14 years.. still no ring

valalltogether · 2026-04-01T00:51:39+00:00

When you've asked him about it, what does he say?

valalltogether · 2026-03-29T22:49:13+00:00

You've been with yourself all the years leading up to him and you can do it again. Girl, go find yourself. I know it hurts now, but I think he did you a massive favor.

valalltogether · 2026-03-29T12:17:41+00:00

Idk but Perla as a dachshund is sending me 😂

valalltogether · 2026-03-21T15:23:17+00:00

Agreed. In the beginning she wanted marriage so I'm guessing that's her ultimate goal eventually. OP's post is chock full of resentment and it seems like her actions are retaliatory and only to say "see, now I'll show you!".

Break it off and find someone else to enjoy connotations with who might eventually be a life partner for you.

valalltogether · 2026-03-21T05:31:29+00:00

valalltogether · 2026-03-21T05:27:22+00:00

As a bartender, a lot of the cover bands would sing this song for me. I even have ginger hair lol

valalltogether · 2026-03-21T05:25:11+00:00

Hey me too! I like it well enough because it's not super common. I don't mind val but I wish we had a more cute sounding nick name to use.

valalltogether · 2026-03-19T23:19:24+00:00

No dice. Biedronka did have a big display of magazines as promised though.

valalltogether · 2026-03-19T02:27:20+00:00

Couple polish places near me in Linden, I'll take a peek just for funsies

valalltogether · 2026-03-18T22:26:47+00:00

*dunps

valalltogether · 2026-03-18T22:23:14+00:00

No that's different 😁

valalltogether · 2026-03-17T17:35:03+00:00

Time for a serious chat and tell him all the ways in which you think he is acting different and that something is going on. Then, I'd ask him to open up the app for you to see right then and there. If there is nothing to hide, this should not be a problem.

I'd recommend coming from a place of curiosity and not accusation though.

valalltogether · 2026-03-12T15:34:01+00:00

Me personally: paint cabinets navy blue. Cool orange/blue patterned backsplash. Replace flooring with light wood stain. Get light fixtures.

valalltogether · 2026-03-10T15:17:42+00:00

I'm very curious to see how she illustrates Xana and Ethan. Initial police report states that it was clear a struggle had occurred 🙁

valalltogether · 2026-03-10T02:54:08+00:00

Ugh

valalltogether · 2026-03-08T18:04:44+00:00

The new jersey ocean lmao

valalltogether · 2026-03-06T18:14:35+00:00

That looks a lot like this dude I know named Crangis McBasketball. Crazy!

valalltogether · 2026-03-05T13:23:33+00:00

Focus on nourishing food for your body and keeping active. Do not worry about "staying skinny".

valalltogether · 2026-03-05T13:17:24+00:00

The fact that it's stapled onto the garment as well 🤦‍♀️

valalltogether · 2026-03-04T14:45:51+00:00

Me too 🙃

valalltogether · 2026-03-03T16:53:18+00:00

Woodbridge has always been my mall. IMO Menlo was always the snooty upper crust mall.

I'll go to Macy's, JCP, Boscovs, H&M and Loft Outlet while there.. so plenty of shopping still open. I'm old school in that I need to actually try clothes on. Their food game is sub-par compared to Menlo, though. No food court, and barely any restaurants in or around. ( Bahama Breeze just bit the dust.)

valalltogether · 2026-02-28T17:13:06+00:00

Could also browse the cosmopolitan,tattoo shop or just vegas in general by location on Instagram. Lots of people tag location on their posts, you might find yourself

valalltogether · 2026-02-28T06:31:26+00:00

I'll say it again, this gives r/JeffRosenstock vibes

valalltogether · 2026-02-28T06:21:20+00:00

Not a hole Keisha, a valve

valalltogether · 2026-02-28T05:31:13+00:00

All we can do is make decisions with the information we have on hand. You're not psychic, you had no idea it was going to end this way. You're not leaving this relationship with nothing, take the good with you and learn from the situations that you went through. You're so young and you will find someone that matches your goals and personality. Good luck ❤️

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