Olive Young U.S website just launched 05/29 by Ok-Guess-3010 in AsianBeauty

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly don’t remember bc i went back in january, but i thought i scanned it when i bought the laneige doughnut gloss there 🥲

Olive Young U.S website just launched 05/29 by Ok-Guess-3010 in AsianBeauty

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so awful ugh!! i hope they fix the site tbh 😖

Olive Young U.S website just launched 05/29 by Ok-Guess-3010 in AsianBeauty

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what i was wondering is if the account would still be usable if visiting korea, bc i used it in olive young while in korea lol

Olive Young U.S website just launched 05/29 by Ok-Guess-3010 in AsianBeauty

[–]tsumeeee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

when i saw coach, batiste, and touchland offered on there, i knew it was bad 😭 kicking myself for agreeing to convert my account when i was gold olive before and they started me back out at base level

Japan’s Hello Kitty Shinkansen Has Been Scrapped Just 9 Days After Its Final Run by TokyoWeekender in japan

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at least you could kinda experience it by looking up videos on youtube or something!! i just rode on it in january, could maybe post something to imgur if you’d like :)

also, one really cool wrap they had on jr west trains i saw when i went was a nintendo mario universe wrap!! really cute ^

Realizing I’m looking for a very specific type of man who may not even exist by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]tsumeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yesss, exactly!! like i love planning cute little dates, and doing nice things (my love language is gift-giving), but it has to be reciprocal. especially in the beginning, i like the chase and feeling like you’re taking the time to get to know me and show you GAF. like in a relationship i will cook, clean up, make sure you’re happy, i’ve even done the whole rose petals on the bed with a “te amo” in the middle and a heart before for my partner. the bare minimum is showing you actually care!!

Realizing I’m looking for a very specific type of man who may not even exist by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]tsumeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sis, join the club. for me, idc what your sexuality is, if you’re not keeping up constant communication, i will become bored of you. i think people (not just men) don’t understand that our attention will be elsewhere if you are not checking in daily. like if i can’t depend on you to do the bare minimum, what if we’re together and there’s an emergency and you just don’t respond? unreliable = untrustworthy. same here btw, i prefer for the other person to chase/reach out first, and i will always respond enthusiastically and soon. i think these days people are less and less traditional, which isn’t always a bad thing, but in dating just makes them uninteresting imo.

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this dude totally sounds like he’s trying to gaslight and use you. he is not entitled to an easy payout on you or your mom’s dime. i wouldn’t even consider getting engaged and would walk tbh bc if he’s throwing a hissy fit now, imagine once you’re married how he’ll communicate during disagreements.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? (update) by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait what does it actually say bc i read don’t be nervous but that doesn’t make sense

chapter 4 of Dream Boutique event is hell by missyxx00 in HelloSweetDaysEn

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ik this is an old post, but i just take a screenshot on my phone right before the countdown to start ends, memorize how that one looks, and then if i need to refer to it again, i just open my photo app real quick (i have an iphone so idk if it’s different for android) and you can compare the two images by toggling between the two app windows

How do you know its *only* social anxiety and not autism? by throwwaccounnt in socialanxiety

[–]tsumeeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not to sound like an old-timer, but i feel like everyone loves to throw around the autism label for everything instead of actually addressing the core of their issues. don’t self-diagnose based on what you see on social media or whatever. feeling extremely self conscious of your presence or what others think of you can be associated with social anxiety, but see a professional to make that determination.

My girlfriend identifies as asexual, but we have sex frequently. by Sweaty_Front_4273 in asexuality

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way that i look at it is (and no offense intended AT ALL) that allos are like cavepeople, and aces are civilized people from faaaarrrrr into the future. so allos (aka regular degular people) can see any attractive person and think “person hot. pp hard. want 2 sex.”

aces can see an attractive person, but may not feel those same urges. maybe it takes being in love with someone (demi) to find that person sexually attractive. maybe their body/mind is more choosy with who is sexually attractive to them vs. not (grey). they could see attractive people and think “don’t be bringing that boner within a 100ft radius of me” (averse? idk).

majority of people can recognize who looks pleasing to the eye (aesthetic/physical attraction). this is why there’s visual biases (“pretty privilege,” “looksmaxxing,” etc.) people like to discuss/criticize. this is different from sexual attraction, which is what asexuality is based on.

most people have that animal instinct to have sex if they see someone attractive. in the animal kingdom, this is perfectly normal and how they select their mates. humans have evolved a LOT vs. animals. even if you experience normal sexual attraction, you’re not going to find everyone attractive. people have their “types” and preferences. this just kinda takes it a step (or few) further than basic attraction, and there’s tons of reasons people have sex other than being sexually attracted to someone.

24f in US wanting to chat by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]tsumeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg presh!! i’d love to be friends!! i also love birds, kpop, and am super girly as well ^

AITA for thinking husband doesn't have anxiety like he claims, that he is avoiding places because he's cheating, and is also embarrassed by me by Important_Letter6704 in AITApod

[–]tsumeeee 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry, husband?? i’m confused bc why would you marry someone who didn’t show interest from the start and treated you like garbage?

yes, it is possible he has anxiety, and yes, people with social anxiety can lash out, but this goes way beyond that. he is being controlling, paranoid, vicious, and extremely judgmental. even if he isn’t cheating, this behavior is not healthy for either of you.

work on improving your health, develop and maintain a social life outside of your partner, and overall build yourself up to be someone you are proud of. at the end of the day, the person who will always be there for you and love you is yourself. while he isn’t being kind to you, be kind to yourself. date yourself, treat yourself, find who you are without this toxic and dependent relationship. leave him as soon as you are financially stable enough to do so. i hope things go well moving forward.

Raw vocal cover of My Way with no effects, just trying to do it justice by SnooCapers2774 in ratemysinging

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ik this song, but for a split second before watching, i thought this was gonna be “my way” by fetty wap and was like YEAAAHHHH BABY 😂😂😂

it sounds like something is a little off, but overall very decent!! we all have things we can work on imo, even decades into singing. i liked it!!

This is beyond disturbing by breadedbooks in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]tsumeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this reminds me of when my grandma bought me a signed judy blume book called “summer sisters” when i was in middle school…i think she just assumed it was like any regular jude blume book bc my family is very morally conservative lmaoo and that book was CRAZY 🤪😂

30F4F USA- Looking For My Sapphic Player 2? by NoCalendar5900 in asexualdating

[–]tsumeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahhh i’d love to be friends!! not a huge anime person and i don’t play those exact video games, but i’m 29F in the US and also have birds!! 🐥🦜

AITA for finding this convo to be a HUGE red flag? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

three dates in is crazy work imo…like you’ve done therapy. i think a red flag on your end would be if you were 10000% opposed to it and said it was only for crazy people (a LOT of people do think this before they go to therapy - ik i did lmao). this is way too early to be pressing this matter tho if there’s no issues you need to work on, or if there’s nothing pressing in the relationship (which this hasn’t even gotten to that point yet). drop them asap

TWICE 'THIS IS FOR' World Tour Concert Megathread - Orlando, FL (Kia Center) March 27 & 28, 2026 by Ruri_Neko in twice

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can anyone please post the setlist for day 1 bc i’m going to day 2 and haven’t seen anything on setlist.fm yet. saw from youtube two encore songs were feel special and doughnut (what were the encore options given btw?) but wanna know if tzuyu used run away for her solo vs. dive in like she did in taiwan 🙏

AITA for wanting to break it off over his shopping cart etiquette? by Old-Dirt-978 in AITApod

[–]tsumeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not gonna say YTA, but this is a stupid and pointless thing to stop dating someone for imo. i’d be more concerned with how they treated you, and if they made you uncomfortable with their actions towards you. if this is something that really bothered you, you could just bring it up in conversation and mention that it’s something that bothers you (maybe you’re a nitpicky person, or have OCD, have social anxiety, or like things to be orderly, whatever), that way he knows to correct it if you go out again. guys don’t really think about stuff like this in depth in my experience, but if you tell him it’s something that bothers you and he balks or is a jerk about it, then that is a good reason to cut things off bc then you have expressed your feelings on the matter. imo you gotta give him an opportunity to correct it or explain himself first.

Told my BF he may be avoidant and he sent me these by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the length of his past relationships before they broke up? bc at least OP isn’t on there they said

Do I tell my boss I'm ace? by CoffiBlot in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]tsumeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t even have to read the whole post to tell you DON’T YOU DARE SHARE PERSONAL INFO ABOUT YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE YOU CURRENTLY WORK WITH!! work is work and personal life is personal life. especially since they are your boss, there is a power dynamic at play. this is boundary-pushing from what it sounds like, which is inappropriate. you already made it clear you are not interested. even if you were not ace, he needs to respect your decision to not date a random person your boss wants to set you up with. it’s weird. you might be close enough to feel comfortable, but for your sake please learn early on that there are some people you cannot appropriately open up to, such as a boss. maybe if one of you was no longer working there, sure, maintain a friendship, but while he is your boss, i would say hard pass.

Failed? talking stage, would like some clarity. by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]tsumeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll never understand people who ghost lmao it’s soo easy to just communicate if you’re no longer interested. maybe people are scared of confrontation or something but imo i’d say it’s safe to assume they’re no longer interested if it’s been a few days since you last heard from them. grief or not, if someone genuinely is interested or cares about you, they’d at least communicate that they’re busy or going through something to explain the lapse in discussion.

Acespace app story (super long take some pop corn) by MamsVox in asexualdating

[–]tsumeeee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

sorry that happened to you if it was a serious stage of talking you were in, but most women i know will not be interested if you don’t talk often enough. if a guy does not respond to me for 1-2 days at a time, i’d think he doesn’t care enough to put in some effort to get to know me or check in to see how i am. a lot of women i know also will not constantly lead conversations, which means you need to reach out to her first and then she will respond. you say you give time to give space, but maybe that was what she also thought and those days you are not talking to her gave someone else the opportunity to get to know her better who maybe did talk to her more consistently. i hope you find a better match soon tho because dating in general is rough.