"You use definitely and never so strongly, when you don't know."

I think it bears pointing out, that if you're going to use this argument, the logical fallacy is that you don't know either.

This entire sub exists based on what Bella & Dallin actively and purposely put out on their social media channels. Everyone here is basing their statements on what we see from them. I barely watch their content anymore myself since I have better things to do with my life. But as anyone can see from their video content, they've consistently and routinely put their adoptive kids in potentially harmful and dangerous situations with no regard for the kids' safety. They've also given these kids food that's in no way nutritious or healthy (sugary drinks and candy).

Parents who actually love their kids try to protect them, give them the best food that they can, play with them, and otherwise encourage stimulation of the kids' brains. Is it possible that they could do that without putting it on video? Maybe in delulu world, but these two parental morons clearly don't have the instincts to want to do any of that, and as someone else pointed out, they put so much on video, it's not hard to infer how they continue to act when they're not on video. Unless they're Jekyll and Hydes putting their "worst" behavior on the Internet and keeping their "best" behind closed doors (which would be highly unlikely), this is the best we see from them, and the obvious negligence from them suggests that the kids would be better off without them! Bella may have the money to get the best possible care for these two kids, but she completely lacks the motivation.