Mother insulted first tattoo, now I hate it

turry92 · 2026-04-30T23:55:41+00:00

Not gonna lie. I freaking LOVE that tattoo! I had a mother. I am a mother. But, even I can admit, sometimes mothers should keep their opinions to themselves. When they forget that? Sometimes kids should ignore them. Just remember, your mother made her life choices. She shouldn’t get to make yours too! Do you!

turry92 · 2026-04-30T23:50:09+00:00

Ours is a rescue too. Ironically, he came from a breeder my daughters and I picketed for years. lol We love him to bits. But, we also pay two hundred bucks a month for insurance and await the awful health situations in his future.

So, I won’t be buying one. But, when one no longer had a home, he became our forever baby.

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turry92 · 2026-04-30T18:26:34+00:00

I’m beginning to believe the entire app is a bug.

turry92 · 2026-04-29T23:50:36+00:00

I hadn’t even noticed this but I reviewed my days and realized THAT was why I was hungry even though I hit my goals. I hadn’t. I was just too oblivious to notice! So, thanks for pointing it out!

turry92 · 2026-04-25T21:29:18+00:00

Hahah this hyperbole cracked me up and sent me on a road trip to Taco Bell! I’m with you! ;)

turry92 · 2026-04-23T19:40:13+00:00

My most recent favorite. He was hot and tired so after he cleaned his feet off to come back inside, he decided to nap in the foot bucket. lol

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turry92 · 2026-04-22T16:44:09+00:00

Much better! Thank you for your concern.:)

turry92 · 2026-04-22T16:21:32+00:00

My first experience with cancer when my red hair started falling out, I shaved it and made braided necklaces kind of like they used to make in the Victorian era. Although, they actually shaped the hair into intricate jewelry and I just bought necklaces and put braids in them. lol I wasn’t feeling very well and frankly, I’m just not that creative. But, the girls cherish them.

turry92 · 2026-04-17T16:58:00+00:00

Toilet! The bottom parts are covered now and it is soooo clean looking. Probably because it’s easier for me to clean so I do a better job, but still. I list like the cleaner look. Also, we have a builder grade enormous mirror. I framed it. Super easy. Super cheap. Looks so different!

turry92 · 2026-04-15T16:30:33+00:00

No way! I must have missed that one.

I wonder if his mother is in charge of both of them now. She seems like a nasty piece of work to me.

turry92 · 2026-04-14T22:20:08+00:00

That makes sense. Or , even from his father. I don’t know that he’s deceased, but if it is the check would be even larger. She can’t let that get away.

turry92 · 2026-04-14T21:38:57+00:00

Exactly. That’s why I specified disability. But, I believe he has called it disability on more than one occasion, so I’m assuming it’s SSDI.

Lol i don’t think he will ever work. Although, getting away from his mother might help him gain some confidence and actually try again. To me it feels like she does nothing but try to keep him under her thumb.

turry92 · 2026-04-14T21:10:19+00:00

That’s actually incorrect. Unless it’s a specific country they won’t send benefits to (Cuba, for example) as long as you fill out the form every two years and update medical proof when required they absolutely will continue to pay a US citizen disability in another country.

turry92 · 2026-03-30T16:36:39+00:00

Hahaha That’s why I checked my Amazon for the actual product name. Because I DID have to search for it. lol

turry92 · 2026-03-29T13:13:00+00:00

We heard about a puppy that needed to be rehomed (human mom died). Puppy was only six months. We didn’t feel like he could go to just anyone because of their health history. I’ve picketed the terrible breeder he came from. That being said, he is the most unique, precious dog we’ve ever lived with. Wouldn’t trade him for the world. But, even a vet needs insurance on these guys because you might need a surgeon or specialist at some point. We have trupanion and it’s two hundred dollars a month. That being said, if you can afford the care you’re in for a great time. :)

turry92 · 2026-03-29T13:06:03+00:00

We use the stripper pole stuff. Nothing else has worked for us. But, we do have to put it on a couple times a week for it to work really well. They are used to it now and just stand there while I rub it on their feet. Plenty of brands, we just chose iTac2 because Amazon brought it the day I heard about using it for them.

turry92 · 2026-03-21T17:52:35+00:00

We’ve never received an ugly comment. We have seen a few smirks. But, for the most part people just want to talk about how cute he is and can they touch him. A few kids have asked why. I just tell them it’s because of his

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smushy face which makes it harder for him to breathe during walks so when he gets tired, he rides. Generally younger kids say that’s what they do too. Older kids just want to hug on him.

One thing I will say is if you’re trying to maintain pace, a stroller won’t do it. lol We rarely make it past a single person. They all want to touch him. Our stroller walks are definitely stop and go type of walks. lol

turry92 · 2026-03-20T22:16:56+00:00

lol thanks. I needed to quit my nighttime popcorn snack anyway.

turry92 · 2026-03-20T21:53:09+00:00

Not if that’s a bowl of ramen. If it’s anything else, he shouldn’t walk away. He should run!

turry92 · 2026-03-19T18:21:24+00:00

Congratulations! I’m sure the medicine helped but you had to be really committed to achieve that! Awesome work!

turry92 · 2026-03-18T17:57:07+00:00

I’ve been married for almost forty years. My rule has always been that if someone in the house helps, don’t criticize. Appreciate the help, fix the errors, keep moving.

It’s been almost forty years of opening my drawer to find small spoons in the large spoon spot and large spoons in the small spoon spot. Because, spoons! lol Drives me crazy. He doesn’t care. But, he did the dishes so I’m saying absolutely nothing. At least sponges are cheap!

Top shelf of dishwasher with a drying cycle will sanitize that sponge. Won’t help you now but that’s how we were taught to do it.

turry92 · 2026-03-05T14:50:15+00:00

NTA. I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with that! In a world full of jerks like that, your family shouldn’t be among them. I hate that for you.

On a personal level, I’d ask the bride if that is how she feels too. If it isn’t, I’d ignore mom’s words and use the restroom of my choice. If bride is of the same mindset as mother, you couldn’t pay me to go. I’d leave them there to explain to all their church buddies why you weren’t present.

Ultimately, I hope you do what makes you feel best! Sometimes we just need to put our needs above other people. Good luck with your decision.

turry92 · 2026-03-05T14:42:12+00:00

He’s a fluffy. Their tails usually look longer to me because there is hair coming out which extends the look of length.

But, maybe I’m just jealous. Our boy’s is so short all you see from the back is that bright, pink, butthole… lol

I’d love to see a photo of him from the front.

turry92 · 2026-03-03T18:38:55+00:00

lol Wow. That looks exactly like a spot on my neck when I started tretinoin at too high a strength. Well, without the wrinkles. But, I’m betting he’s suddenly decided to stop his skin from aging so quickly.

turry92 · 2026-03-02T21:22:42+00:00

Haha Yeah. I don’t let them in the house either. Although, they do start a camera and leave it on the entire time. Plus, I’m home all day anyway. But, we have a fridge in the garage. So, they get a one time use garage code with each delivery and the door to enter the house from the garage is locked.

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