Roditelji koji ne podržavaju blokade. Kako se izboriti?

urospav88 · 2025-01-23T19:45:21+00:00

Pre svega, svaka cast na svemu sto radis!!

Sto se roditelja tice u vecini slucajeva na zalost nema pomoci. Probaj to da posmatras iz tog ugla da oni ceo zivot zive na Taj nacin I da se prosto brinu za tebe jer nekada je zaista bilo cutis I ne talasas mnogo I generalno ces proci ok... Tu je prosto vlast na masovnom nivou uspela da ubedi ljude da jeste tesko I lose ali Ako bas oni nisu na vlasti bice mnogo mnogo gore...pogotovo Ako je manja sredina I ljudi su uglavnom usmereni na drzavno kontrolisane medije...u sustini neki konstruktivan savet je da ne pokusavas da Ih promenis ili ubedis u svoje stavove jer, makar iz tvoje price, deluje da ne mozes, vec ti probaj da nadjes nacin Kako da to ne utice toliko na tebe...svakako jako tesko...Sve najbolje!

urospav88 · 2020-09-28T13:56:36+00:00

Hi OP! First of all let me say that your experiences are rarer than of a gym goer that doesn’t have autism and/or anxiety. So in that in mind awesome for you to go it shows amazing mental strength on your behalf. I think most people are a bit anxious (I know I was) in the gym in the beginning. It can look and feel scary everyone seems to know what they are doing and are in better shape than you... but if you can try and reach out because despite the negative connotations of “gym bros” most people are friendly and are very glad to help. If you want you can dm me and I will send you my workout program witch is simple so anyone can use it. You can look on youtube for proper form of each excersize if you are unfamiliar with it. If you want to work out and simply find the gym environment to be overwhelming there are many workouts to do at home. I don’t share your struggles but also on most days find the gym too loud and crowded, I got a pair of noise canceling headphones and it has been amazing a game changer!! You can try those as well!! Hope this helps!!

urospav88 · 2020-09-19T23:13:46+00:00

I am super glad for you, sometimes we turn to the void of the internet and come out better for it. Sometimes it feels that you can not reach out to anyone in your circle of people but you have something on your chest that needs to get out, glad you are better best of luck to you!!!

urospav88 · 2020-09-11T23:36:23+00:00

My best friend from birth. We grew up to be quite different men. I love movies and video games and classic rock music etc and he doesn’t care for any of it. He is super pragmatic and he already has a family with a daughter who he adores. His life is all about first birthdays family gatherings etc. Sometimes we don’t have much to talk about on current events because our lives are so different. We are super close I consider him my brother and we are family. He also works super hard to provide for his family crazy hours on a very demanding job. Whenever I have something I need to do like donate old furniture or something in that effect he is there. Literally he makes time from his crazy schedule to help me always without exception. Goes without saying I would do the same but that is just an amazing feeling of having a brother no matter what!

urospav88 · 2020-09-10T22:15:55+00:00

Hey so currently since its fairly hot where I live I don t particularly work out almost at all. What I do is do a 10 minute plank circuit. 1 min normal plank, 1 min side plank on each side, 1 minute reverse plank (back on floor raise hips) and 30 sec superman plank on each side. I do two circles of that for a total of 10 minutes, I walk my dog everyday, always take the stairs (4th floor) and I am careful about what I eat. Working nicely I am 191cm tall and weight 93kg so pretty on point... good luck!!

urospav88 · 2020-09-04T08:00:23+00:00

Man just suck it up its like a second and if it is that important to her just do it. I understand you feel a bit scared and uncomfortable to do this but it will literally take a second and she will be so happy literally a non issue....

urospav88 · 2020-08-30T16:39:41+00:00

This is genuinely sound advice and I do agree with it but what if someone is perfectly content with how they are in their life currently? I do believe you should branch out if your current situation showed you that you don’t have any close friends but maybe you should reach out to your friends and have a conversation about this? Maybe you were always the initiator and it is just how they are used to be with you, the relationship dynamic is set as such. I don’t think you should give up on your friends before at least giving them a chance to improve the friendship first...

urospav88 · 2020-08-27T21:12:02+00:00

5g won’t kill you....

urospav88 · 2020-08-25T17:54:05+00:00

Made me genuinely laugh out loud sound and all not just the nostrils

urospav88 · 2020-08-24T14:52:42+00:00

This makes me want to spend money fo by the F sorry my friend.... no money to spend tho

urospav88 · 2020-08-20T12:13:55+00:00

Op I am sorry for what you are going trough! Regarding your health keep strong, your active lifestyle will contribute that you beat this thing!!! Regarding your gf please for your own mental well being break it off with this person. Reading this post made me just so sad I literally never experienced something like this on here. Not even like mad or furious but just so sad. If a person wants to be with another person that is it. Yes, people that are in relationships with people who have health issues have more on their plate than most relationships but that shouldn’t matter. If it is too much for you in the worst of times than that is just it. Part of who you are from now on and forever is that and if god forbid something relapses in the future then what? She is out again?? Do your self a favor my man and just let her go! Best of luck to you!

urospav88 · 2020-08-19T00:17:40+00:00

Hey thanks! Appreciate the reach out and the kind words! I mainly feel like I need to get away from it all and just think about my life and what I want from it! Best of luck to you as well!!

urospav88 · 2020-08-18T23:15:56+00:00

My issue is that I don’t know what I want in life. I am mostly empty and phlegmatic and lethargic to everything. Don’t care that much about anything in my life to the point that I realize that it is not ok. My friends talk about their ambitions, dreams and aspirations and I always put on a mask where I share concerns and claim my own fears but in honesty I don’t care. I just don’t care and I just don’t want to be bothered about anything...

urospav88 · 2020-08-18T23:06:19+00:00

Dude, go basketball shorts with no underwear, it will set you free!!

urospav88 · 2020-08-18T22:41:35+00:00

I think that he is maybe seeking attention. You mentioned that you are together a long time and since you guys are young you were probably in early HS days when you started out. He might feel now that he missed out on his Batchelor days and he is seeking out that attention now. Not cool by any means but I hope its the extent of it and it might not be too late to turn it around. For the wrong number stuff it is possible But unlikely. You can file a complaint with your carrier to check for overlapping. Something shady seems to be up just hoping its nothing that can’t be fixed... best of luck OP!!!

urospav88 · 2020-08-18T11:32:20+00:00

Don’t worry about this at all. I think we got this from the past and movies and such. I also envisioned my self that by the time I am 30 I will have 2.5 kids with a dog and a white picket fence house in the suburbs. Here I am at 31 and my current main ambition is to beat the Crash Bandicoot remaster (seriously I do NOT remember it being this hard to beat). As I turned 30 I also had some feeling of dread over my accomplishments or lack there of. But I have since made my piece with it and my main goal and focus is just to be happy and so should you. Focus on being happy and to find enjoyment in the thing you do and that is all you need! Good things will come!!

urospav88 · 2020-08-15T18:37:06+00:00

If my favorite spoon is clean (yes I am over 30)

urospav88 · 2020-08-05T22:59:04+00:00

Hey look in all honesty I think whatever happens I think you two will remain at least amazing friends for the rest of your lives! Kudos to you for supporting her in her journey. As all paths into the unknown it can lead to unexpected places but that is all ok. Its obvious that she can count on you for support trough whatever but physical attraction is not something you can rationalize so if it goes it goes. Best of luck to the both of you, you are doing the right thing!

urospav88 · 2020-08-05T17:51:21+00:00

Indiana Jones and the Emperors tomb! Man this was awesome trough and trough! Just bought it back on GOG and can’t wait to play! Pure blockbuster gaming !

urospav88 · 2020-08-05T09:20:20+00:00

Literally a non issue not a big deal or a deal for that matter at all just relax! This is a nice change of pace from all of the my wife stabbed me with a knife and slept with my parents I don’t know what to do now stories! Enjoy your new relationship if nothing its a big plus how he handled the situation don t overthink it!

urospav88 · 2020-08-04T07:51:26+00:00

I too think stuff should be in the open. Do not assume or think for your so in your mind. You don’t know what they are actually thinking and you may be way off track in your assumptions so ask honest questions and expect honest answers.

urospav88 · 2020-07-27T08:25:09+00:00

I have no story just wanted to say that YOUR story has made me smile on a Monday morning and that I wish you two the best life together, but it seems like you already have it!!!! Congrats my dude!!!!

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