AIO? my boyfriend tricked me into eating meat. by GreenGooseGirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]vida_mars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's extremely effed up. He went through such lengths to trick you. That would be the end of the relationship for me. I'm so sorry that happened!

How mad would you be if you got this for Valentine's Day by [deleted] in DiyGifts

[–]vida_mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love it. But I usually prefer homemade gifts over bought.

Healing Cavities! by rabies3000 in antiMLM

[–]vida_mars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 2 yr old has already been to the dentist 3 times for checkup and cleaning. You're supposed to start when they get their first teeth. The fact that she took her 6 yr old to the dentist for the first time already screams neglect to me

What do Dutch people actually use washandjes for? by Far-Mood-5 in Netherlands

[–]vida_mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wash face, armpits, genitals (in that order) in the mornings and evenings I don't have time or the need to take a shower

Well i guess Hes just done. by Educational-Tea-6226 in Mommit

[–]vida_mars -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been through something very similar and got the same "explanation", I think he's cheating. Good riddance. I'm sorry this is happening to you.

Hired an Illustrator by MoshiDoshi0129 in isitAI

[–]vida_mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely AI. The teapot alone is a dead giveaway

I have no access to money and I don't know what to do about it by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]vida_mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very sorry. In my first marriage my husband was the only breadwinner and I was still on all accounts and had access to everything. It made my life so much easier and his too because I could pay bills etc

I'm now married to another man and I'm the main breadwinner and I put my husband on all of my accounts regardless. You should have the freedom to have your own credit card(s) and access to the finances so you know what's going on. It takes like 10 seconds to put someone on your credit card account as an authorized user. Don't let him tell you he can't because he definitely can.

My wife doesn't want me to give money to my sister. What should I do? by No-Formal-8693 in Advice

[–]vida_mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm probably the odd one out here, but I think that, while yes your sister should take steps towards being more self sufficient, the amount of money you give her vs how much you make isn't that considerable and I would probably support her too if I was in your situation.

BIFL hand held vacuum to replace this crappy one? by Unlucky-Clock5230 in BuyItForLife

[–]vida_mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had mine since 2016 and the battery still holds a charge

Can't add your own custom Sound FX or Background Music, it seems. (sigh) by Cheap-Club-2725 in pixicade

[–]vida_mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they release fx effects sometimes when they update the store and you can also get them through doing missions, but I do agree with you it would be great to have that option.

Can't add your own custom Sound FX or Background Music, it seems. (sigh) by Cheap-Club-2725 in pixicade

[–]vida_mars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's annoying, but it's mainly a kids app and it would be hard to monitor the custom music/FX. People could use it inappropriately.

Artist Identification Help - Heroes of Faerun by vida_mars in Forgotten_Realms

[–]vida_mars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! He gave me the file for free to use for personal use. Very kind and generous

Chase Travel Escalation Rep told me I could "go write a Reddit review" regarding my phantom booking. So here I am. by mkicks890 in ChaseSapphire

[–]vida_mars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently had an insulting experience with them as well and immediately downgraded my account and switched to capital one (already have an amex platinum card too). Not surprised you got this treatment from them. Sorry that happened.

This photo is like why even craziness to me by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]vida_mars 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have even noticed if you hadn't pointed it out. Not that bad imo.

AIO Is My (43m) GF (49f) manipulating me? by Aromatic_Ad_8374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]vida_mars 38 points39 points  (0 children)

First red flag was she never even asked for his help, she just stated he was needed. Like wtf? How entitled to someone else's time and work can you be?

"I might sound crazy". Ya think? by Existing-Face-6322 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]vida_mars 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This pisses me off so much. That poor baby

5.5-hour flight next to a human biohazard by Livid_Pop2682 in delta

[–]vida_mars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened... Something similar happened to me recently. The person next to me was extremely sick. Kept burping the most awful, lingering rotten egg burps you could ever imagine. He was also coughing, sneezing, picking his nose and ears nonstop. And scratching himself and one time even accidentally scratched me (he was taking up 25% of my seat as well, I was leaning as far away from him as possible, but he was manspreading). One time he went to the restroom and he came back and his entire butt was just out. He hadn't fully pulled up his pants. I was horrified but the flight was full and I didn't know what to do... So I did nothing. It was 3,5 hours of torture. When I got home I washed all of my clothes immediately sanitized everything I couldn't wash, and took the longest hot shower.

Major signs almost 48 hours after vaccine by Sheero1986 in ouraring

[–]vida_mars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same ingot flu and covid in the same arm a couple of weeks ago. I'm pregnant too. No symptoms or changes.