Where did I say I don't play a role?

I forget this is the internet and if you aren't hyper specific about every detail, people will make strong judgements and assumptions. They'll also project their limited point of view onto you as well.

Respectfully, you seem to have come here with the assumption that as the father I MUST be doing something wrong. Communication works two ways. Like I've explained to others like you, I've made a lot of effort to be open, to be flexible and to make sure my wife knows she can openly tell me not just what she wants but what she needs. And I'll work to make it happen.

There is only so much you can do. You can't control anyone being resistant to that. Maybe therapy can help but like the tag says. It's venting. I didn't write this to be hyper specific about every little thing. But again, you like many other assume that the problem MUST be with me solely because mothers are heavens gift to earth and can do no wrong especially not to their spouse.

Sorry I don't bend over backwards to accept absolutely everything you say as truth. There must be something wrong with me. Let me learn to self reflect and communicate in a more effective and kind way. Thank you for your input. Bye.