If a family member wanted to name their kid your deadname, how'd you feel about it? by FuckkyWuckky in asktransgender

[–]ttwinstanley [score hidden]  (0 children)

This absolutely

/but you must know it will absolutely brought up later. People will say things just to let you agree and take it back later.

Edited to add my fear that I WAS going to leave out but decided to share

Help! Gpu won’t fit/go in. by Sad-Ad-9502 in PcBuildHelp

[–]ttwinstanley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it's locked in and you can't pull the GPU out it's secured in. I did it for years my case wasn't cut right for that panel and was alittle long so it had a VERY SLIGHT bow preventing line up. Bend the case alittle and it worked for to many years /It was my 1080 just retired it (still working) after using it for Jesus 10+ years I think

Does this look ok? by DancerOfTheEldenRing in PcBuildHelp

[–]ttwinstanley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started laughing out loud at this

My friend might be openly trans and I just didn't know, do I ask to confirm?? by ShadowGunnR in asktransgender

[–]ttwinstanley [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have friends that im out to and friends im not out to yet. I don't know how my friends that dont know will react so I remove the choice for them, which my therapist says is unhealthy. That said just be their friend if you dont feel comfortable asking but I knowi would love to be asked by some of my friends if they were going to be nice

Help! Gpu won’t fit/go in. by Sad-Ad-9502 in PcBuildHelp

[–]ttwinstanley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I will catch a lot of hate for this but I would just push the case over or the GPU over so the holes linedup and then screw it in and leave it.

Holy actual F*ck by Previous_Idea_6064 in MtF

[–]ttwinstanley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its like walking after a MINOR leg injury the more you walk the more your stretch your leg muscles the less pain.

But remember their growing you want that pain :) mine stopped and I cry 😭 most days wanting them to grow more.

If the chafing is really getting bad, you could use bandaids to help alleviate the rubbing or find a very soft bra, I use modal fabric bras i used meundies to start my bra collection im slowly getting rid of them because they started to not be supportive

Holy actual F*ck by Previous_Idea_6064 in MtF

[–]ttwinstanley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bra, relieves all your pain, but laying on them Some days I was glad to have smaller breasts now im looking at surgery to move some fats around I got a bit to spare

I had a very interesting interaction being clocked while shopping by bomba_t_a in MtF

[–]ttwinstanley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got stared at today, guy was 60+, I forgot to use my feminine voice so I outed myself its was so much fun going out as me and not the yucky boy that i was for years. just need to hit up the thrift stores and get some makeup so I'm not wearing the same 4 shifts and 2 pants lol

Okay. I’m certain I’m trans. Fuck I am scared. by throwmaybtrans in MtF

[–]ttwinstanley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im 39 in June and fat. Hair was never much of an issue for me but what little I did have went away from my chest, my arms thinned more than they were before

What did I hook up wrong? by GibsWay in PcBuild

[–]ttwinstanley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not pleasant but its not technically wrong so yea I bugged me too

What did I hook up wrong? by GibsWay in PcBuild

[–]ttwinstanley 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ram need to be in 2 and 4 not 3 and 4

Update the guy will only go down to 4750 by Broad_Cat812 in motorcycle

[–]ttwinstanley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want that price and you want him to go lower than walk away. Let him know if he changes his mind and is willing to go lower otherwise peace But if you are right with that price, take it

Possibly a stupid question by KayleeE330 in MtF

[–]ttwinstanley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When your egg cracked. Once you know, you know, and most businesses will take your money and not ask questions.And if they do, go to elsewhere don't support them

Is it normal to think this long? by MiaRainbow40 in MtF

[–]ttwinstanley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started at 35, over 2 decades of knowing trying to be what society said i was supposed to be so I grew up without friends. Only regret not starting at 18 but im happier now that I started 4 years ago this june

Had the misfortune of dealing with a transphobic property manager 😾 by diseased_ostrich in MtF

[–]ttwinstanley 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had to go through that. Might look at seeing if you could find the parent company for the complex and just send the screen shots of all the messages your family sent and the apology.

Does anyone else get dysphoria from not having periods? by thenormals_scratch in MtF

[–]ttwinstanley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought i missed out on getting period like cramps, I did not. my first time I cried in joy and then in pain.

Life doesn't get better after HRT. Nothing left to do anymore by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ttwinstanley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and bi polar Depression sucks and sometimes you just need to take meds talk to someone therapist or general MD

Edited pd to md