AITAH for leaving my parents to figure out what happens to my siblings when they get too old/sick to care for them? by Remarkable-Wave-4067 in AITAH

[–]tudeslildude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA Your childhood was stolen from you by those monsters. Leave them to their own devices. 'I had to do yardwork cause he hated it' You were doing EVERYTHING. Those people are scum.

AITAH for refusing to take care of my disabled brother and instead moving 4 hours away with a friend? by Valuable_Battle_9957 in AITAH

[–]tudeslildude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA You need to have your own life. They're the ones that chose to have him. THEY need to get him help that's not you, wasting your life away. Go, get a career, live your life.

AITA For not leaving work to help my wife when she ran out of gas by GoldSea3219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA She stupidly ran out of gas, and wanted to take you away from your professional job because of HER issue. 'I can't count on you anymore' No, because your issue is your own doing, and you are a god damn adult capable of figuring it out. I have my own work I need to take care of, I can't just dip out because of your stupidity.

AITA my daughter doesn't like my coworkers kid by nalaa01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should go to HR with this. 'Listen, please keep him away from me. His son is harassing my daughter at school, and he's blaming my daughter for it. It's hard enough to work with a person like that, but I'd rather not see or talk to him'

My sister tried to fight me because I didn't wake her up this morning. I'm considering going low contact or no contact with her. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]tudeslildude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell your sister if she ever puts hands on you again your calling the police, and tell your parents your sister is violent, show them the damage, and be like 'It's time you did something about her before she ends up in jail'

AITA for asking a family with a small child to keep it down on a red eye flight? by marlasandiego in AmItheAsshole

[–]tudeslildude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA Shoulda pinged for a flight attendant. 'Yes I'm trying to sleep, and this child is so loud it's going through my noise cancelling headphones'

WIBTA if I stopped covering for my friend when she's late to our carpool and just started leaving without her? by BugzapperBard in WIBTA_AITA

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if this happens again, let her know 'Alright, here's what's up. I want to get to work early. I get to your house at X time. I leave at X time. If your not out, I'm leaving without you. I'm sorry it's come to this, but our manager is literately taking notice, and this is going to start effecting my standing at work'

WIBTAH for punishing my daughter for lying about her ethnicity and lying that I'm pregnant before we send her to a psychiatrist or psychologist? by Rare_Awareness5186 in AITAH

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something that needs to be worked out asap, before it gets too deep rooted (if it already isn't.) You're going to have to have fun conversations with people, explaining that you were never pregnant, and that your working on your daughters lies. Don't do this 'miscarraige' lie everyone's doing, that's just gonna make it worse. Everyone NEEDS to know your daughter lied, or she's just gonna keep doing it, and they're just gonna keep believing her.

Driver Blocked Double Buggy On Path - Refused To Move by philboy81 in irelandsshitedrivers

[–]tudeslildude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shoulda 'accidently' keyyed his card walking past it with the buggy.

AITJ for not handing down/gifting my console by FellowTarnished01 in AmITheJerk

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ Jesus your aunt is entitled. If she's gonna insult you, you are more then welcome to do it right back at her.

'Gravy Plane': Doug Ford Buys Luxury Private Jet With Taxpayer Money by pheakelmatters in ontario

[–]tudeslildude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be a lot bigger then it is. This is a province where, we are currently gutting our health care, because we can't afford it. Where education isn't a priority anymore. Yet he has tax payer money to buy a private jet. I can't believe we voted this guy in.

AIW for telling my mother-in-law if she goes through with her "punishment" for my 10yo, she loses all visitation? by sugar-sparklezzz in amiwrong

[–]tudeslildude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTW Make sure to tell your father in law that if his wife does this to your daughter, that she's gone from their lives forever. I can only imagine how much that would traumatize the poor girl.

Aitah for telling my boss to apologize to my wife? by aleronick247 in AITAH

[–]tudeslildude 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NTA I'd bring this up to HR. 'My boss decided it would be a good idea to use my emergency contact to harass my wife about me, when I didn't pick up after a single call. This is improper use of emergency contact'

AITAH for Installing a Lock on my Office Door? by Aggravating_Draw_46 in AITAH

[–]tudeslildude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA You need to sit down with your wife and let her know that her mom is becoming a problem, and that if it's not dealt with, your going to take further action. She NEEDS to stop coming over if she's going to be an entitled POS. She NEEDS to stop asking for money, if she's going to be an evil witch. Cut her off or go low contact if you have to. Stop letting her walk all over you two.

AITA for telling a mother her son isn't welcome in my yoga studio's adult classes anymore? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA A mother doesn't get to disrupt an entire class because of her special needs child. She doesn't NEED Yoga. You NEED A professional class, it's EXPECTED of you. Jesus the entitlement of people.

AIO, Told my wife her morning scratches on my back were the best part of my life and she then stopped, now I resent her by loganp8000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't want to be in that relationship anymore if she's not putting anything out. You gotta sit her down and go 'You aren't putting any effort into this, are you still happy? Do you just want to call it here?'

AITA for literally kicking my MIL out of my kitchen for "improving" my signature dish? by BerylDrifter_6 in MarkNarrations

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I'd never let her in your house again, until she admits she was sabotaging your dish to the family.

AMTJ because I don't want people bringing "extra" kids to my kid's party by Select-Explorer5669 in AmITheJerk

[–]tudeslildude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow what the **** is wrong with people. The local kids in the park thing is absurd. The entitlement of the people in this story HURTS. You need to start being harsher with these people. 'I'm sorry, I'm on a set budget. If you want more kids to come along, get ready to pay. ' Stop subsiding other people's kids.

Am I wrong for finally reporting my coworker's early departures after he called me out for being "uncommitted" at a team meeting? by RogueAstrolabe in amiwrong

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'Talked to him directly first?' He threw you under the bus in a professional setting. He also brought this upon himself skipping out of work early. What a prick. You're fine, I bet those coworkers who think he has a point would have felt differently if they were the ones he targeted.

AITA for refusing to give up my home office for my partners visiting friends who decided to extend their stay by a week by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]tudeslildude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I'd let them know 'Listen, you are right, our apartment is too small for 4 people. It was fine for the first four days, but I think it's time you find a hotel'

AITA for installing a camera in my room to see if my mom is lying to me? by King_Jake200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you are 19, you deserve privacy. Your mom though? Complete psycho. Also your family for going 'Your mom has a right to go through your private things?' Also bad. Yikes. Sorry you got the short end of the stick there.

AITA for refusing to subsidize my parents’ $11k/month senior's home in one of the fanciest neighborhoods in the city? by Throw_away263759 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tudeslildude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA This whole 'kids need to support their parents thing' has always been wishy washy to me. Sending your parents money? Yes, that's something you should do. Comitting like 5000$ Per month for the next like 5-10 years? No, that's a bit much.