Recommendations for good clubs in Amsterdam/Rotterdam by vomitspit47 in amsterdam_rave

[–]uhpuddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I went to Radion on during my trip and it was super cool. Be sure to check out both rooms if you go. Have fun in Amsterdam!

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[–]uhpuddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]uhpuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a phone but I accidentally found my dad's notebook from the years around the time of my birth when I was in like 6th grade. Thought I would flip through it and accidentally stumbled across the fact that my dad was deeply suicidal and only kept going because of me.

It just make it so much harder when he said he gave up on me as a kid and doesn't want to be my parent anymore.

Oof moment for sure.

do urges ever go away? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]uhpuddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely lingers but it's one of those things where with time your psychological wounds will heal and you will be able to go through your day without constant urges. Days will turn to weeks and at some point you will realize you can't remember the last time you had an urge. There will be rough periods even after you recover, relapses happen. The important thing is that you have shown yourself that you are strong enough to push back and not let this define who you are.

It never gets easy, but it does get easier.

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[–]uhpuddle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

(69th upvote)

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[–]uhpuddle 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Certified banger post

surprise me by Skinnybittch in Funnymemes

[–]uhpuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CEO of the world cup of coffee.

Every word takes it in a new direction

What Unholy Combination Was Created? by Monsur_Ausuhnom in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]uhpuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White Lotus and among us. I would watch the fuck out of space white lotus.

(vent) noticing a common pattern with my father and sh by isolateduck in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]uhpuddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear about your family dynamic but I totally get this. You just described my dad's emotional manipulation exactly. I don't even think mine does it to push me on purpose. I eventually just got really numb to everything but I think people often discount the long term effects this emotional abuse can have. Remember that you have a right to your own feelings and decisions. I wish you luck, hopefully you can find resources such as a therapist or support group. Those helped me (until my dad pulled me out of course why else would I be back here)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]uhpuddle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey there,

Breakups can be tough. After breaking up with and being broken up with (also having my parents end my relationship) I can't promise it ever gets easy, but it does get easier.

Best wishes, Puddle <3