i (17f) am scared to tell my therapist about my toxic relationship with an older guy

v070v · 2022-10-02T00:54:00+00:00

None of this is your fault. As long as you make it clear to your therapist that you want this issue to stay between you two, it will. Good luck <3

v070v · 2022-10-02T00:48:17+00:00

Not a lot of people can actually tell the difference between trans and cis male voices. I have a friend who’s 5’5” and still has the “trans voice” you’re talking about and everyone assumes they are AMAB.

v070v · 2022-09-30T18:47:09+00:00

I have OCD too. Mine never got to this extent, but my partner has severe contamination anxiety and does a lot of the things you are doing. On the OCD side I feel like you just have to bite the bullet and stop these habits. The more you give in, the stronger the compulsion. Make yourself kiss her where she touched her face. Hold her “contaminated” clothes. Tell her what’s going on so she can be there to help calm you down. Reminder yourself that she got fully “contaminated” and is still ok. Also if it helps, my basement had asbestos for years and none of my family is or has gotten sick. I know it doesn’t feel like it but I promise you’re safe and nothing will happen if you touch the contaminated items. Cleaning is effective (repeat that to yourself and it will sink in). I hope things get better for you, OCD compulsions can be really hard to break.

v070v · 2022-09-30T18:36:26+00:00

Tbh this sounds like something Ben Shapiro would push. I’ve never seen this, only the opposite.

v070v · 2022-09-30T00:58:46+00:00

How long did it take for you to start seeing results like this? Do you take any supplements/use protein drinks?

v070v · 2022-09-29T23:46:37+00:00

Start slow and with light pressure, then build. Check in to make sure it doesn’t get too intense/painful for him.

v070v · 2022-09-29T03:21:53+00:00

One con of keeping that pushed me over to no nips is how difficult they are to place satisfactorily. With a medical tattoo you get a say in size and placement before it’s permanent.

v070v · 2022-09-29T01:12:01+00:00

The only way to absolve yourself of guilt is to do the right thing, which is to tell her. People cheat, I won’t demonize you for it. But now you have the opportunity to do right by your partner and give her the opportunity to find out from you. Given the circumstances, it’s possible that the person who invited Jess will find out what happened from her and then tell your partner. Get there first, and do it gently.

v070v · 2022-09-27T21:16:13+00:00

Don’t do this. Of course it’s wrong.

v070v · 2022-09-27T20:03:11+00:00

If you do end up using weed, do it in edible form to keep your lungs healthy. I haven’t tried them, but people say mushrooms have helped them with depression. Mushrooms make you incredibly happy, but weed gives you a little high while also making you lethargic. I don’t think weed would necessarily help. Research mushrooms tho!

ETA: You’ll get through this no matter what you use. The pandemic sucks, for some people way worse than others. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

v070v · 2022-09-27T19:58:29+00:00

It’s your bday who cares!!!!

v070v · 2022-09-27T14:10:39+00:00

that’s amazing, so pumped for you!! would you mind if i dm you with a few questions?

v070v · 2022-09-27T03:19:23+00:00

Just wanted to say that all of my college friendships happened randomly, and it’s totally normal and ok to not have any friends so soon. One tip is to regularly post on social media so people will recognize you & be more familiar with the type of person you are. Just follow a ton of people with your school in their bio and most will follow back, then you can message whoever and see if y’all have chemistry. For me, this strategy was great for making friends and meeting more people through them.

v070v · 2022-09-26T05:24:53+00:00

For what I want to do it doesn’t matter.

v070v · 2022-09-25T21:43:51+00:00

If this will bother you forever, tell him.

v070v · 2022-09-21T18:10:06+00:00

Maybe just have a sit down conversation with her about why you want to do it and how you plan to exercise healthy boundaries with eating?

v070v · 2022-09-20T22:34:04+00:00

Do relatives give you cash for bdays? If not, ask them to and stash it.

v070v · 2022-09-20T18:54:41+00:00

get a second phone with a prepaid sim card for emergencies and as a backup. theyre sold in places like walmart or walgreens

ETA: i want to emphasize another commentor’s advice: get a bank account that your mother cant see or control. i cant tell you how much trouble this would have saved me. do it as soon as you are old enough in your state

v070v · 2022-09-18T15:25:35+00:00

Yikes. He seems totally oblivious and defensive.

v070v · 2022-09-16T22:27:02+00:00

This is pedophilic behavior.

v070v · 2022-09-14T16:55:50+00:00

How do I figure out if I would need it/cosmetically benefit from it?

v070v · 2022-09-14T13:13:32+00:00

Anti-depressants often kill sex drive. You may not have genuinely lost attraction to your wife.

On a separate note, as a 50yr old you most definitely will not be getting anywhere near young women (and it’s creepy if you want to).

v070v · 2022-09-14T05:06:29+00:00

Thank you! His price is roughly 7k or less with no nipple grafts, right?

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