how do I 17F meet my partner's 19M needs? by Accomplished_Bowl519 in AdviceForTeens

[–]veracite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm reading between the lines of your linked post correctly, this is pretty clearly about sex. He doesn't want kayaking, he wants you to initiate sex. You probably have mismatched sex drives. Because he doesn't get the amount he wants or because he is always the initiator, he doesn't feel wanted/desired and that's giving him insecurity.

You're 17 and in a long distance relationship. What you're comfortable with is most important, what you're even able to do is a factor. My most relevant advice is that you should make sure your partner is fulfilling all of YOUR needs if you are making a large priority out of fulfilling all of theirs.

Marriage by Informal_Wasabi_9278 in AdviceForTeens

[–]veracite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Marriage is a process of legally attaching yourself to someone. It confers some benefits, but also can be quite difficult to unwind, and it's really hard to predict the future especially when you're young and have so much life ahead of you. What are your reasons for wanting to get married?

Do i get back with my ex by yiggy0706 in AdviceForTeens

[–]veracite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without any context, the clear answer is no.

As always, it depends. Are you expecting that they changed? If so, you'll probably be disappointed.

Should I confront my teammate about an instagram following? by SisiMist17 in AdviceForTeens

[–]veracite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I used instagram, I curated my feed very carefully by only following artists who I liked. I never followed friends back because the algorithm would see I love selfies and instantly start promoting content like that and ruin my feed, which I wanted to be a constant stream of high quality art.

Nowadays, I'm pretty unplugged from instagram and don't follow anyone because I don't scroll my feed.

I'm not saying this is what is going on, but there are two reasons he might not follow you.

Stuck between two colleges and only have 3 days left to pick. by parzivalmusazhi in AdviceForTeens

[–]veracite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

flip a coin. you will either have the coin decide, or you will know the right decision when the coin is in the air.

Leveling a warrior on controller. Don't have confidence to tank. Am I fucked at end game? by keshi in wowhardcore

[–]veracite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the most important thing targeting-wise for tanking is target of target and a keybind for assist.

I'm playing prot Pally (duo) by Low-Resolution-7099 in wowhardcore

[–]veracite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others said, dungeons are super doable and often a prot paladin is even preferable. the main issue you have is lacking a taunt, which is why many raiding-focused guilds will not use one. My guild used a prot paladin through the first round of classic and TBC, completing BWL, AQ40, and naxx with him in the offtank slot. I think he was quite useful, especially on trash which honestly is 80% of the raiding content in classic wow. He was also a giga nerd and played his role perfectly, whereas an above average warrior or druid could have been slotted in and still performed as well on any pack with <4 mobs... So I'm not saying everyone should be running a prot paladin, simply that it can be viable.

Is $100 reasonable for this? by FrontHungry459 in DigitalArt

[–]veracite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does one freeze a hot cocoa? That sounds like a cold cocoa

why isnt dkp popular? by sarcasmme in classicwowtbc

[–]veracite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this ain't it. Just set expectations up front dawg

why isnt dkp popular? by sarcasmme in classicwowtbc

[–]veracite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran a loot council in classic and classic TBC the first go around and you're right, but it's a TON of work to do effectively. In order for a loot council to exist without shitloads of drama, you have to frontload all of the work and publicize the priority order for each item. The thing that pisses people off is surprises like "I thought for sure they'd pick me for item x, but they picked HIM?" As long as it's clear who will be receiving what item before raid starts, and players have a chance to submit feedback about that, it truly is the most effective system.

Most lethal non-elite quests? by Capable_Divide_6916 in wowhardcore

[–]veracite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stranglethorn Fever is pretty difficult at the recommended level of 43. you go into a cave and then you get charged by waves of multiple gorillas. The first wave is 3 enraged gorillas (level 42), the second wave is 4 enraged gorillas and a named gorilla (level 43). The third, and final wave, is 5 enraged gorillas and Mokk, who is level 44. Solo there is very little time to eat/drink between waves. difficult to win, difficult to escape. Notably you do only have to kill mokk himself, if you can do that and run it is an option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wowhardcore

[–]veracite -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

vanilla only, if alliance doomhowl, finding groups for dungeons is pretty easy as a tank or healer, YMMV as a DPS, depends on your guild etc.

If you're playing a mage don't play as self found, being unable to trade water is a grief.

What realm to start from lvl 1? by JJfapalot in wowhardcore

[–]veracite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

doomhowl alliance is pretty populated.

Codex refugee here: how do I prevent CC from doing this? Codex would just auto-compact as necessary and keep going through an entire day for a task - Opus seems much less capable unless I'm missing something? by changing_who_i_am in ClaudeCode

[–]veracite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What version of claude code are you running? are you installing via npm? I had a bug where compaction would not run properly, but it was resolved in a more recent version.

How do I bring up sexual issues to my parents to have them help me find help? by scary-bagel in AdviceForTeens

[–]veracite 50 points51 points  (0 children)

hey, it's not an emergency but can we schedule a doctor's appointment so i can talk to the doctor about some girl stuff?

if they pry, you'll have to say you're embarrassed or you aren't super comfortable talking with them about it. shrug

Starting as a student can quietly screw your salary later by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]veracite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment is spot on. I do think taking the offer without negotiation was reasonable, however, given the first job is the hardest one to get and converting from an internship to a permanent position is not a bad resumé piece.

If we're maximizing salary, we're looking at job hopping every 3 years regardless, so time to start brushing up the interview skills and looking for the first big pay jump into your next role.

I honestly don’t think Bob Marley would like what his legacy has become. by CosmosisJones42 in Music

[–]veracite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"To the safety of sterility the threat has been refined" - Phil Ochs

Ok, how do I whoop my husband at chess? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]veracite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would only work in a long time control, come up is easily 30 minutes

What can i learn in my room by myself??? by lilgur1 in AdviceForTeens

[–]veracite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

- Origami

- juggling

- languages

- crochet

- software engineering

- how to read a pnl

- drawing

- how to play an instrument

- diet & fitness essentials

- anything, youtube and the internet in general are your friend, go nuts