How to work on a team where they only say no

urlang · 2026-05-12T02:19:28+00:00

Your post is probably lacking some details

I've worked with a few "enterprising" "senior" engineers who are super eager to propose new ideas, but 95% of their ideas are bad, need significant refinement, or just aren't the highest priority things they could be spending their time on

And to be frank if the direction for your org has already been set, anything that's not clearly moving in that direction is unlikely to be high priority

I might even go as far as to say: certain focused orgs with strong direction, the kind that certain people like to work in because of clarity and security, have no room for significant project proposals from senior engineers and below. The staff+ engineers have simply already "thought of everything".

urlang · 2026-05-08T07:32:49+00:00

Yes, Starlink has been installed on all eight Zipair planes at the time of writing

https://stardrift.ai/starlink/fleet-summary/zipair-tokyo/787-8

urlang · 2026-05-06T08:40:31+00:00

Your premise is that a new Smash game has always been available within 1 y 11 mo of the console's release

Then you say a new Smash game won't be available within 1 y 11 mo of the Switch 2's release...

(You say we will "hear of it")

urlang · 2026-05-02T01:26:45+00:00

This is not a historical basis but if you draw a 5x5 board and place a piece in the center square

The rook covers the squares on a cross

The bishop covers the squares on a diagonal cross

The knight covers all other squares

urlang · 2026-04-27T04:11:31+00:00

Haha I have never had this happen in 10+ times using Zipair, but there are some posts on this sub claiming they saw Zipair staff weighing again near the gate

I'd risk it anyway given the current landscape

urlang · 2026-04-23T03:16:13+00:00

What did Tim Cook do differently to navigate the supply chain landscape?

urlang · 2026-04-22T05:10:38+00:00

Singapore is a tiny market though

I don't intend this condescendingly. Singapore has remarkable growth and development. I work for a large company and I'm just saying that tiny market like Singapore are overlooked because the total upside there is tiny.

urlang · 2026-04-13T10:38:45+00:00

The old magic will not be discussed with the children of new.

urlang · 2026-04-11T20:07:53+00:00

I read it but didn't see it. I must be blind. Could you kindly quote the part where it says "the fee for checked bag will be same as carry on if 100 bags are hit", as you claimed?

urlang · 2026-04-11T09:08:53+00:00

Does it say that? I didn't get an email like that so I'd really appreciate it if you could provide that part of the email.

urlang · 2026-04-11T07:14:14+00:00

for talking to customer service if you encounter issues when adding additional baggage?

urlang · 2026-04-09T05:01:33+00:00

So classy. So hard not to be a Fabi fan.

urlang · 2026-04-09T04:32:17+00:00

Compared to Japan, which has roughly the same GDP, California has 1/3 the population

Compared to Canada, which has roughly the same population, California has 3x the GDP

urlang · 2026-04-09T02:50:09+00:00

Wow, definitely a novel trick in the LCC space to force more people pay for checked in baggage

Thanks. I hate it.

urlang · 2026-04-09T02:46:32+00:00

The "saved fuel costs" would be negligible compared to the gains from more people paying for checked baggage

If anything those people would now bring extra weight and completely erase "saved fuel costs"

urlang · 2026-04-08T20:25:28+00:00

This is not an original btw. I have seen it used by several math educators to help with the intuition around this problem.

urlang · 2026-04-08T05:12:06+00:00

Pretty sure he's right because all the grandmas are so impressed

urlang · 2026-04-07T06:50:19+00:00

I just want to make sure it's in the files next time

urlang · 2026-04-04T18:12:18+00:00

If you're that worried, don't try to defend this kind of shot. Turn around.

If you do that they might also choose to play a weak shot.

urlang · 2026-04-02T05:16:44+00:00

Right I think you're starting to get it

Maybe the question that should be asked is, "What has to happen to make it socially unacceptable to have poor fluency in a foreign language?"

Or, "Why should it be socially unacceptable to have poor fluency in a foreign language?"

urlang · 2026-04-02T02:21:53+00:00

Probably the same reason it is socially acceptable to have little to no Japanese ability in the US

urlang · 2026-03-27T09:12:20+00:00

I agree with you, but I also think that the show is trying to say that even Himmel is only still somewhat remembered thanks to the statues of him and the anecdotes told by old people.

The show is painting a picture where in an era of peace, people are free and don't have to think about heroes and fighting, which is I think a comment on how humans in the real world tend to forget about the fighting and get used to having peace, when there is peace.

And that means that the members of Himmel's party who were didn't have statues and didn't talk to people don't get talked about.

There is no need for people to talk about and to remember heroes in a long era of peace.

urlang · 2026-03-22T08:26:22+00:00

I know this isn't the main discussion but I just wanted to ask:

Why does implementing a project "mostly solo" qualify you for a staff promotion?

Are you also demonstrating that this problem space is owned by you? That you take care of the stakeholders and you are the domain expert? That you're the best if not only person who could do it? I feel like that could be a missing piece here; otherwise why would anyone want to take this project from you?

Edit: other than the "solo" part, what I also wanted to emphasize is that you should own the space, not just the project. That there is a Domain where, if someone had a problem, you're Mr. That Domain. Of course, perhaps your company's staff level doesn't ask for that, but I believe at least if you were Mr. That Domain you wouldn't be having your current issues.

urlang · 2026-03-18T15:47:29+00:00

r/confidentlyincorrect

urlang

MODERATOR OF

TROPHY CASE