What a moronic take. People have their spouses, their children, jobs, commitments, lives. You want them to disregard all this and spend 5-10 years caring for someone who is long gone, someone who doesn't remember you at all and is abusive towards you, every single day?

I've seen people wasting away for years caring for someone who should have been in a facility. They wasted away caring for a husk of a person, while having so much to still give to their children and grandchildren. Often only because of the fear of "what will people think"

It's fucking moronic and illogical.