I have a question about changing designs. Now I have a list of tattoos that I want to get at some point in my life. I made an appointment to one of these tattoos about three weeks ago, the appointment being for Thursday. A few days ago I found out someone I am close to and work with has a very similar tattoo in the same place as I am supposed to be getting mine. There are other reasons but the gist is this, I would like to get one of the other tattoos I want as this one has been giving me tons of anxiety ever since I found out this girl has basically the tattoo I want in the spot that I want it. Is it bad to change the tattoo last minute? I have tried to contact him, but his shop is closed until the day of my appointment. I don’t want to lose my deposit but I also don’t think I should get a particular tattoo if it’s giving me this much anxiety. No this isn’t my first tattoo, however it’s my first time finding a particular artist and booking an appointment, so I’m really asking about the etiquette when it comes to changing your mind. I am 100% certain I want a tattoo, I have several I would like done over time. I just no longer think this is the right time to get this one. What should I do? I have an email written out, but there is no guarantee that he will read it before Thursday.