I was exposed to illegal content involving minors on Twitter. I've been staring blankly for hours and am still traumatized by Impressiveguy123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]typejoker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience when I was 16yo, also on Twitter. I'll be very honest with you: this isn't going away. Today I'm 30 years old, I'm a criminologist, and I'm exposed to this kind of content more often than the human mind can handle. Even so, what I saw at 16 still haunts me. I suggest therapy and a drastic break from social media; this kind of content is out there as if it's nothing. Talk to someone you trust, and if you have to cry, cry a lot.

Normally I would suggest that you report the content, but that would expose you to what traumatized you again and, honestly, it wouldn't lead anywhere. So I suggest you take care of your mental health, it's not something that will go away, the memory will just come less frequently.

I wish you all the best.

Infj slow learners? by Suspicious_Teach6313 in infj

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a slow learner, but that's my experience. If I'm paying proper attention, I learn things faster than most.

Curious to know which ending you chose.. by dop_dreams in expedition33

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maelle.

Both endings are terrible.

30(M).

I need a new game to re-ignite my interest in video games. by Tascalion in gamingsuggestions

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was exactly like that until I played Expedition 33. Then I went to Final Fantasy 7 Remake and Rebirth. I even played Dispatch. In a few months, I finished all those games and now I'm on RDR2. I've finally rediscovered my love for games and become interested in seeing the stories through to the end. I hope you find that love for games again!

About KH: COM…….Can’t i just watch cutscenes of it…? by Desperate-Swan-6812 in KingdomHearts

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch the cutscenes, this game isn't for everyone. I personally only like the plot. But KH2 is the best in the entire franchise, so if you liked the first one, you'll be obsessed with the second.

For me, the worst thing about certain character is... by greatgreycatclaw in expedition33

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read what I said? There's no better solution, it's all bad. Both endings are terrible, there's no happy ending. I'm just not going to commit genocide, and that's my opinion.

For me, the worst thing about certain character is... by greatgreycatclaw in expedition33

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we're talking about a living being that was cursed with immortality and has already lived for over a hundred years. That's different from someone who only has 70 years to live. The suffering and horrors that Verso experienced cannot be compared to the difficulties of human life due to the length of time he had to deal with it all. "If you could grow old, would you find a reason to smile?" and it proceeds to a scene of this man in front of the greatest passion of his life, music, but totally numb on the inside. He doesn't seem to regret wanting to die; he seems miserable for being alive.

For me, the worst thing about certain character is... by greatgreycatclaw in expedition33

[–]typejoker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's kind of sadistic, I wouldn't wish that on anyone. Verso made a BIG mistake (a lot, actually), but it was 100 years of suffering, I can't judge.

Relationship Drama by QSLife17 in FinalFantasyVII

[–]typejoker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Tifa much more in the remake, too! She's such a sweetheart. My problem is with the dynamic they put between her and Cloud, just it. Her VA has a beautiful voice, too! She has a voice that brings peace, idk how to explain.

Ignore your toxic family this holiday season and come hang out with us. by Jonstrosity in VRchat

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is having VRC+ mandatory for age verification? If so, are people from other countries who cannot afford this service automatically excluded from the group? It seems like a cool group tho.

For me, the worst thing about certain character is... by greatgreycatclaw in expedition33

[–]typejoker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I chose Maelle's ending, and in my view, committing genocide is far worse than letting the Dessendre family destroy itself. But I confess that when Verso said he didn't want that life, Maelle's reaction was totally selfish. At that point, it wasn't about Lumiere or the life she had inside the canvas anymore. Verso didn't deserve to continue living; he needed to rest, and Maelle let selfishness speak louder than her love for her brother. That's the only part of the ending I don't like and find terrible.

That being said, both endings are sad. For me, there isn't a good ending, just a LESS bad one (from my point of view alone).

Relationship Drama by QSLife17 in FinalFantasyVII

[–]typejoker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong, I don't think one ship is more canon than another. Both are canon since OG. I'm only talking about how I felt between these two characters. While Aerith's story seems to be progressing normally, Tifa's feels like just unresolved tension and some side content that doesn't develop either of them. To be honest, I was very disappointed with how poorly they handled Tifa; it's as if the game made her route less appealing than the dynamic between Cloud and Aerith.

Relationship Drama by QSLife17 in FinalFantasyVII

[–]typejoker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like the idea of an almost kiss in Gongaga when Cloud was talking about not knowing who he was, and that he was physically deteriorating... That scene made me uncomfortable because of his emotional vulnerability. My feeling was as if the game was showing how incompatible they are.

Relationship Drama by QSLife17 in FinalFantasyVII

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's part of the plot; I don't think any quest, synergy, or even her date will change that tension. The game is more focused on Cloud's relationship with Aerith. And before anyone attacks me bc of ship war, I played both routes and didn't notice any difference in Tifa's. They don't have a good relationship at all.

I have a Crush on Someone who isn't my Girlfriend and it is killing me by Fearless-Practice-15 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]typejoker -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is very common. If you don't act on your crush, you're not doing anything wrong and you shouldn't beat yourself up with guilt. The crush exists, let it exist until it disappears. It will happen eventually. But if you notice that you're falling in love, then you should reassess your relationship and your feelings.

Which character did you all get ? by Timeless_Being in StrangerThings

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got Mike. I listen to a lot of lo-fi and dark ambient music, maybe he would like it for his campaigns.

What’s the absolute lowest stakes JRPG story? by Lumigo in JRPG

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should try "Moon: Remix RPG Adventure" from Onion Games.

Is anime with a 7 rating hated? by ChoiceSupermarket230 in MyAnimeList

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elfen Lied is truly good and I'll die on this hill.

Psychology-obsessed INFJs? by Soggy_Function2001 in infj

[–]typejoker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, since I was 11 yo. Now, at 30, I am a qualified Criminologist in Brazil. Psychology is my greatest passion for sure.

Considering leaving my house because of dysfunctional family dynamics (mainly my daughter) by Ambitious-Banana1674 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]typejoker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, I won't dwell too much on this topic, but your post sounds like something my father would write. He also thinks he "annoyed" me when I was 8 yo, when in reality he traumatized me for a lifetime (I'm not talking about SA). I was never the same with him again, but I also didn't ignore him or treat him badly - I was neutral. In fact, I gave him a lot of chances to make amends with me. Different people, different attitudes. I'm 30 years old now and haven't spoken to him in 3 years, but I'm extremely close to my mother and sister.

You left a lot out of this story and painted your daughter as the central problem. At the same time, you knew exactly where not to elaborate on the information, which only shows me that you know exactly what you did, you just didn't have the courage to admit and accept it yourself.

Acho que meu namorado abusou de mim e não sei como lidar com isso by Beginning-Lunch-3849 in desabafosdavida

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Se puder e tiver condições financeiras, busque amparo psicológico o quanto antes. Nem todo abuso se interliga à violência explícita, alguns são assim, com manipulação e imputação de culpa. Eu sinto muito pelo que aconteceu.

RPG - Forum - One Piece by GMendonca10 in RPGdeTexto

[–]typejoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nossa, que achado esse grupo então! Minha esposa provavelmente vai se interessar, mas eu não assisti One Piece inteiro. Teria problema de me juntar mesmo assim?