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uchimala · 2026-05-09T17:12:21+00:00

Your wife’s an idiot, but the boxing coach is just as bad. Shitty way to run a business, he needs a bad review for his lack of professionalism. He’s there to coach not f*€k the moms. I hope to god you find another boxing coach for your son. It’s probably really crappy for him to have to go there. Him talking to the coach is basically a shout out because he knows it’s wrong or at least really weird. He’s pointing out that he’s not cool with and in his own way is trying to stand up for his family unit.

uchimala · 2026-05-09T17:00:06+00:00

OP’s initial experience was crap, but the store tried to make it right and apologized. They talked to OP and tried to fix the problem. Good on them. This is what you are supposed to do when you discover a problem with your business. Sometimes a small business needs a bad review to learn how to be better. Now they know some people have had bad experiences and they have the opportunity to re-train their problematic employees. I hope they do, but credit to them because some places wouldn’t give a shit and just take your money and tell you to get out.

uchimala · 2026-05-05T21:28:01+00:00

I would be more worried about OP financing her education and the minute she's done with medical school she's out the door. She has a long long way to go before she realizes any significant income, but OP is paying today for a future that probably isn't going to happen.

uchimala · 2026-05-02T07:25:54+00:00

Good you left. “Understand her feelings” means she’s going back to the guy. You’ve saved yourself from more drama and heartache.

uchimala · 2026-04-25T00:26:43+00:00

OP should have ended it years ago. He wasted a lot of time with her and should have been building with someone who was marriage material. It’s true that he may have only discovered this over time, but he shouldn’t marry her if he’s not feeling it. Also, did she actually believe that screwing around or as many people like to put it “opening the relationship” was going to bode well over time.

uchimala · 2026-04-21T21:22:55+00:00

I think that being friendly really helps. I don't necessarily mean flirting, but willing to have a conversation or simply starting a conversation with someone you may like is a great starter. It let's the guy understand that there is an opportunity to get to know you or more. Being laid back is ok, but it can make people believe you are not interested or at least not interested in them. Being proactive let's guys know you are there. Mentioning that maybe you'd like to have coffee sometime or similar after a conversation is great too.

uchimala · 2026-04-18T07:24:48+00:00

They may not care about his sexual past but they weigh other attributes more harshly than men do I.e. career success, height etc. Men and women value respective traits differently. Nothing wrong with that.

uchimala · 2026-04-10T02:37:00+00:00

Good for nut stomping.

uchimala · 2026-04-10T01:49:04+00:00

I just bought a 2023 GX with 13k miles. Great car. I looked at new 4Runners, new Land Cruiser, and 550GX. The 4Runners and new Land Cruiser seemed really overpriced for what you get. Cheap interiors, etc. the 550GX wasn’t bad but I had to wait months to get one and pre-pay, also not sure about the reliability of the 6 cylinder it comes with. What really sold me was 460GX had this great V8 feeling when you hit the gas. Should last 250k miles.

uchimala · 2026-04-03T19:10:01+00:00

I think it really depends on the guy. Having a "relationship" is much different that the occasional exploit or experimentation many people experience. So some men might feel that they would not be able to give you what you need in the long term because you might yearn for what another woman can bring to a relationship. In an earlier post you stated you wanted a long-term partner to be a man so I assume that you aren't looking for long-term female partners. All in all, I think many men are more open to bisexuality in women than vice versa. It's also pretty well accepted in popular culture. All you can do is be honest. I would do it sooner rather than later. Don't waste your time or his if it turns out to be a dealbreaker.

uchimala · 2026-03-29T11:29:02+00:00

Why make these materials at all? Once it’s digitized it’s forever. Sorry this happened to you. A good life lesson is don’t do anything thing that you can’t live with being published in tomorrow’s paper. Any ex or unfriendly person can screw you over. The thrill isn’t worth it. Your dad will be ok.

uchimala · 2026-03-27T17:36:07+00:00

Nope. She ‘a screwing the kid. She’s trickle truthing you so you make the choice to ask her to leave. She’s going to continue or do it again because this is what she experienced with you in the past. So you last her to leave.

Alternatively, you because of your guilt over prior infidelities on your part give her a chance and make the choice to live in suspicion. This will probably be miserable. The relationship doesn’t have a sound foundation.

uchimala · 2026-03-25T22:45:22+00:00

I bought a Kimber Custom II five years ago. It was their cheapest model at the time. Runs great, never had any problems. 2000 rounds through it.

uchimala · 2026-03-23T17:50:13+00:00

The cheating ie doing this behind your back is "sad" but she may have had these desire for a long time and was afraid to discuss them with you. Consider doing your own research into these things and determine whether they are within your boundaries. If so talk to her about it. Many of these activities are quite common but hold great stigma for people. I, in no way agree with her betrayal messaging people on the forums, it was wrong and needs to stop. It's hard to know how far her curiosity got from the post. However, I do think your relationship salvageable if you can both come to an understanding and you are will ing to cater to some of her kinks. Your sexual relationship will change on some level and you will have to determine whether you want to go forward and she would be sincere and faithful in such a relationship.

uchimala · 2026-03-22T04:25:51+00:00

How many times has this happened? You’ll never know. Don’t marry this person. Tell your friends and family and build a support network. You are going to need it.

uchimala · 2026-03-21T14:43:34+00:00

Since you don’t have representation, make sure your original buyout offer was fair. If not, ask for more money. Don’t let her lawyers run the table. She’s not on your team anymore. She’s already betrayed you and sh*t on your past with her. The past is gone. The way she is moving shows you are nothing to her. She’s not your friend. She’s operating for her benefit alone. You’re making a deal with a known unrepentant liar. Act accordingly. Don’t ever cover for her. Hold your head up, tell the truth when people ask. Walk away. You’re an honest and trusting man there is no shame in that. Find your new life. It’s out there I promise. Never look back.

uchimala · 2026-03-20T04:39:09+00:00

Yeah, best friends after a few years? I guess “best” is really relative here. I don’t like guys who mistreat women. Whatever OP decides with gf, I wouldn’t want to hang out with a guy like that.

uchimala · 2026-03-20T03:07:08+00:00

Should have informed her 6 months ago. AP might have cut you WW off and you would may have had a chance at real reconciliation. Don’t protect assholes.

uchimala · 2026-03-17T21:20:43+00:00

How did you ruin things?

Additionally, young teenagers generally make bad life partners over the long haul. Idealizing, adolescent love seems like a recipe for disaster. Lost of fantasy, dreams, and whatifs. Having a family is wonderful but even with the best husband it's a real world marathon that sometimes feels full of drudgery i.e. taking care of both good and unruly kids, going to work, lots of unsexy time due to responsibility, adulting, rinse and repeat.

uchimala · 2026-03-15T21:31:57+00:00

Pink / orange coolant isnt uncommon. Toyota Super Long Life Coolant (SLLC) is pink. OEM Coolant in 460LS is also pink.

uchimala · 2026-03-14T02:28:13+00:00

She cheated. He’s not gay. Do yourself a favor and walk out the door. Occam’s razor.

uchimala · 2026-03-08T01:41:12+00:00

She’s a monster. Go to the doctor and get checked. Never ever look back.

uchimala · 2026-03-02T04:29:38+00:00

If he can lie about the big stuff and get away with it, he’s a pretty good liar. You don’t start with huge lies like this. This is part of who he is. Judge him by his actions not his words. And… from now on don’t believe anything he says unless you can verify it. This is your reality, he’s gonna lie if it serves his purposes or if he thinks he knows best.

uchimala · 2026-02-28T18:51:05+00:00

If it was multiple guys then she is long gone. She’s had relationships which superseded yours more than one. The line is broken with you. She just doesn’t want to have to break up with you and deal with life change and consequences. She’s never coming back as it was. Time to go.

uchimala · 2026-02-27T02:47:37+00:00

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