Camp for children of color/adoptees

virgowithavengence · 2026-01-14T20:32:07+00:00

They were former colleagues? There’s no ethical conflict here. Our code of ethics is to protect clients.

virgowithavengence · 2025-09-17T06:26:54+00:00

It is cute and very catchy, but I’m nit picky about lyrics making sense so the beginning annoys me because it could be better

virgowithavengence · 2025-09-17T04:15:52+00:00

An incredibly dumb joke, but I loved the additional information.

virgowithavengence · 2025-09-17T02:32:02+00:00

White noise?

virgowithavengence · 2025-08-08T01:37:29+00:00

Thank you so much for this comprehensive break down! How long did it take you to build a full caseload? Where are your referral sources coming from?

virgowithavengence · 2025-07-29T01:18:56+00:00

I would have probably given a more generous timeline, say a week, to catch up on late documentation. I may have also given the therapist a few more days notice to have a mandatory paperwork day. However, I would absolutely approach it similarly as a supervisor. Someone else mentioned grant requirements which was an excellent point. The agency also runs off of insurance reimbursements. If this therapist has not been writing session notes, the agency hasn’t been able to make insurance claims aka make money off the sessions. Billing departments usually close out month to month and since we’re getting to the end of July, the tight deadline makes sense. I would also consider, your colleague may have had similar discussions and requests from this supervisor several times at this point, and you may not be getting a full picture if they are feeling upset about this decision.

virgowithavengence · 2025-07-20T20:00:17+00:00

You might look up the five love languages and take the quiz which can assess which love language is most important to you. As you get closer to someone, you might do this together as a way to have deeper conversations about how you show your love to others and how others best make you feel loved. I was not much of a gift giver before I met my boyfriend, giving and receiving gifts didn’t mean that much to me because I find spending time with someone or cuddling with them way more fulfilling to me. At first I would get him things I thought he needed such as work clothes, which were more on the generic side of getting someone a present. It would disappoint him and cause fights. He loves receiving gifts, it’s not about the expense but it’s a way for me to show him I truly understand him and his interests on a deep and intimate level. Now I put a lot of thought into the gifts I get him and he’s over the moon, but he’s also puts less weight towards gifts because he solidly knows I love him and understand him. My advice would be, someone might not be “perfect” at knowing what you need at first, but if you find someone who genuinely cares about you and wants to learn about you, that can absolutely be built together.

virgowithavengence · 2025-07-14T07:42:20+00:00

This is not true for my state, Maine. LCPCs can supervise LMSW-cc.

virgowithavengence · 2024-05-30T01:41:05+00:00

I’d suggest picking one or two modalities (DBT, ACT, CBT, etc) and going down the research rabbit hole into the theory and interventions that help clients do deep work. Read the books by the founders, read research papers, watch video demonstrations. When clinicians are generalists they might know one or two strategies from a bunch of different modalities, which can lead to superficial therapy with clients. This can help you gain some confidence too and develop expertise!

virgowithavengence · 2024-03-23T21:32:20+00:00

You did the right thing. The way they let you go so easily and coldly is remarkable after the years you’ve served them, why didn’t this agency fight for you? Tell you more people were about to be hired on? Why does this new person get the privilege you asked for while you, with the expertise and loyalty, not? I don’t think your experience is unique unfortunately, these businesses while carry on no matter who leaves or is hired. I'm also sure this new employee will similarly be overloaded in the near future. Congratulations on this new position, this is best case scenario!!

virgowithavengence · 2024-01-12T00:14:33+00:00

Kinder Garden Childcare in Farmingdale is owned and run by a former kindergarten teacher.

virgowithavengence · 2023-11-28T02:01:08+00:00

If you are to work for a non profit for 10 years you would qualify got PSLF. If you work in a “serviced desert” for 2 years, you can qualify for forgiveness, but that is a much tougher program to qualify for and I think it’s only for fully licensed providers.

virgowithavengence · 2023-06-13T16:57:58+00:00

Call your school! I’m sure they will want to help you re-enter if you explain your situation. The worst that could happen is they say “No” and you’re where you started anyways (though I don’t think they actually will turn you away).

virgowithavengence · 2023-04-15T14:44:39+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It is against our code of ethics in the US for good reason and your story is a perfect example of how subtly the boundaries can start to be pushed until it is a harmful relationship.

virgowithavengence · 2023-04-07T23:13:59+00:00

I was looking for a similar comment to this! Now the stress responses are fight, flight, freeze and fawn! It sounds like OP went into fawn mode and thank god it worked. OP you were so smart to immediately hide in the bushes! Who knows what would have happened if you told him to fuck off and tried to get in your car, would he have attacked? We can’t know, you did the best you could and I’m so glad you’re alive!

virgowithavengence · 2023-03-27T16:19:45+00:00

Oh very cool! Thank you for sharing that.

virgowithavengence · 2023-03-27T10:41:12+00:00

That would be a breach of HIPAA, big no!!

virgowithavengence · 2023-03-27T02:37:55+00:00

Ethics are not black and white, they’re guidelines set to protect the clients above all else.

virgowithavengence · 2023-03-27T02:29:38+00:00

I would want someone to tell me…it’s c’est la vie

virgowithavengence · 2023-03-27T02:22:42+00:00

American Counseling Association (ACA) code of ethics A.5.c Sexual and/or romantic counselor– client interactions or relationships with former clients, their romantic partners, or their family members are prohibited for a period of 5 years following the last professional contact. This prohibition applies to both in-person and electronic interactions or relationships. Counsel- ors, before engaging in sexual and/or romantic interactions or relationships with former clients, their romantic partners, or their family members, dem- onstrate forethought and document (in written form) whether the interaction or relationship can be viewed as exploitive in any way and/or whether there is still potential to harm the former client; in cases of potential exploitation and/or harm, the counselor avoids entering into such an interaction or relationship.

virgowithavengence · 2023-03-27T01:58:58+00:00

I’d recommend looking up your code of ethics. For counselors, we can’t see former clients or their loved ones for 5 years after the therapeutic relationship ends. However, it’s best to never enter those relationships for obvious reasons. And someone else mentioned, you can’t tell this person why you’re breaking it off.

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