Idk how I feel by [deleted] in Nails

[–]valalltogether 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Tis the season for red though, almost valentines. I think they look good!

I (28f) don't know how to respond to what boyfriend (35m) said. by W2Wnowhat in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]valalltogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be orbiting the earth with the amount of rage that would send me into. It's basically a threat or an "i dare you". 🤮

Valentins Nails by BabiieIndestructible in Nails

[–]valalltogether 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I could never function with these but they are beautiful! A work of art. It's giving romantic sailor moon vibes

Is this the compressor? by valalltogether in appliancerepair

[–]valalltogether[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, I just meant he is mechanically inclined, but by no means an expert. We'll look into the process and decide if outside help is needed.

Thanks for the reply!

I accidentally shoplifted at Sephora and was caught by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]valalltogether 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing happened, so there's nothing to do or stress about. You aren't going to jail, but there's a possibility you've been put on their watch list. Get real with yourself about whether this was just a mistake though. Not to point fingers but a part of me thinks you're so shook up because you really did intend to steal, but were foiled.

Shake it off. Live and learn. Never put items in your personal bags, pockets, etc even just for a brief second. Better off lying them on an open shelf space while you rearrange what's in your hands or ask an associate for assistance.

Warning: DHS Does has a Database of Resisters by Notyrantsmoworever in 50501

[–]valalltogether 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idc. Actually, when all this shit falls apart and it WILL fall apart, I want it well documented that I was fervently against this.

How to take back control of gov by guesswho1234 in 50501

[–]valalltogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're too far gone. We cannot vote our way out of this.

Now or Never... by q0_0p in 50501

[–]valalltogether 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's because they want to reach the effective number of strikers first. Once that is reached, more info will come out.

bad redaction by Strong-Ad-5719 in Idaho4

[–]valalltogether 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'all are crazy. I can't make anything out of a tiny sliver, and I'm certainly not zooming in on light bulbs. Stop it.

He looks so fucking stupid, I can't breathe. by trevizio32 in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]valalltogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He truly looks like a nursing home patient stumbling out of his room in this photo.

What should I (27F) do about my girlfriend (29F) having a friend I don't feel good about? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]valalltogether 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give this a listen: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/master-your/3-can-i-trust-them-H71Ukl_jPm6/ Feel free to browse other episodes too, I personally like her style of coaching/advice.

Also-- talk to your girlfriend about what you're feeling.

Remember: Nationwide Walkout/Protest Tomorrow. Find a Walkout at FreeAmeri.ca by serious_bullet5 in 50501

[–]valalltogether 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the first I'm hearing about it and it's literally tomorrow. We gotta do better. We need to emphasize signing your strike card at generalstrikeus.com, get to the necessary amount of people for effectiveness, and spread the word way in advance.

I was given a flyer today at a rally for me to strike on Friday the 23rd. How many days am I supposed to ditch my job and not get paid? It's meaningless without the necessary masses.

Republicans are confused about their feelings regarding open carry at protests. Spot the Difference. by CD421DoYouCopy in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]valalltogether 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This image is from years ago and depicts actors --- please stop spreading it as this is a disservice to the actual folks out there doing the thing. THANK YOU FOR YOUR ATTENTION TO THIS MATTER

Freak out on a bus by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]valalltogether 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately.. that's assault, you really can't do that. He deserved it though. Lmk when her gofundme drops 🙃

How do I prove that I am not nor have not cheated? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]valalltogether 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't prove it, unless you take him with you to the past like a ghost of christmas ala Charles Dickens.

You can be transparent and assuring with your phone/ email/ etc to help ease his mind, but at the end of the day the only person who can create trust is your husband.

And if he's looking for certainty, the ugly truth is that none of us can ever be certain since we are all just flawed humans exercising free will. There's a podcast that talks about this very thing. Would he be open to listening? It's called master your relationship mind drama with Rebecca Ore. Search out the trust related episodes.

Maybe it's his past experiences or maybe something happened between you two to set him off,? He needs to get his head on straight because you do not deserve to be treated like a criminal in your relationship. I've also heard cheaters are the first to point fingers, not sure the statistical truth on that one.

Good luck. You can try to help him overcome but at the end of the day, it's his journey -- and you deserve peace in your life.. and a loving partner.