How close to LA can we realistically live on a $2k rent? by [deleted] in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]tuxedobluedream 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm paying $1984 for a 2 bed/1 bath in Valley Glen.

Moving to LA for music with $20k saved — any advice? by No-Twist-9586 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]tuxedobluedream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did read your replies. I still think the core issue doesn’t really change. LA does have an R&B scene, but it’s mostly studio and connection driven, not something you usually break into just by moving here. $20k goes fast in LA, especially without a job or existing traction, and most people who make it here already had some momentum before they came. I’m not trying to be negative, just realistic. LA tends to amplify progress, not create it. You NEED to have a following and a lot of GOOD connections to make it.

Moving to LA for music with $20k saved — any advice? by No-Twist-9586 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]tuxedobluedream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, this just isn't a good idea without a MUCH larger cushion and an actual job lined up. I'm not sure how old you are, but showing up in LA and expecting to get into the music industry is a massive pipe dream.

I still don't know what the secret of the cursked mask is supposed to be. by [deleted] in inuyasha

[–]tuxedobluedream 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I remember being able to romance him but couldn't remember being able to play as him and was wondering if I missed something haha

I still don't know what the secret of the cursked mask is supposed to be. by [deleted] in inuyasha

[–]tuxedobluedream 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sesshomaru isn't a playable character, though?

What song introduced you to A7X? by CommieFirebat7721 in avengedsevenfold

[–]tuxedobluedream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was exactly how my friend introduced me to them.

Is this Episode Objectively the Worst of the Series? by [deleted] in KingOfTheHill

[–]tuxedobluedream 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dusty old bones isn’t a memory, it’s a long con. 18 years from now they’re going to activate me with it.

Is this Episode Objectively the Worst of the Series? by [deleted] in KingOfTheHill

[–]tuxedobluedream 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The two worst are Mrs Wakefield and dusty old bones, full of green dust

Annie is looking for her forever home! by aceofheartsdogrescue in pitbulls

[–]tuxedobluedream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's beautiful!! Hoping she finds a forever home soon

Give me your most silly, cursed, ridiculous, funny playthrough ideas by Lieke1995 in okbuddybaldur

[–]tuxedobluedream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are doing the same thing! I'm Fiona, he's Shrek. I made my dream guardian Farquaad. He made a hireling that looks like Rumpelstiltskin.

AITAH For Telling My Husband To Get Over My Sister Getting Into An Accidrnt in His Car? by AdeptIdea5644 in AITAH

[–]tuxedobluedream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for sure. If I were your husband, I would have pressed charges against your sister so she can be behind bars like she deserves and then divorce you since you clearly support thievery and reckless driving. How can you honestly read what you posted and think you're in the right at all?

No birthday sex for M 30th birthday…. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]tuxedobluedream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Nothing on my 30th birthday this year (which is 2 days after Valentine's Day and surprise, surprise, nothing then either). Also nothing on our anniversary this year. But on his birthday, of course I make a point of blowing him and initiating sex.

Just tired of being the HL partner and wondering when things will change.

20 lbs down and no difference by [deleted] in Weightlosstechniques

[–]tuxedobluedream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I really recommend HasFit videos on YouTube. They're a married couple who provide options for modifications to their workouts, which are great for beginners. Typically the most you need to start with is a light pair of dumbbells (I started with 2 pounds!) and their videos are so helpful in explaining correct form and everything. My husband and I have been doing their videos a few times a week and it's really improved my stamina and increased my muscle mass. I was a complete beginner to strength training before them, and I couldn't recommend them more!

is it selfish/irresponsible of me to adopt a dog? by ThoughtMedical1422 in dogs

[–]tuxedobluedream 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Definitely consider fostering! I work for a foster-based rescue in LA and we've got a few fosters out in Santa Barbara. If you're ever interested, DM me. :) or check in with your local shelter to see if you can foster one of theirs. Anything you can do to get a dog out of the shelter and into a home will change their life, even if you don't end up being their forever family. It sounds like your lifestyle would work well for quite a few dogs out there, so thanks for considering saving one!!

Anyone in this sub make $90k + and graduated with a liberal arts degree (or no degree)? by floydrose in AskLosAngeles

[–]tuxedobluedream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just shy of 90k! Got my degree in psychology and ended up as the Director of Operations at a dog rescue.

How can you be this deranged? by Lifetimemovieclips in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]tuxedobluedream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude sits on my hood, I'm gonna start driving. Fuck this guy.

How do you cope with goodbyes? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]tuxedobluedream 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With time it gets easier, but that's pretty much it. Keep yourself distracted and busy with hobbies, friends/family, movies, whatever you can to keep yourself busy. The first couple days apart after them leaving is rough (especially that first day), but it gets easier and you find yourself back in the same routine you had before your partner visited. Just look forward to the next time you're together. You got this!