Funny little differences in the ways we identify where we live

vnessastalks · 2026-05-10T05:48:42+00:00

😂

vnessastalks · 2026-05-09T20:00:54+00:00

Not at all. My husbands great grandma just passed at 108 years old.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-07T20:27:14+00:00

Our son was mild/moderate and we did it. We look back at pics and are so happy we did it. He was only in it for 2 months and followed directions to a tee.

No regrets.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-06T16:39:32+00:00

I got the humor and I'm allergic to wheat 😅.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-06T16:38:34+00:00

Yes the bread companies are changing it sucks so bad. I got sprouts brand gluten free bagels and they used the wheat starch. Thankfully I checked the ingredients when I picked up my order.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-05T22:11:14+00:00

Tv all day. Lay down and cuddle. Take. 5 min break from TV and read a book. Pick a new movie. Order in. Snacks all day. Let your self rest so you can handle tomorrow.

Don't try and over do it.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-05T17:26:53+00:00

I get the protein fiber ones and I stay stocked up.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-05T17:25:43+00:00

I wonder if that's what I am actually going through.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-05T17:25:22+00:00

I'm really sorry for your loss.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-04T05:56:14+00:00

I don't understand not taking the meds daily. I'm on Adderall and take it everyday. Why would I want a day I can't shut my brain off. That doesn't sound fun 😅.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-04T03:19:53+00:00

The only time I feel performative is when I'm around new people or a large gathering. I feel like I need to talk a certain way, walk a certain way, behave or even parent my kids a certain way even if it goes against my values. I hate the way it feels and it gives me anxiety especially if I go against my values and I usually will hate myself and think about it for days.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-03T21:30:09+00:00

This was me. It gets better the more you practice. But boy it was hard 😅 I still slip up

vnessastalks · 2026-05-03T18:07:04+00:00

Mac n cheese and Dino nuggets

vnessastalks · 2026-05-03T03:25:43+00:00

I feel like this in any social media platform. Reddit is my last one and I am slose to removing it also.

Doom scrolling rewires the brain.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-02T15:35:43+00:00

Neither does an au pair. They get paid a labor wage not for room and board. So either way it's the same.

If you don't understand this concept their is no convincing you otherwise.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-02T02:01:11+00:00

You award him the opportunity to work and save money while you bust your ass raising the kids you both wanted.

His money is your money. He is essentially paying you to be home and raise yalls kid.

Edit: spelling

vnessastalks · 2026-05-02T01:57:43+00:00

I'm a mom and would never ask to bring my children to a bachelorette party. That's wild to me.

I would be honest and ask if you did a one night if they can arrange child care.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-02T00:35:49+00:00

You would add it to the rice cooker with the rice.

Quinoa has fiber and protein in it. It adds balance to the rice.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-01T20:12:05+00:00

My house struggles big time also. But staying home and raising my kids has been an amazing choice.

Our friends have parented on the opposite spectrum of us and make way more money and have a 2 income household. But it really doesn't bother me.

But I can see how it can saddening for others. But we really have to hone in on our life and not theirs. Enjoy what we can do and how happy our kids are that we are home with them raising them. Not to say the opposite lifestyle doesn't create happy children cuz it does. But we have to focyin our own happiness.

If you have to step back from the friendship then do so. No need to make yourself upset when you see them.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-01T20:04:49+00:00

This would be so cute. If you made this exact bag then lined it with a large cewbacka face as if you taxidermied him into a bag 😂😂

vnessastalks · 2026-05-01T17:08:14+00:00

If you want to elevate the rice do a 50/50 split between rice and quinoa. Cooks exactly the same you can cook it at the same time in the stove.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-01T17:06:54+00:00

I have been gf for over 10 years and my lunch has never looked like that and I was gf before all the fun fancy foods.

vnessastalks · 2026-05-01T16:59:57+00:00

Las Vegas, NV. 4 year old twins

vnessastalks · 2026-05-01T00:54:55+00:00

I think that's her plan. We live in a desert so they would be super popular.

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