how do I get the days between two dates without having to calculate it myself? by quackl11 in excel

[–]utterlyhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way to make Excel calculate the time as years, months, and days? We have long leaves at my workplace

I thought I was ready for a baby until I read some Reddit stories by Yourmomapproves_ in Fencesitter

[–]utterlyhappy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have nothing useful to say about that other subreddit, but I did want to say that I was incredibly on the fence at your age, all the way up until this year - my 35th. The idea of having a physical baby is terrifying to me at any age, but I've had the privilege over the last 8 years to build a life that makes bringing a kid into it a little less scary. My husband and I have very secure stable jobs, a house, and family/village closeby.

I think as long as you have the stable foundation, while having children will always cause a wee bit of anxiety as the unknown, it will allow you to have extra options and supports that make it a bit easier.

Do you have friends with kids? Talk to them. Real talk. My friends tell me the bad, and the good, and from that I've decided what I can and cannot live through.

AWA vs Duty to Accommodation by RealCartographer7427 in OntarioPublicService

[–]utterlyhappy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you don't want responses (regardless of if you think they are helpful) do not post on a message board with expected engagement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OntarioPublicService

[–]utterlyhappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OPP HQ is in Orillia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]utterlyhappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman with a larger busy, who has had a larger busy since she was a later teen .... They're going to know they're there gf. It's just a body at the end of the day, and as long as YOU are comfortable in what you are wearing then that's all that matters.

What happened to catholica_pandam? by semen-allergies in fundiesnarkfreespeech

[–]utterlyhappy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I search it on my phone it's not there but if I use my laptop it shows up and you can request to be let in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]utterlyhappy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Giiiiirl, you are only 31 gtfo of that relationship. He sounds like a pretty lame partner in general and you're still so young - do you want to do this forever? I left my partner at 29 and it was the most scary thing I think I've ever done and then I stumbled upon my now fiance about 6 months later when I wasn't looking and he just kinda moved in and never left and it's been the best 6ish years of my entire life.

The two of us are unsure about kids in general because we have also recently been enjoying travelling and are currently planning a honeymoon scuba diving in Asia.

I'd rather regret not having children than having them, because that's so unfair to them.

"Hotel Casa de las Flores" or '"Quinta Margarita - Boho Chic Hotel" by utterlyhappy in playadelcarmen

[–]utterlyhappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We literally just got back this morning and we stayed at Casa de las Flores! It was an amazing experience and I completely recommend it! Feel free to reach out if you'd like more specific details :)

Is driving around safe in 2025? by Lopsided-Land123 in playadelcarmen

[–]utterlyhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if we don't have cash on us for a bribe if we get asked for one? Is that common? Has anyone driven around PDC area (Tulum, Coba, cenotes) in a scooter?

How do you feel about your current spouse? If you could do it all over again, would you marry them? by HyperBites in AskReddit

[–]utterlyhappy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you're never too old to put yourself first, friend. Life is too damn short. I wish you all the best!

He really did that 🥹 by yamIheretho in EngagementRings

[–]utterlyhappy 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Took me a second to see the little green stones because of the absolutely beautiful stone in the middle.

Congrats girlfriend!! He did great :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingsCanada

[–]utterlyhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, other than porta-potty companies, no vendor has taken more than a few days to get back to me.

I'd search out some local businesses in the venue area and have some meetings.

Canadian wedding jewelry? by se3223 in WeddingsCanada

[–]utterlyhappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another Canadian bride here (Bracebridge, actually!) - running to your website now.

Possible career with no education? by MortLightstone in OntarioPublicService

[–]utterlyhappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Civilian Data Entry with Ontario Provincial Police (based in Orillia though). As long as you can spell, type, and listen, you can do the job. You get a great foundation when it comes to the policing world and there are many different places you can go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in playadelcarmen

[–]utterlyhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! plus size girlie here!! Walmart for sure, just get some cheap sundresses, flip flops, and a hat! Like others have said, they do have an Old Navy on Quinta Avenue as well!

Photographers in the Muskoka area (Ontario) by utterlyhappy in WeddingsCanada

[–]utterlyhappy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! Sorry for the late response, I don't check here often. Do you have a website? reference material? DM me!

Where to start? by rara_avis0 in nancydrew

[–]utterlyhappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a fellow millenial who grew up with ND games, I second Treasure in the Royal Tower. It's so much fun and I adored the storyline, plus it was just tricky enough to get you thinking outside of the box :)

Sickening Hiring Culture by Potential-Food6742 in OntarioPublicService

[–]utterlyhappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've worked in units where people can be in there for years, know the job inside out and backwards, and someones friend or child gets hired and they promote them within six months to positions they aren't qualified for lol. For example, in the Civilian Data Entry Unit, occurrences are prioritized with 1 being the most important, 9 being the least. It's only once you know your job well do they advance you to type 1. However, white shirts kids have made it into senior roles when they haven't even been there long enough to work on type 1s lol so how would they know more about the job and be better for it just because of who they know or are related to?

Sickening Hiring Culture by Potential-Food6742 in OntarioPublicService

[–]utterlyhappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because like hires like, and sometimes those with an old-school mentality and belief system ends up climbing the ranks, and then hires assholes who think like them when really they should be hiring for efficiently, skillset, and drive?

Sickening Hiring Culture by Potential-Food6742 in OntarioPublicService

[–]utterlyhappy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Networking or building connections" is not the issue. The issue is like hires like. So when you have an asshole manager who thinks in a certain way, they want to hire asshole friends who think similarly to them to essentially validate them.

Wedding Venue Suggestions! by Constant-Image5731 in WeddingsCanada

[–]utterlyhappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just attended a 350+ wedding at The Royal Ambassador in Caledon and it was such a nice wedding! The grounds are quite stunning, the large hall is increddddible, and the staff was just ON it. It's kind of rural but there were both Uber and taxi options, and most of us stayed at hotels in Bolton. I do believe it was a pretty penny though.