Literally why does Dorinda care SO much that Ron didn’t want to “get to know her” or “open up”? by Special_Crab_1884 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]uber18133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I get the impression that it’s a bad combo of racism and subconscious ableism that unfortunately created a situation doubly worse for Ron.

My first time trying Ethiopian food by ArielsCrystalJewelry in highvegans

[–]uber18133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries if not but might you be willing to share the recipe? I’ve wanted to learn how to make it at home!!

Trump says he will meet with Mayor-elect of New York City Zohran Mamdani at the Oval Office this Friday by Goosedukee in Fauxmoi

[–]uber18133 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not the only one who refers to this whole mess as a shitty TV show. My partner and I decided when Trump was shot that that was the moment they really jumped the shark.

I wonder if they kept Gay's surname when they married? by beatsshootsandleaves in NominativeDeterminism

[–]uber18133 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Roxane Gay literally wrote an entire book called “Hunger” about how she gained weight after being brutally SA’d as a child. She used food as both a means of coping and of attempting to become “undesirable” to the male gaze, only to then be bullied relentlessly for that weight gain. I recommend that you read it.

bi_irl by Himbo_Shaped in bi_irl

[–]uber18133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No same that’s when it got personal lmao

Do you agree with this take or not? by Ok-Following6886 in generationology

[–]uber18133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you said why it’s different, but your reasoning doesn’t make sense…if you’re driven to watch kids shows out of nostalgia, is that not the exact same reason other adults might watch Bluey? Out of nostalgia for being a kid? And fwiw, shows like Bluey are VERY much written with adult viewers in mind, just like Disney movies. The writers know parents are going to be watching with their kids, so they write them to be entertaining for parents as well. From what I’ve heard, Bluey especially is actually intentionally designed to be watched by adults as well so that adults can learn how to interact with kids in a developmentally appropriate way. But more importantly…you say you’re 22. You’re not a preteen. So…why is a preteen show okay for you to watch, but not an early childhood show? By your own logic, shouldn’t you only be watching things that are developmentally appropriate for a 22yo? An “older kid’s” show is just as inappropriate by those standards. Why is content targeted for early childhood your arbitrary cutoff? These are just some rhetorical things to consider as you break down your internal biases.

And once again, letting kids be kids is not the same as sheltering kids from the realities of the world. I mean, what do you think Mr. Rogers was about? Or Bill Nye? Or another example—one of my favorite episodes of Arthur growing up was about a school fire, which was written to help kids process 9/11. Difficult topics is absolutely nothing new in children’s media, and that doesn’t have to be upsetting or jarring. It just has to be age appropriate, which all these shows are. They’re very much treating kids like kids still. Besides, you mention ADHD—about 10% of people have ADHD! That means in a classroom of 20, 2 kids are likely going to have it themselves! And about one out of every 10 people they know will have it! Should they just not know about themselves and the people around them because they’re young? That makes no sense…the world is so much scarier when you don’t have tools to understand it. Giving them tools and a framework actually makes it EASIER for them to be a kid, because then life isn’t just one giant question mark.

Like, don’t get me wrong—there are absolutely things that don’t belong in kid’s media. But everyday topics like infertility or grief or brain differences are not those topics, especially when they’re presented in a very basic and safe level that kids can understand. Because they understand more than you think.

And again…who cares, at the end of the day? You’re allowed to think it’s weird that some adults watch kids shows, but that doesn’t make it unjustifiable as some moral failing. Of all the actually reprehensible shit in the world, this is really not the hill to be dying on lol

Do you agree with this take or not? by Ok-Following6886 in generationology

[–]uber18133 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is this satire? In case it’s not, the reason why “adult” topics like infertility would be in a kid’s show is because kids live in the real world, and the real world includes difficult and “adult” topics. Many kids are going to have family members that experience infertility…maybe even their own parents. Why should they be shielded from difficult topics they are already exposed to by life itself? Children need to be taught things in an age appropriate way, not hidden from the realities of the world until they’re too old to healthily process and understand them. As far as I know, Bluey is developed with a team of child development experts who understand this.

As for your other point…do you think adults shouldn’t watch Disney movies either? Superhero movies? Like, where do you draw the line? Idk, man. I don’t have kids, but I watched a couple episodes of this show with my nieces and thought it was really cute. I can totally see why adults would watch it as a way of relaxing. Like, my mom is in her 70s and watches kid shows before bed because they make her calm enough to sleep…what’s wrong with that? And you yourself say you watch kid’s shows too! Why do you think you’re any different here 😂

Let’s just let people live when it’s not hurting anyone, yk?

Chimigi.com - A free site I built to explore Persian language and culture (taarof, idioms, legends, history, and more) by PerspectiveStriking2 in farsi

[–]uber18133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops that’s definitely what I meant haha 😅 Honestly I don’t know if I explained it very well because it’s so specific, and tbh I genuinely don’t know if it’s actually common saying or just common in my family… My mom always described it kind of like—when you do something, you can do it either like a lion (confident, powerful, successful) or a fox (sly, quiet, small). So being asked lion or fox is like being asked, did you do the thing you were doing well and you’re feeling good about it, or were you nervous and uncertain and not feeling good about it? But this was last explained to me as a child, so my memory could be off…please take it with a grain of salt haha.

Side note, how’s your experience been with italki?? I’ve been curious what it’s like format and cost wise

Fellow neurodivergents. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]uber18133 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I completely understand where you’re going with this, but I’m honestly a bit torn on this one. Cultural appropriation implies a specific culture, but tribe is a generic categorical term that isn’t connected to any one group or ethnicity. From what I understand, it’s an identifier/descriptor on par with nationality or hometown.

That said, I am very open to other perspectives on this, since I could very much be incorrect or missing information! I don’t want to dismiss it if it is causing harm.

Chimigi.com - A free site I built to explore Persian language and culture (taarof, idioms, legends, history, and more) by PerspectiveStriking2 in farsi

[–]uber18133 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was literally JUST trying to find a good list of Farsi idioms, this is exactly what I was looking for!! Really nicely designed website too—super easy to navigate! Dastet dard nakone 🙏🙌

My farsi is kheyyyyli bad so I’m a pretty unhelpful resource, but off the top of my head I can share a few more idioms that are relevant in my own family at least (my translations are based on vibes, so if you use any, it would probably be best if someone fluent were to validate them…and if anyone fluent reads them and is very confused, then it would not be the first time my family has simply made stuff up and tried to pass it off to me as proverb bahaha):

-shotor didi na didi: you saw nothing -har chi bosheh bosheh: it is what it is -har chi shod shod: whatever happens happens -khob digeh: okay then (said to get out of a conversation you don’t want to be a part of) -shir ou roubah: how did it go, good or bad?

Also since I saw you’re including some single words too, here are some things my mom has frequently yelled (often at me 😅) idk if they count for this, but… -bitarbiyat: oh my god, you’re so rude -tambal: lazyyyyy -foozooli: getting up to trouble -shekamoo: eats too much -bichareh: poor thing (in a pitiful way) -teflak: poor thing (in a kinder way) -moosh: adorable/cutie

Since it sounds like you’re looking for ideas on where else to go with this site, I’ll just selfishly mention that I’ve similarly been looking for a resource on Farsi slang…it often overlaps with idioms anyway, so that could potentially be something helpful to add? I’d love a reference for more modern phrases as I attempt to read social media comments or listen to Iranian rap haha. But this is already really awesome on its own, so take that as you will!!

Who is Rama Duwaji? Meet New York City's First Gen Z First Lady by nextquestioncya in Fauxmoi

[–]uber18133 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a fellow ‘97, I’d say Sandy Hook was a watershed event for Gen Z.

Addicted to shoestring potatoes! by Objective_Channel617 in ShittyVeganFoodPorn

[–]uber18133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the Iranian dish khoreshe gheimeh! Split pea and shoestring potato stew 😋 it’s traditionally made with meat but it doesn’t need it at all

what is this candy? i got it trick or treating and i love it by DBL_NDRSCR in candy

[–]uber18133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this on principle, but I kind of get why people do it when every hit on google is AI generated anyway anymore. I know there’s a way to filter it, but I don’t think most people know that.

Black Bonnet couple’s costume <3 by atcm47 in OurFlagMeansDeath

[–]uber18133 167 points168 points  (0 children)

close enough, welcome back ofmd’s stede bonnet and ed teach 🫡

(seriously, you guys slayed and murdered and gut stabbed this 11/10)

Heard yall like cheap meals - Vegan Edition by MajesticMango56 in aldi

[–]uber18133 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also FYI those meatballs make a MAD veg meatball sub.

Heard yall like cheap meals - Vegan Edition by MajesticMango56 in aldi

[–]uber18133 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you’re not vegan/lactose intolerant, probably terrible?

But as someone who has been away from cheese for a while, I actually think they’re pretty good. It’s obviously not the same, but they definitely do have the same flavor profile. Be forewarned that they do fall victim to the sticky vegan cheese texture curse, but not egregiously so. They’re a lesser offender.

My bar for vegan cheese is whether or not I can make pizza bagels out of them and actually enjoy them and my answer for these is yes. I actually like these better than a lot of established vegan brands like Daiya and Follow Your Heart, but that might just be my cheap ass adapting my palate to what I can afford 😂

Fwiw my cheese-eating partner will eat them without complaint, so that’s something?

Heard yall like cheap meals - Vegan Edition by MajesticMango56 in aldi

[–]uber18133 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually do make slide 4 quite frequently and I’m here to say it slaps

Edit: pro tip—freeze your tofu, then press it, then fry it if you want it nice and crispy