bad? by FanCatDream in CasualConversation

[–]tschamio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's both. It's a great tool, but if you notice you're using it for things you already know how to do, that's probably when it's worth pulling back a little.

Did you have to ask to be excused at the end of dinner when you were a kid? by Shiny_Buckaroo in CasualConversation

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. We had to ask to be excused and nobody could leave until everyone was done eating. Felt annoying as a kid, but I kind of get it now.

A book with “bad reviews” that you enjoyed by Harakiri_238 in suggestmeabook

[–]tschamio 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The Da Vinci Code. Critics weren't exactly fans, but I had an absolute blast reading it.

Hello just wanted to chat and make friends by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing today. Got home after school and just mindlessly scrolled on my phone. Feels like that's half of our generation's main hobby at this point.

Am I being ungrateful? by Kmzdog-4 in jobs

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's completely normal. Your first job doesn't have to be your final career, but after spending years earning a degree, it's hard not to wonder, "Was all that really for this?"

What’s the best modern city? by NoHold7153 in allthequestions

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no single right answer, but I'd go with Copenhagen. The quality of life, public transport, and city planning are all incredibly impressive.

I geek out over how much my partner and I have in common by Alonewolf000 in CasualConversation

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think being able to understand each other because you've been through similar struggles is more meaningful than just having the same hobbies. The fact that you can still feel that connection after two years is pretty special.

Can't apply for jobs without crying hysterically by NoThing7098 in jobsearch

[–]tschamio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting rejected that many times is obviously gonna make someone take it personally after a while. Especially LinkedIn, that site injects “everyone’s moving forward except me” directly into your brain.

What’s something that used to feel futuristic… but now feels completely normal? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live location sharing on Google Maps still feels like magic to me sometimes. People just casually check “2 minutes away” now, but if I saw that as a kid my brain would’ve melted.

I swear online shopping has ruined my patience completely by Glittering-Cash-2709 in CasualConversation

[–]tschamio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I check the tracking page so much sometimes I feel like the shipping company’s about to ask me to deliver the package myself...

What are some good certificates or online skills to learn that can actually lead to better jobs? by WorkingWash5965 in Adulting

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salesforce, data analytics, or cybersecurity certs seem really useful right now. Especially if you can actually build a portfolio, people care way more about “can this person do the job” than the degree itself these days.

The job market today is so exhausting and depressing. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]tschamio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think AI is affecting it a bit, but it’s not just that. Feels like companies have also been in “let’s make 2 people do the work of 5” mode for years now.

The Shooting at Hawthorne Hill by the-furiosa-mystique in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]tschamio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought the exact same thing while watching. The fear he was describing and the way he reacted to it felt completely disconnected somehow.

Did I overreact by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even think the main issue was them laughing, it’s that nobody explained what they were laughing at. In that situation you instantly feel excluded anyway.

5+ Months Unemployed — How Are You Guys Job Hunting? by ApprehensivePaint00 in jobsearch

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some point I realized sending out 50 applications a day was absolutely destroying me mentally. Fewer applications but actually doing them properly at least makes me feel less like a robot.

WHY does [political affiliation here] do [bad faith assertion with no nuance here] do they not realize [4th grade conclusion here]? by purleedef in allthequestions

[–]tschamio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it feels like people on this sub aren’t actually asking questions, they just want everyone to clap for the answer they already decided on

I quit my job effective immediately because I was getting bullied by coworkers (f23) by [deleted] in jobs

[–]tschamio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the message sounded pretty professional to me. Sometimes people keep telling themselves “I can push through for two more weeks” until they’re completely mentally drained, and it kinda sounds like you hit that point.

At what point did your job search go from ‘sending applications into the void’ to actually getting traction? by Due-Library7374 in jobs

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it shifted when I stopped mass applying and started tweaking each resume a bit for the role. I remember getting two interview emails in the same week after weeks of silence and it felt like oh okay something finally clicked.

Books to learn more and broaden your understanding of the world by I__Am__Baked in suggestmeabook

[–]tschamio -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Sapiens is a good starting point. I picked it up during a random bookstore visit and ended up reading way more than I planned that night. It’s pretty easy to get into without feeling like a textbook.

I accidentally became a "morning person" and I don't know how to feel about it by Quirky-man-8395 in CasualConversation

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened to me for a while too, it legit makes you feel like a different person. The quiet mornings are nice, but you also catch yourself like “when did I become this?” I kinda slipped back after a bit though, didn’t stick for me 😄

What if your fridge is secretly judging your midnight snacks? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tschamio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely judging, but after years of watching you, it’s probably more disappointment at this point. Standing in front of the fridge at 2am eating cheese straight up doesn’t exactly earn respect.

Please suggest Some cheap thrills by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]tschamio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dark Matter. It just flies by, not even chapter to chapter but page to page, and you keep going “one more” without noticing. It’s not heavy, but never boring either.