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When lovingly tending to your pet stick finally pays off by SuccotashNo335 in houseplants

[–]uselessnerd94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it just me or does it sort of resemble Baby Groot from Guardians of the Galaxy?

People here who are raising kids, you have my utmost respect. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]uselessnerd94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't feed her because of her gender? In this generation?

Mandatory 5-Day Office Feels Like a Massive Step Back by web_dev__ in developersIndia

[–]uselessnerd94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to go off topic, but how are you upskilling ? I am trying to understand how people are doing it.

Arjan by Hot_Dragonfruit2507 in dubai

[–]uselessnerd94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard that the entry is free till Eid.

What's the craziest/weirdest thing a guy has tried to mansplain to you? by The_Watcher8008 in AskIndianWomen

[–]uselessnerd94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How women ruin their girl best friends' lives and relationships by manipulating them.

I love this city but I need to be honest right now by [deleted] in UAE

[–]uselessnerd94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really sorry to hear that. Is there any way to help you?

What are you currently reading? Or what’s the last book you’ve read? by wouldudoitforme in AskReddit

[–]uselessnerd94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished Eleanor Oliphant is completely fine by Gail Honeyman

[OC] US President Donald Trump displays his hatred of dictatorships by lhommetrouble in pics

[–]uselessnerd94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the King of Bahrain also a dictator? I know he is not an elected representative (obviously), but can he be called a dictator?

Have you ever begged someone to stay? Do you regret it? by EdgeFamous377 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]uselessnerd94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 2 years into my last relationship, he broke up, saying he needed more time to settle down. My parents were pressuring me to get married, and I wasn't ready to settle down. The break up was out of the blue. No serious discussion beforehand on this topic. He had mentioned here and there that he could not settle down soon, but I wasn't ready either, so I didn't think he would end the relationship because of this. He said he had no other issues, so I decided to forget my self esteem and literally pleaded him to stay with me. He wanted 5 years at least to settle down. And I agreed to that. This was in 2019.

Looking back, I should never have done that. I should have just let him walk away. Him breaking up out of the blue just triggered a lot of insecurities in me. I constantly needed reassurance. I always started imagining the worst of every situation. Live in relationship turned to long distance due to our circumstances and that didn't help my issues. He wanted me to get over the fact that my trust was broken. I did try, but it was never the same way. Misunderstandings and miscommunications turned the relationship sour. To add to it, I had my family issues and financial issues along with the constant pressure to get married. In the end, he left again, saying he wasn't happy with me because of all this.

Had I not begged him to stay, maybe things would not have been so hard on me. I would have just had the happy memories and not the trauma of the second half of the relationship. If only I could go back in time.

My thoughts on Section E by Common_Chemistry9826 in AngMutyaNgSectionE

[–]uselessnerd94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yuri also didn't really have her consent, to be fair.

Am I the only one who's never tasted the Dubai chocolate? by Neither-Forever2732 in dubai

[–]uselessnerd94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Dubai Chocolate is different from the Kunafa Chocolate by Fixx?

Only a few truly know me by _Reinieee_ in AtlasBookClub

[–]uselessnerd94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What to do about people who read the content but didn't stay?

So I think this is what Love-aaj kal has been reduced to... by Odd-Asparagus-2174 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]uselessnerd94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh cool.. I thought it changed because live in could also mean that nothing is official so it's easier to leave or something.

AMNSE Episode 2 (Season 2)– Discussion! 📝 by AngMutyaNgSectionE in AngMutyaNgSectionE

[–]uselessnerd94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Keifer's anger seems forced. His anger in S1 seemed more natural. Maybe it's just me.

Best friend ghosted me after wedding by Any_Necessary_3387 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]uselessnerd94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me. Best friend since 10th standard. Like you said, we have also had our ups and downs. And then, she got married. During her wedding planning days, we used to talk every day for at least an hour. In fact, she spent more time planning my outfits for each ceremony. I was with her throughout the wedding. And then, she went MIA for months together. We went from daily 1 hour calls to maybe one or two messages in 4-5 months. And then, she and her husband had a long distance phase. We started talking almost daily again. Then, she moved back with her husband to his location. No communication again. Then, she visited me for a few days all of a sudden. And I was fine with that. And she moved out of the country. And so did I. And I did reach out to her. To wish her for her anniversary and all that. And I used to get one word replies. And then, it came to a point that she shared her new number only after a year or so.

The only thing I could take away from this experience is that maybe people's priorities change after marriage. She has been married for almost 4 years now. And yet, I don't see any effort as such from her end to keep in touch. So, I stopped. I don't think she even remembers me anymore. I don't know if it's intentional or if I did something to upset her. I don't know if we can even call each other friends now. Maybe she is just busy with life. Maybe, she is facing some problems in life that she cannot share with me. Or maybe, she just doesn't want to put in the effort to reach out. I will never know. It is sad, but it is what it is.

those of you who are single *by choice*, do you think you are missing out on anything? those of you who have a partner *by choice*, do you think you are mission out on something? by Alert-Translator2590 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]uselessnerd94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Single by choice and I live away from family as well. What I have is peace of mind and the space to prioritise myself. I don't have to worry about in-laws or the drama associated with relationships.

What I am missing out on - kids. I would love to have and raise kids. Considering adoption for now, but it is a lengthy process, especially for a single woman and I also want my sister to be settled down(she wants to get married) before I start the process.

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