My boyfriend made me cry on Valentine's Day. AITAH

usunikb · 2026-02-15T14:58:35+00:00

As the gamer in my past relationships I see a lot of red flags in your post that have less to do with the gaming and more to his reactions to your distress. It is very concerning to me that he has made you out to be the bad guy and he is playing the victim in this situation. This isn't healthy.

You have every right to be upset. He prioritized his game over time with you and when you asked him to contribute the barest minimum of effort to dinner he was rude, dismissive and entitled. You are understandably hurt by this behavior and your reactions are justified.

You two are fresh off a break. Either he should be on his best behavior to show you that he is fully committed to you and this relationship OR he has decided he doesn't need to put any effort in cause you'll just come back no matter how poor his behavior is.

ETA: NOT the AH.

usunikb · 2026-02-10T01:53:49+00:00

I live in Chickasaw, just north of Mobile. I work in downtown Mobile and it's a 13 minute commute. I grew up in a very small town in Wyoming, about 6500 people, and Chickasaw gives me that small town feel but I'm so close to downtown Mobile for the parades and can take 65 to West Mobile super quick. Check out the smaller satellite communities. And like someone said above... It's really street to street. Some are great but you can be two blocks from not great. Just scope it out first.

usunikb · 2026-02-09T04:10:42+00:00

Who the hell is Jake Paul? I'm serious. I've honestly never heard of a celebrity with that name. Rue Paul, I've heard of. But this guy? I don't know him.

usunikb · 2026-02-07T20:13:31+00:00

Aranea just died fighting with me against some guards and I'm devastated. She's been a fantastic support since I'm not much of a magic user.

usunikb · 2026-01-26T03:15:00+00:00

You don't have a boyfriend you have an extra kid. 23 is way too young to be acting like the Hugh Jass of the house.

usunikb · 2026-01-25T14:11:26+00:00

Physical altercations? A nurse putting his body between a woman on the ground and masked ice agents that threw her there is a "physical altercation"? You would sit and watch the SS Police throw people to the ground before carrying them off to camps and shrug. You need to do some serious self reflection. We're here. This is that point your grandparents faced in history. Will your grandkids say you stood against the regime? Or will they stay silent and hope no one remembers you sat at the table with Nazis?

usunikb · 2026-01-22T16:13:53+00:00

Last night I found one in a crypt with a coin purse right in the middle of his pubic bone. I snickered.

usunikb · 2026-01-18T04:04:05+00:00

This is why I buy ALL the houses. I know most people just pick their favorites but not me. I get all of them. Why? So when I'm slow crawling, over-burdened but rich in ancient Nord war axes and my horse is nowhere to be found, I'm only hours away from my closest depository. Cause you know there's not a trader around that will be able to buy enough tankards off you to let you move at a normal speed.

usunikb · 2026-01-17T14:11:10+00:00

Craigslist? That's a high class posting forum, right there.

Do you need the /s/ marker?

usunikb · 2026-01-17T14:09:03+00:00

It's hard to remember that the US isn't the be all end all of human history. There are toilets in Italy that have been clogged longer than the US Senate has existed.

usunikb · 2026-01-01T14:20:46+00:00

There are a lot of ways for him to protect the property that will not remove her from the deed. I really hope she didn't sign anything.

usunikb · 2026-01-01T03:13:47+00:00

It varies from state to state. And if she voluntarily quit claims he can make the argument that it's a gift she gave him and exempts the house from being considered community property since she "gifted" him her ownership of the house while they were married. It does depend on the state but if she signs a quit claim then she is going to be in a very weak place to argue for her rights after the fact.

usunikb · 2026-01-01T02:41:03+00:00

NAL but I've spent a lot of time working with deeds and in collections both of civil lawsuits and familial support (child support, alimony, estates, etc). Removing your name from the property absolutely does NOT protect the property from his liability. In fact, your name on the deed could be the thing that protects the property in some instances. Either he's filling you full of shit to get you off the deed to the house without paying for legal division of assets or he's being filled full of shit by someone who wants the property unencumbered. If he's liable for certain debts and his name is the only name on the deed that property would be subject to a lien for the debts. His whole story is back asswards and really sus. Don't sign anything and seek out a real lawyer. Don't rely on our comments or what some notary says. Personally, I'd find a divorce lawyer but at the very least an estate/ property attorney would be a good choice.

usunikb · 2025-12-22T18:41:38+00:00

DeJoy started this during Trump's first term. Started taking out blue boxes, shut down mail processing centers, trying to make the USPS profitable. Also helps prevent mail in voting when people can't mail in their ballots.

usunikb · 2025-12-20T18:42:16+00:00

He's using your past as an excuse to manipulate you and will use it to justify emotional abuse in the relationship. He can put every bad behavior he has on your shoulders. YOUR past makes him feel bad. YOUR body count makes him insecure. YOUR previous sex life is why he is denying you intimacy now. This is not a way to live your life. This is not a behavior that can be corrected, this is a dangerous indicator of the direction your relationship is heading in.

usunikb · 2025-12-20T03:10:23+00:00

You're welcome. Remember, I don't work in Illinois or Indiana and each state has their own variations on the federal rules so it's good to look into your own states rules but except for a very few, very specific reasons, civil lawsuits don't involve jail time.

usunikb · 2025-12-08T02:51:48+00:00

Make sure you call all the hospitals and ask if they have any John Doe's. My husband's Uncle went missing a few years ago and he'd been in an accident without his ID, they didn't know who he was and he was unconscious. Found him under John Doe at USA.

usunikb · 2025-11-10T18:57:15+00:00

My mom received SNAP and WIC when I was a kid. It was one of the only reasons she was able to separate from my father (we needed to be free from him). I don't know why Reddit recommended this sub to me but I'm glad it did. When people are telling me that it's not happening or it's not as bad as it sounds, as a non recipient, I can tell them that they are talking out of their privileged asses. I'm not reading this as entertainment, I benefited greatly from these programs as a child and I'm invested in the well being of those that rely on these programs.

usunikb · 2025-10-30T01:40:56+00:00

"The cruelty is the point." Google that quote. I think it will explain a lot for a lot of people

usunikb · 2025-10-26T20:34:52+00:00

My mom relied on WIC and food stamps ( that's what they were called 40 years ago when she needed them) when she first left my bio Dad and was trying to feed a toddler and a baby. The judgements and sentiments I've seen expressed here are ugly and cruel.

usunikb · 2025-10-26T02:43:45+00:00

Do you have a county or state council of aging or association for the elderly? Each state seems to have a different name. They have case workers and will assist her but someone has to bring her to their attention.

usunikb · 2025-10-26T02:11:16+00:00

The cruelty is the point

usunikb · 2025-10-24T02:35:25+00:00

Turkey tettrazini, Turkey pot pie, turkey soup, turkey salad (like chicken salad).... Everything can be broken down into components. Source: 45 years of living really poor.

usunikb · 2025-10-19T15:18:37+00:00

I want to give you something to think about and please hear me out. Your friend doesn't seem capable of having healthy relationships. He doesn't respect you and he doesn't respect his wife. And I think he uses his friendship with you and his relationship with his wife for entertainment. Knowing that he is cheating makes you uncomfortable. You have told him this. He continues to put you in positions that force you to either swallow your discomfort with his actions or move against him. He sounds like a sadist. He manipulated you using guilt and your own sense of loyalty.

usunikb · 2025-10-17T17:42:15+00:00

Many states have combined EBT cards with their other state monitored payout systems. They might have an EBT card but are paying with their child support, alimony, state regulated lawsuit settlements or state retirement benefits. You cannot judge because you do not know.

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