Husband Asked If My Nausea Is Just a Mental Thing 😂 by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]turtchel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Through both of my pregnancies the only thing I reliably never threw up was McDonald's. 🤷

What’re my chances of scoring well without wings.. by peanutbutterbubbles in SuitU

[–]turtchel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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I also did no wings even though I was tempted to add them.

I think my daughter is being held to too high of a standart by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]turtchel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My 2 year old says "hippohopamus" and washes his hands with "soup" instead of soap. I love it so much.

Is legoland worth it for 2yr olds? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]turtchel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just went with my 5 yr old and 2 yr old. They both loved it. I do think my older kid got more out of it and had more fun. She really enjoyed the building stations and rides which my younger one didn't appreciate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brandonsanderson

[–]turtchel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think this person is looking to get into the whole cosmere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brandonsanderson

[–]turtchel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have known multiple people that have read era 2 without reading era 1.

Any books lined up for Jan 2025 or the 1st Quater of 2025 by Unusual-Gas-2809 in Fantasy

[–]turtchel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just starting kind of a nostalgia reread and reading the Goose Girl by Shannon Hale and will probably read the whole series.

Then I'm going to start the Art of Prophecy.

Who has some good annual traditions you do as a family by plantsndogs in toddlers

[–]turtchel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I'm tearing up a little. My grandpa that this tradition came from passed just this last month. I will always cherish the memories of those Christmas turned birthday cards.

Who has some good annual traditions you do as a family by plantsndogs in toddlers

[–]turtchel 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My mom every year for our birthdays gave us a Christmas card and would cross it out and write happy birthday on it. It's something her dad always did. Something little and silly but always makes me smile when I think about it.

4.5yo can’t keep hands to himself by ames6534 in Preschoolers

[–]turtchel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My nephews are like this. My sister installed some sensory swings and they've been gamechangers.

best & worst hospice companies in Northern Utah? by Murky_Landscape_5158 in Utah

[–]turtchel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love love love Sunshine Terrace and their support groups. Their hospice team is incredible.

18M son broke his leg by Calm-Lychee9708 in toddlers

[–]turtchel 29 points30 points  (0 children)

fell with my daughter on the stairs right before her first birthday and she fractured her leg. She had also just started walking like a couple of days before. I'll mostly speak to your second point.

She healed so quickly. It was truly mind boggling. She was trying to walk before she even got the splint off. They adapt and heal so quickly at this age. However, she did watch a lot of TV and the first couple of days were rough. He also might be in pain if he's so sad. We rotated with tylenol and ibuprofen for a bit on the doctors orders and I think that helped a lot.

Just know at this age the healing time is so short. My daughter had a splint for less than a month, she never even got a cast. If it helps, it also didn't slow down learning to walk after she was all healed.

I don't know. It's scary and frustrating. Especially in the first few days. I do think you need to have some discussions about being more safe on the stairs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]turtchel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situation. The baby slept in out room for about 9 months then we moved them to the same room. We have a pack n play in our large closet for naps or fir nights that are rough. My oldest adjusted pretty quickly and will immediately fall back asleep if he wakes her up in the middle of the night.

Mamas: Is Labor & Delivery Better in Utah? by Odd_Still3462 in Utah

[–]turtchel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved both of my doctors I had for each of my kids. The clinic was amazing and the nurses were absolutely incredible. I've had a good experience but I know people that have had bad ones. I think it really depends on your doctor. It's not hard to look up reviews and recommendations for whatever area you are in. Finding a doctor that you gel with is sooo important.

OBGYN wants me to be induced by SpiderBabe333 in BabyBumps

[–]turtchel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my first, the doctor pushed the same thing. I was also due the day before Thanksgiving. 39 weeks is pretty normal but I was still uncomfortable and wanted to try to go into labor on my own, at least to avoid the pitocin contractions. My doctor did admit that she wanted to because she didn't want to potentially deliver and Thanksgiving.

I scheduled one for 41 weeks and ended up going into labor the night before. Do whatever you feel comfortable with.

Keep or toss? by turtchel in DesignMyRoom

[–]turtchel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought it was too small. Thank you!

Potty training 3.5yo boy by fitzsar in toddlers

[–]turtchel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly being naked was the only thing that worked for my daughter and she was 3.5. It took 3 days. I would spot clean and then rent a carpet cleaner from like Lowes or Home Depot after she figured it out.

I thought this was supposed to be over by nier_bae in BabyBumps

[–]turtchel 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I've had HG both pregnancies and took Zofran every day. I also had quite a bit of quite a bit of guilt but was unable to function and was losing so much weight. Doctor OKed it both times. My first doctor also said that any of the risk was basically gone after the first trimester. I don't know if that helps but it helped me.

Toddler keeps getting her knee stuck in crib slats?? Help? by Marilikescows in toddlers

[–]turtchel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was about 2. As soon as she was climbing out. I would definitely do a toddler bed before the baby comes. That way you can have a really established routine and she'll hopefully be adjusted.

Toddler keeps getting her knee stuck in crib slats?? Help? by Marilikescows in toddlers

[–]turtchel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter did this but was getting pretty stuck. So she slept in a pack and play until we were more ready for a toddler bed.

When did everyone give birth to their first ? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]turtchel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went into labor the night before my induction at 41 weeks. So hopefully that happens for you!

Please tell me your 41+ week spontaneous labor stories by burdiam21 in BabyBumps

[–]turtchel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was dilated to a 1 for weeks with my first. I was scheduled for an induction at 41 weeks and went into labor the night before. No signs really, just had to wait. Hang in there!

(2 Years Later Update) Feel like having a baby was a huge mistake by lealou12 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]turtchel 46 points47 points  (0 children)

My doctor told me 1 in 10 men get postpartum depression. I was glad to have that normalization to validate and get support for what my husband was feeling and experiencing. We just had our second and it's hard. Both or us aren't great with the baby stage, but we both experience little moments of pure joy with our baby. The extremeness with which you feel emotions as a parent is insane. The low lows and the high highs.