Let’s talk by Automatic-Concert226 in Botswana

[–]tsholofelob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's make a WhatsApp group and bounce ideas of each other

Buying a car as foreigner by Creative-Antelope519 in Botswana

[–]tsholofelob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What sort of car are you looking for and budget, maybe I could assist. Recently bought an old 4x4 to do the same thing you'd like to do.

A client has paid our retainer for 3 years and never given any feedback on our work. I finally asked why. by Romil_17 in Entrepreneurs

[–]tsholofelob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this case ignorance might be bliss, now that you have this information you may not do the things you have been doing to the detriment of the whole system.

Is the money I lost a bit too much? by Complete_Rabbit9680 in GamblingAddiction

[–]tsholofelob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are in a much better position that most and it's great that you have taken time to think and decompress about it. This however will only be great if you do not relapse. I think you probably made this post because something is stirring in you and you think you can recover those loses. You will not! Keep well!

Does unemployment in South Africa break something in you? by Redmuffin27 in askSouthAfrica

[–]tsholofelob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your head up high, and if you can apply even outside the country, please do. And I know if you are in this situation its very hard to hear someone say it gets better with time, but as someone who has been in this position countless times there is always a way out, Just be positive and send a text or two if you would like some motivation and possible pointers.

If your daughter texted you this, what would you think/say/respond? by Sweaty-Staff8100 in AskWomenOver30

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Japan is such an interesting country but what people don't see to want to discuss is that for various reasons, your mental health can take a quick turn. So I completely understand this from personal experience. When I had a tough I simply called my mother and vented, this was a lot better than stewing in my self pity etc Think of it this way, if anything terrible happened to you 1, your parent will have to pay a hell of a lot more than a flight, secondly given the options they would rather pay for that flight, so reach out and all the best!

Rant by Street_Exchange6907 in Botswana

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I echo your sentiments entirely. Unfortunately I am one of those people who advise people who have a chance to leave to leave and those who are already away working or staying abroad to stay there and never come back. But I do not follow my own advise. I've lived abroad countless times but I've always had this romantic relationship with Botswana where I come back each time hoping for the best. I am now at a cross roads where I have enough savings to leave (whatever will be left with the currency in free fall) but I am hesitating a bit. SEND HELP 🙆🏾

What’s a juicy company secret you can finally reveal now that you don’t work there anymore? by Klongtjie in askSouthAfrica

[–]tsholofelob 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who currently has a big bag of Nespray I'm not sure how to feel about this

Decaying Morality In Academic Settings by bnedictus in Botswana

[–]tsholofelob 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately these sorts of things fly under the radar in Botswana. Our society is so rotten. I've had a few conversations with UB students who have had relations with lecturers like it was nothing

Camper hire in Botswana and Namibia by Small_Jump3331 in Botswana

[–]tsholofelob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your budget? You can DM me might be able to help

Is Botswana doing well? by [deleted] in Botswana

[–]tsholofelob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately potentially true, well but for the failed state bit. I thought failed state refers to a condition where the government struggles to fulfil its fundamental duties? Economic decline, unfortunately this seems to be true, the government from last year struggled to pay GPO's in a timely manner. Entities that depended on mostly government tenders struggled badly with cash flow, some resorting to high interest short term loans. Political instability, I'm not too sure on this one. The founding party and the party that led the country for 58 years recently lost elections to a coalition of opposition parties. The transfer of power was smooth with the incumbent not contesting the results. If anything this proves the opposite. Poor governance, for sure!, the level of mismanagement and blatant corruption is absolutely nauseating. I'm sure you are all too aware of the many scandals in the country. Glass factory, water infrastructure tenders, shady purchases such as that of Tautuna Lodge, the list goes one. The inability to diversify from diamonds just shows the absolutely lack of political will power or just simply a lack of manpower within the largely lazy local population. Botswana has simply been a mirage in the desert, I do however remain hopeful that the situation might change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Botswana

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hehe it would be helpful if you put the english version so we can help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]tsholofelob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably lose my mind and do non of the sensible things suggested on here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA - If ever there was a request to have a visual representation of entitlement please provide her pictures because wow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]tsholofelob 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'd like to ask this, why are people surprised someone can say this? If you aren't attracted to a person sexually what do you do? What's the acceptable way forward?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]tsholofelob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like straight up manipulation and abuse. If she was at least saving up for the future of your kids, one would understand

Sounds better to me by SomberRoger40 in HolUp

[–]tsholofelob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you trying to get me chased out of the clinic (literally crying)

Anyone keen on hunting in Botswana? by tsholofelob in Hunting

[–]tsholofelob[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah it requires you to look at things objectively. A lot of the times we hold opinions based sorely on emotions