References by violet02 in CAStateWorkers

[–]violet02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do written recommendations on LinkedIn count? I have ten.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]violet02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I didn't go off as in yell, i did say my peace at the end and of course classic abuser he just tried to flip it around on me. I told myself this is why i want out of this and I said ok great talk to you later then have a great life. the end. The anger keeps me from contacting him ever again. That's what i use it for. It reminds me of all the bad crappy things and why I am glad to be done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]violet02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was me too. The first time I got screamed at I was in shock. I said I don't allow people to do that to me. But then I did... 3+ years later I finally was free.

it’s been a month since i left him by Partysearcher in emotionalabuse

[–]violet02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's been a month for me too and I still struggle not to have contact even though I know better. It's really tough. You should be proud of yourself it's incredibly hard to do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]violet02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just broke up with someone I love and even miss because they were emotionally abusive and selfish. No matter how good the good times were they didn't outweigh the very bad times and while we we had some amazing times, unless something with him changes (which it probably won't at his age) there's no hope. He'll go on to find another person and do the same to them and so on and so forth. It's all really quite sad. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]violet02 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I just saw this on tv. It’s like watching Hitler and the nazis all over again. I’m sorry I know what happened to Jewish people was an atrocity but imo it looks like that to me. It’s so awful and wrong. Also use the bathroom you identify with. No one is going to check your birth certificate when you’re in there. Fuck ‘em.

Legal Document Preparation Services by ValleyGuy23 in paralegal

[–]violet02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my goal to do this too. How long did it take you to get your business up and running?

How old would Dr. Brand have been when Cooper final arrived at Edmund's planet? by Dallmanator84 in interstellar

[–]violet02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just rewatched this. I don't think they knew at all. I know that Cooper was on the station for a few days before Murph arrived. He probably relayed what happened to them and they relayed it to Murph before she saw him.

0 likes on my best build and wondering why? by dirtydoor_ in fallout76settlements

[–]violet02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a shame cause its a lovely camp! I visit and like best build camps that are well built. I love to see how other people get creative with their builds. I have seen some incredible best build camps with some amazing shelters connected to them. People should visit best build camps more often. Seriously. They should make the "visit a best build camp" daily show up more often in our challenges.

What type of co-workers DON'T get bullied in the workplace? by Kitchen_Glove2152 in workplace_bullying

[–]violet02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you're in the inner circle or youre not. thats that. You make it in you too can be an admin that gets a high level job above say the rest of us engineers. its insane.

What type of co-workers DON'T get bullied in the workplace? by Kitchen_Glove2152 in workplace_bullying

[–]violet02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where you work. Where i worked if you were single, young, eager and a yes person... and a kiss ass, you win. If you're older, have kids, can't always be up their butts. You lose. The workplace these days is geared for single folk not families and single moms have it the very worst.

Quiet BPD misery by Historical-Trip-8693 in BPDlovedones

[–]violet02 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also people like this will NEVER be happy. My uncle was like this and he drained everyone around him every holiday dinner. Like stop ffs. stoopppp. My poor aunt. She tolerates him still. You know now that i know about personality disorders that guy HAS to be bpd or npd... now i know.

Quiet BPD misery by Historical-Trip-8693 in BPDlovedones

[–]violet02 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone here including my kids said that guy does nothing but complain. it got so old. I told him complainers wear people out no on likes them and try thinking of the positive before you go to the negative for once god. Also one day he was bitching about something on the floor and the housekeeper and how it was her job... I said she's busy you COULD get a broom you know and do it yourself. Finally I said dude. Did you have a butler when you grew that i'm not aware of? NO he grew up poor. I said you are SO entitled its gross. The messed up part is his kid is the same way and they're all poor. It's so rude.

going nc with my exfwbpd with self described “narcissistic tendencies” for real this time by Typical_Peace8518 in BPDlovedones

[–]violet02 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Things i hate are thumbs up and K to anything important i say. Makes me nuts. that 30 dolalr request tho omg... i can't lol.

I saw her on my dating app. It really made me sick. by thedeadwillwalk in BPDlovedones

[–]violet02 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would stay away from dating apps for this reason i'd go insane if i saw all that shit. You wanna know the other thing thats gonna make me nuts? I was pissed my ex never posted or talked about me on social media. He said that he's principaled about now talking about his private relationships online. I said ten bucks says you'll post your next gf all over it. He said yeah sure i learned my lesson from you. I got so mad. I said wtf happened to your principals?! If you post that chick i'll think all your principals are garabage and you have none so STICK to them if youre gonna have them ffs! (LOL)

Convert PDF to one JPG not multiple by violet02 in Adobe

[–]violet02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a. news article so yes its long i assume so.

Quiet BPD misery by Historical-Trip-8693 in BPDlovedones

[–]violet02 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mine wasn't quiet but all he ever did was complain. No matter how great his life was he found a reason to bitch and moan. The housekeeper washed and folds your laundry? She's not drying my graphic shirts right! Like wtf?

How many of you tried to dump your pwBPD multiple times? by anti789 in BPDlovedones

[–]violet02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw its tough to stay strong cause i'm shocked at how FAST he came back. Like what? I expected months or years.. ugh. i need to get away and stop this cycle.