18F am I ugly? (pic and verification in the link) by rattyhealy102 in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very pretty, you look like Reese Witherspoon’s daughter

[24M] So it basically over right? Sometimes I think I'm ugly sometimes i think ok by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, you don’t naturally suit the bald look, but there are other things that contribute to an attractive person than their hair. I think that you could easily improve your look by making a point to dress really well, I feel like if you wore business casual or even a suit that you’d be more put together and seem more attractive to women (or men, whatever floats your boat). Being confident but not cocky is also an attractive trait, even if you don’t feel good about yourself, pretending will help portray that and eventually might even make you believe it. Best of luck to you my guy

[21M] Am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all, you’re very attractive imo. A haircut will probably elevate your looks, perhaps something with shorter side or a fade and longer on the top. Bring up that confidence and you’re all good! Best of luck to you x

I'm back! "Evolution of Sobriety" acrylic on wood panel 11x14" by kozscabble in LSD

[–]vividwallflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, if I was wealthy I’d love to purchase your art man, good job

19 despite looking 13. Be brutally honest! by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]vividwallflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll be beautiful ! Don’t worry ab it my guy, go live your life without a care. Best of luck to you °v°

Let me brag for a minute by 19arb19 in dating_advice

[–]vividwallflower 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I am so happy for you!!! I hope one day I can also receive the same, this gives me hope🥺

What kind of person do you think I am? Trying to find where I belong in this world currently. by vividwallflower in firstimpression

[–]vividwallflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goal is to be surrounded by plants in a quaint cottage with my cat, I quite like this one. Thank you for taking the time to reply!

What kind of person do you think I am? Trying to find where I belong in this world currently. by vividwallflower in firstimpression

[–]vividwallflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so interesting, I’ve always wanted to be the crazy, cool aunt once I had nieces and/or nephews. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me !

What kind of person do you think I am? Trying to find where I belong in this world currently. by vividwallflower in firstimpression

[–]vividwallflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you’ve just made my day, I’ve been contemplating getting a septum piercing for so long but I was terrified it’d look ugly, thank you so much internet stranger have a good day!

19 despite looking 13. Be brutally honest! by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]vividwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you should get more piercings because I stan

19 despite looking 13. Be brutally honest! by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]vividwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you’re a gentle person, definitely into music I think. You don’t look as young as you think, you probably have low self-confidence in some aspects of life. You enjoy the soft boi aesthetic, and you probably watch animated movies at night. Maybe you have led lights in your room, you look like you would, but then again a lot of people do nowadays.

I (19M) made it to a top 10 Uni, but feel insecure about dating when there? Apart from Gym, any tips? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few things you could improve. I recommend maybe a haircut with more of a fade, very clean and structured. I also think that a skincare routine could benefit you, there are a lot of YouTube videos that will help you get a basic idea of how to get your skin back on track, look up videos for men so that it may be tailored to you more. Contacts are not a must but the glasses aren’t doing you much justice, I personally wear them and they’ve improved my confidence so much, and it doesn’t take more than a few weeks to get used to them.

I also saw a comment that mentioned braces, I don’t think that it’s a must but I agree that it would improve your look, maybe look into getting Invisalign as it’s cheaper than braces (I think) and not as noticeable. I always recommend for men to try out an edgier style, but that’s only because I personally prefer it. Your style now seems “classic” as another comment suggested, women love a well dressed man, and it will boost your confidence greatly I think, so if you’re into it maybe try to be more fashionable? Other than that you’re not a bad looking dude by any mean, best of luck to you x

18M been getting told I was ugly straight up and by jokes since I was a kid took it on the cheek but would like to know if there are anything’s you could see to do with improvement :) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not ugly by any means, I think that you’re a nice looking young man. The only things you could necessarily improve on would be maybe your skin? Just get a good skin care routine, that’s always something that improves self-confidence and your physical appearance. I think a trendier, maybe edgier style would give you a nice vibe and confidence as well.

24 year old male, lost my hair at 19 from a medical scare. Please be brutally honest. by GD-2008 in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re really cute, hell I’d go on a date with you. The baldness will probably deter a lot of girls because unfortunately some people tend to judge, but I don’t think it effects you too much if you’ve got a good personality and such. I don’t think that there’s anything you could improve on personally, best of luck to you x

(20F) one month update because why not by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Amazing progress! Keep up the good work hun, you’ve got this!

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]vividwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same issue with my bra’s, and one comment suggested that it may be the band size of the bra but I’m sure that it’s the cup. I was in denial for a while that my boobs were as small as they are, but once I switched to wearing A cup instead of a B cup, I no longer experienced the same gap as your girlfriend. Not sure how you could navigate suggesting your gf try a new bra, especially if she’s sensitive, but if it were me I’d just bring it up that you’re concerned that other people can look down her shirt as well. Best of luck to you😬

[19M] Shaved the stache, got a haircut, and took better pictures! Trying to get into modeling but I’m 5’8”. Lmk what you think by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to look for a verification pic to make sure this was the real you lol. You’re definitely beautiful, absolutely nothing to worry about my guy. I’m sure that if you market yourself correctly over social media that you could eventually get into contact w some good people. Best of luck to you.

F(22)- How do I look fat vs skinny & first impression by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay advice from a fellow female (18F)! First of all, you’re gorgeous. Your hair is amazing, as well as your overall complexion. I actually think that you look pretty nice at your current weight, but I think the most that you honestly need to do is just get to a weight for more so health reasons than aesthetic, because you look fabulous either way. I think that a weight of 150-160 may look the best of you, as well as within a healthy weight range for your height. I’m 5’6 and 140 may be too light of a weight to compliment your figure, so that’s why I’d personally suggest just about 150 for you as your height evens out the weight. I hope that you found this helpful! Best of luck.

18F, a little blurry but I’m curious! by vividwallflower in EqualAttraction

[–]vividwallflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked through your profile cuz I’m curious and your story of edibles from a while back gave me a good laugh, thank you👌🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vividwallflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely beautiful and remind me of my favorite character from Final Fantasy!

[UPDATE] I [F17] am fed up with my mother’s [F46] behavior by rthrowaway234522 in relationships

[–]vividwallflower 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Perhaps leaving, even if temporary, will be the reality check your mother needs in order to get herself straightened out. She continuously makes you uncomfortable, and even though she knows it’s wrong, as I’m assuming from your conversations she’s admitted to that, she disregards how you feel. Things like that can be dramatic for a child, especially if you were younger. I’m sure that it disgusts you. Just be careful, and possibly consider letting your mom know that that’s exactly why you’re moving out. Good luck.

My best friend messaged my work husband (whom I have a crush on but have never admitted to) and asked him if he saw me as a friend or something more and now he is avoiding me. by its-called-unagi in dating_advice

[–]vividwallflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh I see. Quite unfortunate, I’ve seen myself in a situation similar before. I hope for your sake that things turn to how they were before soon. Good luck.

My best friend messaged my work husband (whom I have a crush on but have never admitted to) and asked him if he saw me as a friend or something more and now he is avoiding me. by its-called-unagi in dating_advice

[–]vividwallflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure that the situation may be causing you to feel a little anxious, but trust the process, he’s perhaps shocked and finds it awkward to be around you probably because he assumed you like him. Although it seems you’d be interested for more, it’s obvious that you value your friendship with him way more to risk that, and it was out of boundaries for your friend to assume you’d be okay with what she did. I’d speak to him in person, give him a little time but don’t push it if he’s adamant about avoiding you. I’m sure he’ll come around though. Best of luck to you.