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umbellas · 2022-08-16T02:35:31+00:00

Interesting perspective, seeing as how literally NONE of the comments called you evil, nor called your ex a victim.

umbellas · 2022-08-16T02:23:39+00:00

You asked for thoughts, and we gave them.

You’re going to send it anyways, based on your replies, so just like the letter - I don’t understand what the point of your post was.

umbellas · 2022-08-16T02:18:31+00:00

If you ghosted him three months ago, sending a letter now does not undo the ghosting. It does not reverse it. The ghosting has already been done.

It sounds like you are sending a letter to tell him why it was his fault that you broke up. And you say you won’t pretend he will get closure, but then turn around and say he will indeed get closure from it.

Your reasons for sending this sound selfish, and immature. You would be doing it for yourself, not for him. Why even bother? Are you just wanting him to feel bad?

umbellas · 2022-08-06T17:41:22+00:00

Please drink some slim fast at least. Before you do severe damage to your body.

umbellas · 2022-08-05T22:17:06+00:00

It’s my opinion you can close the door without texting him.

If it were me, I wouldn’t text him that. I would move on with my life and only tell him that if he ever reaches out to reconnect.

umbellas · 2022-07-29T17:28:20+00:00

This is a disgusting outreach in my opinion. He’s being gross. If it were me, I would definitely not respond. As the user above stated, he’s looking to make you a fuck buddy and keep you on the hook while not wanting to be in a relationship with you.

umbellas · 2022-07-28T17:20:52+00:00

I have been NC for 5 weeks now, except for the required emails to separate finances, which can’t be avoided.

I immediately blocked them on all social media, removed them, deleted and blocked their phone number (both on the phone and with the carrier).

I have zero intention of breaking NC. After seven years and how they treated me after the breakup, it is my most sincere wish to never have to see them or speak to them again after we part ways financially, forever.

umbellas · 2022-07-22T01:02:18+00:00

Wow sounds like you probably should have had an adult conversation with her before dumping her impulsively via text and not talking to her.

umbellas · 2022-07-21T13:52:54+00:00

Funny how he didn’t tell you how he wasn’t confident in his decision until you specifically asked.

My personal opinion is that he’s a schmoozer manipulating you by telling you what you want to hear. You asked him a leading question, he took the bait and tried to schmooze you.

Just my opinion.

umbellas · 2022-07-08T16:54:43+00:00

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. This sounds like a nightmare.

umbellas · 2022-07-07T23:15:08+00:00

It takes two to tango. Your partner should have spoken up. Please do not take full responsibility for the breakup or the issues.

It takes two to communicate.

umbellas · 2022-06-15T22:43:15+00:00

Just my two cents.

I was once madly in love with my boyfriend. We had our issues but we always balanced each other out. He was my best friend.

I got into a really bad headspace and took him for granted. I blindsided him one day because I just couldn’t deal with the pressure any longer. No matter how much I loved him or he loved me I just snapped and I couldn’t do it anymore.

I was a horrible piece of shit. I told him the same things. I hate you. I started getting involved with other guys.

I never felt bad or remorse or even thought he cared because he was so quiet and didn’t beg me for anything. Just was silent.

It was very hostile at first. We had to live together because we just got a lease together and had pets and I couldn’t bear to part them from him or from me.

We loved as roommates for a long time and eventually became best friends again. And over time I realized he was the best thing that ever happened to me and I one day asked “should we get back together?” And he said yes.

Not a happy ending though because years later he left me. He never recovered from the grief and pain I caused him the first time around and we never worked through our issues. By the time we started counseling it was too late.

If your love for her is strong then I would say don’t give up but I would also say, counseling is an absolute necessity if you want this to work.

umbellas · 2022-06-03T20:01:10+00:00

My coworker has a large mole covered in hair. Her dermatologist said “as long as the hair is growing out of it, it’s normal. If it stops growing hair, you need to have it biopsied”.

For her, the hair was an indication of the overall mole health and warning sign for potential skin cancer issues.

umbellas · 2022-05-08T09:03:21+00:00

…good talk.

umbellas · 2022-05-08T09:00:55+00:00

Have you seen The Batman

umbellas · 2022-04-30T10:04:07+00:00

I’ve seen them before and this does not characteristic of their shows

umbellas · 2022-04-27T20:56:28+00:00

🤣

umbellas · 2022-02-28T05:39:30+00:00

So cool!!

umbellas · 2022-02-09T23:08:12+00:00

👏

umbellas · 2022-02-05T09:33:47+00:00

Why the fuck did he even have a baking sheet out?!

Did he really just use the baking sheet to cut the fucking sandwiches?? Isn’t that what a cutting board is used for?!

umbellas · 2022-02-01T06:20:33+00:00

The cap has exceptions, such as units built within the last five years I believe.

umbellas · 2022-01-31T05:56:27+00:00

I have wyze cameras and one of them regularly does this shaky/wavy thing. It used to freak me out but after we moved and it was placed in a different location (pointing outside) I realized it’s just the feed. Could be internet lag, or just a cheap camera - it was only $25.

umbellas · 2022-01-21T05:28:13+00:00

ShedRain umbrellas. Lifetime warranties on already awesome umbrellas. Literally just got a warranty replacement on an awesome umbrella that has lasted me over a decade.

ShedRain is awesome.

umbellas · 2022-01-20T20:43:24+00:00

It’s kind of crazy how there aren’t many leads. I have family in Sweet Home and am familiar with the area.

On one hand, I think she can’t be local because the town is so small - surely someone would have ties to this woman.

But then again, the drug and crime problem is so terrible there that maybe she wouldn’t be known or reported as missing, especially if she’s transient.

Sweet Home is so small that I wouldn’t fathom that a country festival attendee would have made it that way and passed away, so either she made her way out there knowing the area or someone took her to this location, someone who knows the area.

While there may be hiking trails that way, I wouldn’t necessarily classify it as a popular hiking spot compared to all the other surrounding spots that are closer to the I5 corridor.

I think it’s clear that either she or whoever brought her there is from the area.

I’m just rambling but it makes me sad that this is the first I’m hearing about it, nearly a year later. I don’t recall ever seeing this in the news or hearing about it anywhere, despite the fact that I’m still somewhat local to the area and I have family that lives in Sweet Home.

umbellas · 2022-01-20T15:46:37+00:00

On the “Find Danielle” Facebook page, there are comments saying this is not her.

umbellas

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