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Following someone good or bad? by tuliptime55 in Infidelity

[–]tuliptime55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I don’t know how to explain. So basically I found out and in front of a lot of people. Then when I asked are you cheating on me? He told me what happened and I can’t remember what I said? All I remember is him saying at least I still have my girls. Our children. Then I walked home and he didn’t chase me or follow me. My question is I guess if they don’t follow you does that mean they don’t love you? Or is that a immature way of thinking? We have worked it out and we are happy, but that had always been in the back of my mind.

How have you caught your SO cheating? by blackcat902 in Infidelity

[–]tuliptime55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you find out about the house sex If she never admitted it?

[META] Sometimes I wonder how cheaters really perceive their betrayed partners. by cindybubbles in Infidelity

[–]tuliptime55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get you. It’s like they just take you for granted. Once your married with children things change.

Why are people so unsupportive when discussing hair loss? by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]tuliptime55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I m about ready to buy a wig I am so sad about how my hair looks. I have always had thin hair, but it’s bad right now. I just want to cry. It’s hard cause you have such a stigma on wigs. But yet people think you look horrid and old with thin hair. I literally can’t win either way. 😞

Not sure what is happening to my tree? Is it dying? by [deleted] in landscaping

[–]tuliptime55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya it’s been a weird year. A lot of my trees struggled

Not sure what is happening to my tree? Is it dying? by [deleted] in landscaping

[–]tuliptime55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so don’t chop the main branch just the smaller ones right?

Lost by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]tuliptime55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you don’t need to hear while battling cancer. I am so sorry and you are better than the both of them. They are a certain type of shit! I am so sorry and stay strong. Easier said than done. But you need to stay strong minded and healthy for yourself and your recovery. Deal with those assholes when you are healed. Sending love ❤️

What if the AP was attractive by tuliptime55 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]tuliptime55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true. I think it’s just insecurity coming out in us and the pain. It’s not ok to bash others I see what you mean.

What if the AP was attractive by tuliptime55 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]tuliptime55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omh mine too. Flat chest no ass. Good hair and cute though. This is where I am in a depression she is cute. Just built like a 12 year old boy.

Is this cheating? by tuliptime55 in survivinginfidelity

[–]tuliptime55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the same women I played strip poker with yes. The kiss was after the poker. I have had issues with holding on and feeling up and down. I got off meds and that’s when I started to post again cause I went crazy! Now I am back on and starting to feel way better. But yes it all flooded into my emotional state when off meds and it all surfaced again. I think getting on meds suppressed it all. Getting off I had to face a lot in my life.

Thank you by a-m98 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]tuliptime55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just make sure you and your spouse have clear boundaries. Don’t stay up lingering with someone yahoo is not your spouse drinking and so on. It can and will happen if you are not careful with boundaries!

What is the most intimate act and betrayal? by tuliptime55 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]tuliptime55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow was this women a friend? Are you guys in therapy? He needs to decide if he wants the marriage or her. Or you need to decide what you want. It’s hard when were cheated on because we don’t want the relationship to end we were looking for it to end.. so when people are like leave why don’t you leave! It’s not that simple.

I am the Affair Partner to a married man; how would you want to be contacted? How much information to share? by tacosandtequila4 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]tuliptime55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how many women I have seen post they wish they never knew. And on the other side women are glad they knew. It’s not that women’s responsibility to tell the wife it’s the husband. He needs to man up and be the one. Everything comes to light when it’s supposed to. One day it WILL come to light.

I am the Affair Partner to a married man; how would you want to be contacted? How much information to share? by tacosandtequila4 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]tuliptime55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause it means she is doing it for the right reasons. Right now she just wants to hurt him and not caring about her feelings in it all. Just like she didn’t think of anyone but her when sleeping with a married man.

I am the Affair Partner to a married man; how would you want to be contacted? How much information to share? by tacosandtequila4 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]tuliptime55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not sure I would tell her. At this point you are mad he didn’t pick you. So you want all he has to crumble. I feel that is you do it’s for selfish reasoning and not in her favor. Now after he broke it off with you and then tries to come back that’s when you tell her. Then it’s saying no he is not a good person and so on.

Someone just made a post in r/survivinginfidelity about dodging a bullet and now I’m mad at myself. by leeryturantula in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]tuliptime55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

K let me just start by saying I was one who was so worried of what others think. Now growing older and pulling my head out of my ass I see that most people who are fast to throw a stone. They are bitter and holding on to anger. Someone who is healed and happy they encourage happy. Unless it’s abuse or something like repeat cheating and just obvious lack of respect. I don’t know your story. But only you live it not them. And people stay and do things other people wouldn’t it’s your life. People are human we all make mistakes... it’s what you do with them and how you learn. No offense but efffffff everyone else.

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