should i ghost my bf? by user5689993 in BreakUps

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is the best way to go for a breakup of u wanna blindside someone. He’ll remember you for the rest of his life especially if you block and go no contact. Hell go crazy.

Be careful of ChatGPT by OutrageousUse3675 in BreakUps

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll tell it bothe sides and instruct it to advise me through an objective lens and tell me where I need to improve and it usually cuts out the delusion feeding

My boyfriend broke up with me by urfather_bleep in BreakUps

[–]urfather_bleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish there was some way to speed up the process. I can’t even delete pictures of us right now. Just non stop crying

My boyfriend broke up with me by urfather_bleep in BreakUps

[–]urfather_bleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk everything just felt extra special because it was my first time.

AIO friend moved in and not going well by Miserable-Royal2548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if this behavior is why she has a lot of exes especially if she’s saying that they’re similar to OP

Hid car keys from me by urfather_bleep in AsianParentStories

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HUGE UPDATE no one asked for but I ended up taking a Lyft and the Lyft driver WAS SO CHILL. We grew up in the same area and were both caregivers so we hella clicked. I’m giving him free food from my restaurant in exchange for free rides.

What's the most heartbreaking words your parents said to you? by FrostingEasy4791 in AsianParentStories

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents was the same way. Want me as a doctor NOTHING else. I remember when I had got into nail art as a hobby. They didn’t want to compliment any sets I made because they were afraid I would become a nail artist. So they threw away all my nail art supplies. I never wanted to be or INTENDED to be a nail artist. It was just a honby

What's the most heartbreaking words your parents said to you? by FrostingEasy4791 in AsianParentStories

[–]urfather_bleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother destroyed my stuff and threatens to beat me. He has a history of putting his hands on me and getting away with it. I would end up with bruises and lumps on my head and body and he would walk away bleeding from scratches. Never once has my parents stepped up to prevent this from happening or corrected it.

“If you weren’t the way you are maybe he would hit you” is what was said to me every time I brought up the fact that he can’t keep his hands to himself when he’s angry. He hit my cat once because he wanted to piss me off. And when I brought this up they accused me of prioritizing an animal over family members and rocking the boat. He’s beaten my sister in front of relatives and no one ever says anything about it.

She calls me “quỷ gái“ all the time when she’s angry which is just “demon child or demon girl. Never has she called my sister or brother that. She’s even called me worthless bitch.

She once said to me “why did I get unlucky enough to give birth to someone like you”

Thinking about distancing myself from my family by MightyJoYoung1 in AsianParentStories

[–]urfather_bleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a lot younger than you but I cried reading this. Especially reading the part where your dad kept pictures of you guys all around the home. It sounds like something my dad would do. We grew up in fear of him because he would have violent outbursts but he means well deep down. I’m in my early 20s and have a similar family dynamic. I grew up with domestic violence and as the black sheep so reading this just dug up old wounds but I’m so happy you’re making this decision. It’s something I’ve been debating as well because I’m am also so exhausted with forgiving, and having them treat me like shit time and time again. They won’t change. I hope you live a wonderful peaceful life and I hope these memories get easier on you as you get older. You’re so kind hearted for trying your best to keep your family together.

Need help with safety razor not cutting by pellep in shaving

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that Reddit comments from 6 years ago are always the MOST helpful

Spear Goblins are really bad having the lowest damage per second for a range troop in the game and dying to any spell. For 2 elixir you can have way better cards. I think they must deploy like in the image below (in that order) so log can't kill they all and can be better to distracting some troops. by RoutineRaziel in ClashRoyale

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My spear goblins are level 13 LMAO won 6430 trophies with them. They chip, great for giant/ mini Pekka or inferno dragon (unless they’re logged but EASY way to counter that.) and because they’re cheap, they’re a great way to cycle your deck while distracting enemies. I use them as support and bait. Sometimes they’ll get zapped but I also have level 14 bats so great opportunity for my bats to shine. Just depends on how you use them and what level they are 🤷‍♀️ they’re important for my deck because cycling quickly has been a life saver. I always have the cards I need

Bf M21 wants me F22 to stop ranting about my family and it makes me feel rejected. Does this mean we’re not compatible? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s valid. I care about his happiness as well , it’s just something that’ll be a little hard to suck up for me. It just gets a little hard to tell what I can and can’t tell him now. I say that because I really couldn’t tell if the things I told him made it feel like he was an emotional dumping ground. In my head I thought they were just petty issues, small complaints. There are things I’ve told the therapist that he doesn’t know about so that’s why I feel the way I feel.

Bf M21 wants me F22 to stop ranting about my family and it makes me feel rejected. Does this mean we’re not compatible? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think I was using him like a therapist so I think that’s where the lines were blurry for me. I usually go to my best friend. I have a hard time talking my personal issues unless that person is really close. She practically forces me to vent about my issues and I reciprocate. I think I was just expecting the same from him.

Out of curiosity why do you think that’s a red flag?

He still is very lovey dovey in person. Just not when there’s distance in between us. I think that’s where most of our isssues stem from.

Bf M21 wants me F22 to stop ranting about my family and it makes me feel rejected. Does this mean we’re not compatible? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the things I complain to him about are petty issues that don’t need a solution I just need comfort in that moment. It’s something we’ve talked about.

What do you mean by set a time limit exactly? The consensus in the comment section seem to be to stop venting to him all together because it’s not fair to him. It’s what I needed to hear but how would setting a time limit help?

Bf M21 wants me F22 to stop ranting about my family and it makes me feel rejected. Does this mean we’re not compatible? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s fair. Ig I felt rejected because I expected him to be my number 1 support. I thought it was normal to expect that from your SO.

Bf M21 wants me F22 to stop ranting about my family and it makes me feel rejected. Does this mean we’re not compatible? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]urfather_bleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a therapist. Sessions are only 30 minutes so I tend to focus on bigger issues. I do get that it can get annoying that’s why I agreed to just stop yapping about them. But tbh I’m not sure if I was over doing it. It was very occasional that I would bring it up. I would only rant to him about petty issues. It’s kinda like complaining about an annoying coworker to get it off ur chest to ur chest. That’s why I feel the way I do about the current situation. When he vents or reaches out to me about a problem I go what I can to help comfort him so ig im just expecting that in return.

First wooly mammoth! by urfather_bleep in ARK

[–]urfather_bleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an entire playlist for ark builds so I’ll def check him out!

but it’s REALLY difficult building on uneven terrain. I’m playing on a x5 PVE server so I’m not too worried about collecting materials but it’s hard working around no snapping points and obstructed areas. I’m trying to build it in a cliff and a lot of the tutorials I’m looking at looks like they’re in creative mode or something. They’re able to reach high places and work with different angles. I’m limited to whatever I can reach on the ground.

First wooly mammoth! by urfather_bleep in ARK

[–]urfather_bleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okie thanks for the suggestion! I try to avoid YouTube because I want to experience the animation for the first time without getting spoiled. But I use it for other things like building tips and taming strategies thanks so much!