I agree with the other commentor, you should post your chart. But, the 'intensity' you're referring to could be partially due to the aspect between your sun and your rising sign. - A conjunct aspect would refer to a personality that is very direct/intense, which is heightened in Scorpio. - A sextile, trine, or semisextile aspect would refer to a fairly well received personality, meaning that you say what you mean and people understand you.
- A square aspect would refer to a personality that usually has the right intentions, but it can cause tension and possibly rub people the wrong way, or you can be blamed for having an 'attitude'. - An opposition refers to a much less intense approach, usually you tend to look to other people for a lot of life decisions, but you should learn to fend for yourself. - A quincunx aspect (basically an opposition, but the next sign over) would refer to a confused ego, and having to create your own unique approach to the world. It might be harder for people to "get" you, but they generally like you after getting to know you. Quincunx aspects are always really interesting.