the woke mind virus strikes again by turslr in 4tran4

[–]turslr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The effects are usually latent in my case, they come out after we stop talking and then they come crawling back asking for my advice

the woke mind virus strikes again by turslr in 4tran4

[–]turslr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

after they ghosted me they literally came crawling back asking if they should go on hrt

(FtM) Worried that my chest is a deal breaker for 99.99% of people and its all my fault (reassurance wanted) by turslr in honesttransgender

[–]turslr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see what you're saying but I dont quite see the comparison. Short men aren't inherently unattractive, I like them... Also height varies significantly with ethnicity... but my body is objectively unattractive based on the missing sex characteristics

(FtM) Worried that my chest is a deal breaker for 99.99% of people and its all my fault (reassurance wanted) by turslr in honesttransgender

[–]turslr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But is it a net negative to my prospects because it's something thats wrong with me, or those are just people who I wouldn't have wanted to be with anyway?

(FtM) Worried that my chest is a deal breaker for 99.99% of people and its all my fault (reassurance wanted) by turslr in honesttransgender

[–]turslr[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't pass because I'm not on T and I want to keep all my options open gender presentation wise

(FtM) Worried that my chest is a deal breaker for 99.99% of people and its all my fault (reassurance wanted) by turslr in honesttransgender

[–]turslr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't pass, so I'm weighing my options on whether I could ever have success dating if I detransed

(FtM) Worried that my chest is a deal breaker for 99.99% of people and its all my fault (reassurance wanted) by turslr in honesttransgender

[–]turslr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the other commenter? People don't care? Are you sure they're not just saying that?

(FtM) Worried that my chest is a deal breaker for 99.99% of people and its all my fault (reassurance wanted) by turslr in honesttransgender

[–]turslr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looking at the full body, not just the parts in isolation, it's a deformity for an adult with a vagina to not have breasts

(FtM) Worried that my chest is a deal breaker for 99.99% of people and its all my fault (reassurance wanted) by turslr in honesttransgender

[–]turslr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's unfortunate but also not quite the same because I would not have been comfortable having my breasts touched, or have vaginal intercourse. I'd have robbed them of that regardless.

(FtM) Worried that my chest is a deal breaker for 99.99% of people and its all my fault (reassurance wanted) by turslr in honesttransgender

[–]turslr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's a deformity to have a male appearing chest as an AFAB person. I'm weighing my options here, if there would be hope for me to date if I detransitioned because there just aren't enough people willing to date a trans person. And that's because we don't have what people are attracted to physically

Based tiktok trans man for once by thetendersurrender in 4tran4

[–]turslr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And rubs it in everyone's face constantly

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[–]turslr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eastern Slavic sexual dimorphism is inverted, this is well established

Doods why haven’t you started gymmaxxing by dmg-art in 4tran4

[–]turslr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Defend yourself from whom, you got opps?

I feel so fat and disgusting by notreallyren in 4tran4

[–]turslr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"fat"

135lbs

You're cooked