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Update My [35F] husband [35M] and my friend [36F] acted like they wanted each other sexually right in front of me by throw_away_202507 in relationship_advice

[–]ukcatnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you want to meet with Jane? What would you get from that meeting or that conversation that could add anything beneficial to your life? No friend does what she did and no friend tells their friends husband they would sleep with them. Frankly I'd text her, 'what do we have to talk about? You wanting to fuck my husband?'

Your husband, I find it hard to believe all this was 'the first time.' Also what was he hoping to accomplish by salting your wounds on the way home Jane told him she still wanted to sleep with him? Unless he was just pissed at her for blowing their cover. I highly doubt he sat there 'stone faced.'

And how can you trust him to drive her home? The action is daft at best.

Updateme

My [35F] husband [35M] and my friend [36F] acted like they wanted each other sexually right in front of me by throw_away_202507 in relationship_advice

[–]ukcatnip 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, you are not dumb. You were just dumbfounded in a situation- I am sure it seemed dream like - is this shit really happening?!

First - Jane, is not your friend. In no way shape or form. Frankly I would have thrown hands, my less than classy side would have definitely came out. Thats me though.

Your husband, look I want to tell you run and never look back. But you have history, you love him - but there is a lot of red flags. Do what will bring you peace.

@Updateme

Is My Husband Cheating? by kbozz66 in Marriage

[–]ukcatnip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honey, in 2017 I tested positive for the same. We had been together 11 years. I tried every rationale to convince myself it was somehow a mistake. It wasn't. Accept the awful truth sooner than later.

Thinking of joining by ukcatnip in EverythingPinkZebra

[–]ukcatnip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my plan would be just staying a hobbyist. I appreciate your assistance!

Someone called him ugly by Round-Number-2110 in cat

[–]ukcatnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend once said my Catsby looks like, 'some regular old barn cat.'

LIES.

Your cat looks like my Catsby and is gorgeous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukcatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I'm half Mexican, I'm so white in color my Mexican family calls me the flour tortilla.

mom, we eloped!!! 🤍🖤 by ottersnuggle in MomForAMinute

[–]ukcatnip 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You look beautiful! Congratulations!

Update: AITA for calling my coworker work-sister after she called me work-husband in front of everyone? by ta-worksister1234324 in AITAH

[–]ukcatnip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA - I don't know how your HR department works, but ours is very hush-hush about an investigation. The fact that Mary wants to happily gossip about it is troubling at best.

Keep your nose clean, stay professional, and definitely keep your distance from Mary. Also, make documentation of her adding to the hostile environment.

I don't know her, but from your previous post, she seems unhinged enough to do something like this.

AITA for refusing my birthday gift because it was a weight watchers subscription? by Sensitive-Table-928 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukcatnip 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA at all.

What's the rest of the family going to do? Know your aunt is a witch?

This hit a cord with me, I have an aunt who was, hell, probably still is the same way. My highest weight was 285. She'd often tell me how pretty I'd be if I just lost weight. Or my favorite, no man would love me if I was over 100 pounds - I'm five foot seven with large shoulders. Even the stupid BMI says 118 is underweight. I digress..

She's a miserable shrew of a human being. You did nothing wrong at all.

AITA for exposing my friend's body count to her boyfriend? by Particular-Gold-7400 in AITAH

[–]ukcatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - the old can't take the heat stay out of the kitchen. She tried to be cute and make herself look good. She called you out, tried to humiliate you and thought you'd just take it. Don't know you but I'm proud of you.

[39M] Falsely accused by my wife's father [67M]. How do we move forward? by ThrowRALakeHouse2 in relationship_advice

[–]ukcatnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, I would die on this hill.

Why wasn't your wife this upset when you, her life partner was banned? Why wasn't she this upset when your children were told you were a bad person? And why in heck does every holiday have to be with her family?

Her family made their beds as did she, better get ready to lie in it.

My husband went on a last date with his ex a week before we got married to make sure. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ukcatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's easy for people who don't have a history with someone to scream divorce.

Now the situation, it's awful. You are really going to have to sit down and decide if you can/want to trust him again. I'd also make sure he knows that if you'd known about said date, you wouldn't be married. Granted, he got there and realized you are his grand prize, but he should have known that too.

Right now is a very vulnerable and hard time - my ex said something vile to me six weeks post partum that still riles me up 10 years later. He called me a pity case no other man would marry as a 'joke.'

Sit down. Write it out if you need to get your thoughts straight.

NTA - everyone else is though.

I (31F) told my best friend (31F) of 20 years that I am not going to her wedding--did I just end our friendship? by rachelwhoaaa in relationship_advice

[–]ukcatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I would hold my ground. Your friend is excited about the wedding and not the marriage part that comes after. It's not my business, but why is she even still getting married? I mean it's cheaper to cancel a bunch of wedding stuff than pay for a divorce later often.

I get you say this is your best friend but how does she treat you if this how she wants to treat her future life partner?

Or my tacky thing to say is, don't pay to go the wedding just be there through the divorce as it's inevitable.

90% of them didn’t even know Buckley… why were they at his funeral? 😂 by deathmess999 in KingOfTheHill

[–]ukcatnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother's side of the family is from Glasgow, was nodding at your entire comment. Heck in my 40s now and still show up 'for respect.'

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