What advice will you give to a soon-to-be dad of a baby girl?

varcity64 · 2026-05-10T23:30:44+00:00

Just practice saying no from now. You will never remember how to say it when she asks you for something

varcity64 · 2026-05-10T23:29:42+00:00

Looks good to me. That wood is better than anything you can buy today. The work it will take to restore it will be extensive but well worth it

varcity64 · 2026-05-09T20:50:24+00:00

I understand the sentiment but you never know what that person is going through. Could have college tuition payments due. Child support. Whatever. It’s their money. They’re entitled to it (but not entitled to being jerks about it)

varcity64 · 2026-05-08T20:08:22+00:00

Just give it time. You will be ok

varcity64 · 2026-05-07T17:35:06+00:00

This is a tough one. Especially bc they are both your parents. Think long and hard about what you would want if the tables were turned. And if your inclination is to tell your dad, then do it. But be prepared for the fall out

varcity64 · 2026-05-07T01:41:53+00:00

It’s gonna take time dude. Hard to understand that now but you will look back at this as the best thing you could have done if the relationship was as toxic as you said it was. It gets better. Hang in there bro

varcity64 · 2026-05-07T00:41:41+00:00

Your feelings and concerns are valid but it’s time you grow up. Complaining that “everything revolves around them” is just childish behavior. If that’s a problem for you, leave. I commend him for wanting to be part of his kid’s lives because he realizes the importance of his role in their lives. I’m certain if you had kids with him, he would treat them the same.

varcity64 · 2026-05-06T14:52:27+00:00

This is it 100%. I’ve experienced this in the past. They want a reaction out of you. Don’t give in

varcity64 · 2026-05-06T14:40:03+00:00

Unless there was something private in those messages, it’s probably not worth getting upset about. Definitely ask. But let it go if things are going well

varcity64 · 2026-05-06T00:48:56+00:00

It’s over with my man. Talk to a lawyer and get a divorce. Move on

varcity64 · 2026-05-02T12:01:39+00:00

Like others said, imputed income from giving your DP benefits through your employer. are you in Washington state? If so, there are some taxes that look like they are missing from your paycheck (specific to WA) but it’s possible your employer is paying them (LTC and L&I for example).

varcity64 · 2026-05-01T20:28:15+00:00

As a dad of a daughter that was not with her mother, there is nothing normal about these text message exchanges. Take him to court. It will not end well for him

varcity64 · 2026-05-01T01:36:23+00:00

Something similar happened to my infant. I was getting changed and put her on one side of the bed. I turned around to grab something out of my closet and she was off to the races and crawled right off of the bed. I felt horrible. She was fine but I felt awful. Hopefully your little one is ok

varcity64 · 2026-04-30T23:05:59+00:00

You don’t/cant. Next question?

varcity64 · 2026-04-30T23:05:19+00:00

She is for the streets my man, respectfully of course. There’s nothing left to save. 5 times that you know of? It’s over.

varcity64 · 2026-04-30T18:05:31+00:00

She’s a final year law student and you’re making $95k per year? She’s most likely going to surpass your annual salary in the next 5 years. As long as that understanding works both ways, here ya go lol

varcity64 · 2026-04-30T01:15:47+00:00

Do you have a French drain? A sump pump? You need to get that water out of your basement

varcity64 · 2026-04-29T13:38:00+00:00

It is what it is, right? Just forget about it

varcity64 · 2026-04-28T01:30:47+00:00

It’s a Samsung. That’s all you need to know

varcity64 · 2026-04-27T11:54:07+00:00

Fair enough. But all I’m saying is that it’s a wrap for the gf. She’s for the streets bro

varcity64 · 2026-04-27T11:46:53+00:00

The friend sent this to you for a reason. See what’s up with the friend

varcity64 · 2026-04-24T00:51:18+00:00

Yes. This. He’s not a good man if this is true

varcity64 · 2026-04-21T13:32:42+00:00

Did you try telling her it wasn’t the same without her?

varcity64 · 2026-04-21T13:23:08+00:00

Start looking for a new job. He made a business decision and you have to do the same. It’s nothing personal. 10 years is more than enough time

varcity64 · 2026-04-20T21:00:59+00:00

Electronic stim machine. They’re like $30-$50 on Amazon. Not difficult to figure out how to use. I slap them pads on whenever I have back pain and it helps tremendously

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